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I Dont Understand Her!! by habbey143: 6:13am On Feb 07, 2015
GOOD DAY
Please have been dating this girl for 3 years now and i never planned to disflower her cry but from the beginning of this year she no longer has respect for me she gives guys her number and tell me she cant stop talking to them and each time we fight she doesnt bother calling cos her mind will be like she has nothing to lose....have planned to marry her thats why i didnt disflower her not that i dont have the chance but with this her new character am planning to bang the hell out of her and move on but i love her so much, each time i want to talk to her about it she wont bother to listen and she only comes to my place when cash is involve or gift when shes not olosho mind you shes just 19 now and you should imagine the time and energy have invested in this relationship..her parent knows me well but wont talk fact into her head so please if disflower her and break up have i done anything wrong cos shes ready to do the same too without looking back cos i didnt disflower her
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by klark3: 6:20am On Feb 07, 2015
The day a man fall in love, he automatically bcoms a fool. *sigh*

#boys say no to LOVE, it's a manipulative tool for women, say yes to LIKE.

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Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by agohmamuda(m): 6:21am On Feb 07, 2015
I couldn't understand much from ur write up; But I'll tell you this. Ur case is a case of "Good Girl Gone Bad". She's gone. Just help her with transport brov.
#gudmorning.

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Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by TrishaP(f): 6:21am On Feb 07, 2015
How old are you no offense
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by Tarteenah: 6:32am On Feb 07, 2015
Looooool! Do u really love her? this one ur planning to do evil! Disflower her and breakup with her! Hw heartless can u be! She is 19, not even 24 or 25....u shd expect certain childish behaviour! beht wait first, how old are you too angry

...and ur sure u dint do anything to make her start behaving the way u said she is behaving? Cmon! She dint just wake up to do daat! So dnt paint ursef WHITE!

Finally, if u dnt like her new attitude, talk to her abt it, if u can't still tolerate,BOUNCE! If she loves u, she wouldn't let it get to that point smiley

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Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by Nobody: 6:32am On Feb 07, 2015
Let her go since you hv tried talking sense into her,she gonna regret loosing you .Maybe they have already deflower her.Virginity is good though.Are u after the real her or virginity.
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by harrysterol(m): 6:47am On Feb 07, 2015
Op! Virginity is not a guarantee for an individual's behaviour, is only any individual walking without a broken hyne, which does not add anything to her intellectual capabilities, in other words virginity automatically does not stop such individual from misbehaviour, misplaced priorities are "IN" not "OUT" of a person

Lesson look beyond a woman's legs to get best out of her because the Vagina$ has nothing to do with the brain, if you luv her talk to her but in my opinion 19 she is still a toddler maybe her M frnds have been doing the duties for u
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by habbey143: 6:51am On Feb 07, 2015
dayflower:
Let her go since you hv tried talking sense into her,she gonna regret loosing you .Maybe they have already deflower her.Virginity is good though.Are u after the real her or virginity.
am not after the virginity she knows i love her so much but the emotional torture is too much
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by habbey143: 6:51am On Feb 07, 2015
TrishaP:
How old are you no offense
in my early 20s
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by Nobody: 6:53am On Feb 07, 2015
she's just 19! and you're ranting all these shit about her!

Are you planning to marry her now? Anyway! because she started talking to other guys, you are feeling insecure? undecided Guys and trust issues sha!

if you bang her and break up with her, that means you never loved her, so just carry your balls and move on!

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Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by habbey143: 6:54am On Feb 07, 2015
harrysterol:
Op! Virginity is not a guarantee for an individual's behaviour, is only any individual walking without a broken hyne, which does not add anything to her intellectual capabilities, in other words it automatically does not make such individual from misbehaviour, misplaced priorities are "IN" not "OUT" of a person

Lesson look beyond a woman's legs to get best out of her because the Vagina$ has nothing to do with the brain, if you luv her talk to her but in my opinion 19 she is still a toddler maybe her M frnds have been doing the duties for u
i think so she doesnt like sex and i tried breaking up but if i go see her and i want to do anything with her she will allow me but dont just know what happened but i offended her and begged she agreed but can that cause it? the way she receive calls now customer care agent will be jealous
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by habbey143: 6:55am On Feb 07, 2015
Nneka123:
she's just 19! and you're ranting all these shit about her!

Are you planning to marry her now? Anyway! because she started talking to other guys, you are feeling insecure? undecided Guys and trust issues sha!

if you bang her and break up with her, that means you never loved her, so just carry your balls and move on!

but its not easy moving on and she always nags and always calling me FOOL i was now thinking maybe i didnt sleep with her for 3 years or what
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by habbey143: 6:56am On Feb 07, 2015
agohmamuda:
I couldn't understand much from ur write up; But I'll tell you this. Ur case is a case of "Good Girl Gone Bad". She's gone. Just help her with transport brov.
#gudmorning.
You are right and always tells me nothing can stop her
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by habbey143: 6:57am On Feb 07, 2015
klark3:
The day a man fall in love, he automatically bcoms a fool. *sigh*

#boys say no to LOVE, it's a manipulative tool for women, say yes to LIKE.
bro you are very right thats why i will bang her and leave her too

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Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by habbey143: 7:00am On Feb 07, 2015
dayflower:
Let her go since you hv tried talking sense into her,she gonna regret loosing you .Maybe they have already deflower her.Virginity is good though.Are u after the real her or virginity.
i think you have a point cos the way she flirts with guys now i dont understand
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by Nobody: 7:01am On Feb 07, 2015
habbey143:

but its not easy moving on and she always nags and always calling me FOOL i was now thinking maybe i didnt sleep with her for 3 years or what
maybe she doesn't want you, can't you read her body language?
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by englishmart(m): 7:04am On Feb 07, 2015
habbey143:
GOOD DAY
Please have been dating this girl for 3 years now and i never planned to disflower her cry but from the beginning of this year she no longer has respect for me she gives guys her number and tell me she cant stop talking to them and each time we fight she doesnt bother calling cos her mind will be like she has nothing to lose....have planned to marry her thats why i didnt disflower her not that i dont have the chance but with this her new character am planning to bang the hell out of her and move on but i love her so much, each time i want to talk to her about it she wont bother to listen and she only comes to my place when cash is involve or gift when shes not olosho mind you shes just 19 now and you should imagine the time and energy have invested in this relationship..her parent knows me well but wont talk fact into her head so please if disflower her and break up have i done anything wrong cos shes ready to do the same too without looking back cos i didnt disflower her
this is what happens When you allow another guy to open the eyes of your own babe. Gone are those days bro.
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by habbey143: 7:04am On Feb 07, 2015
Nneka123:
maybe she doesn't want you, can't you read her body language?
ok then i will do whats on my mind since she has no emotional attachment to me
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by habbey143: 7:05am On Feb 07, 2015
Nneka123:
maybe she doesn't want you, can't you read her body language?
ok then i will do whats on my mind since she has no emotional attachment to me but she still let me kiss her and smoosh ooh?? and i offended but have begged her and she accepted can that cause it?
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by habbey143: 7:05am On Feb 07, 2015
englishmart:
this is what happens When you allow another guy to open the eyes of your own babe. Gone are those days bro.
what should i do now?
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by asdfjklhaha(f): 7:05am On Feb 07, 2015
Maybe she's begining to get tired of u, and wants some freedom. Talk to her about her change in attitude, and let her understand how its hurting u. Finally try to be more caring towards her.
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by habbey143: 7:07am On Feb 07, 2015
asdfjklhaha:
Maybe she's begining to get tired of u, and wants some freedom. Talk to her about her change in attitude, and let her understand how its hurting u. Finally try to be more caring towards her.
she always says am not caring but i do cos i love her and she always says she wants freedom and always tell me not to take her serious
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by harrysterol(m): 7:08am On Feb 07, 2015
habbey143:

i think so she doesnt like sex and i tried breaking up but if i go see her and i want to do anything with her she will allow me but dont just know what happened but i offended her and begged she agreed but can that cause it? the way she receive calls now customer care agent will be jealous
is not because you had misunderstanding with you, is because she sees herself now as a big girl and can do whatever she likes ,wen a gal start answering call in that way,hmmmm am afraid porousity has entered , you just making a list of his bf's not a major date, so the choice is urs either to stay on the queue or leave
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by asdfjklhaha(f): 7:09am On Feb 07, 2015
habbey143:

she always says am not caring but i do cos i love her and she always says she wants freedom and always tell me not to take her serious
In that case give her d freedom she craves 4 and stop taking her serious. Its obvious that's she's found someone else.
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by Nobody: 7:10am On Feb 07, 2015
habbey143:
ok then i will do whats on my mind since she has no emotional attachment to me but she still let me kiss her and smoosh ooh?? and i offended but have begged her and she accepted can that cause it?
maybe you are not kissing her right grin

kidding!

try and take her out on a date, then you can have this conversation about your relationship with her.
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by habbey143: 7:13am On Feb 07, 2015
Nneka123:
maybe you are not kissing her right grin

kidding!

try and take her out on a date, then you can have this conversation about your relationship with her.
ok and she has been materialistic and wont ask anything from the other guys he has except only me and always tell me she just like them
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by harrysterol(m): 7:14am On Feb 07, 2015
habbey143:

but its not easy moving on and she always nags and always calling me FOOL i was now thinking maybe i didnt sleep with her for 3 years or what
. She calls you a FOOL? shocked shocked oh! Lord have mercy and what are you still doing with her? Wen a gal stop respecting you to the extent of calling you a fool am sorry bro your case is beyond repairs

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Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by habbey143: 7:14am On Feb 07, 2015
harrysterol:
is not because you had misunderstanding with you, is because she sees herself now as a big girl and can do whatever she likes ,wen a gal start answering call in that way,hmmmm am afraid porousity has entered , you just making a list of his bf's not a major date, so the choice is urs either to stay on the queue or leave
thats why am not just going to leave like that too trust me smiley
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by habbey143: 7:15am On Feb 07, 2015
harrysterol:
. She calls you a FOOL? shocked shocked oh! Lord have mercy and what are you still doing with her? Wen a gal stop respecting you to the extent of calling you a fool am sorry bro your case is beyond repairs
yes i will leave but when am done with her she will come begging
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by habbey143: 7:16am On Feb 07, 2015
asdfjklhaha:

In that case give her d freedom she craves 4 and stop taking her serious. Its obvious that's she's found someone else.
you are right i stopped taking her serious too and am sure when am done with her smiley

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Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by harrysterol(m): 7:17am On Feb 07, 2015
habbey143:

yes i will leave but when am done with her she will come begging
easy bro, no go put her belle because u won't find dt 1 funny
Re: I Dont Understand Her!! by habbey143: 7:19am On Feb 07, 2015
harrysterol:
easy bro, no go put her belle because u won't find dt 1 funny
lol... and i wont accept it since she has other guys calling her she should go and look for the papa.i love this girl sha hope she cam change

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