True life story,am from a polygamous home where everybody is his or her own,we all ended in secondary school,but I refuse to end it there,so I decided to further,strongle all alone see myself through school,came out got a mini job,the worst is the job am not paid at every end of the month because customers made away the companys money millions that I ve been paying for the past 2yeears with my own salary,so I decided to get married since I ve no pay and no one to help,marriage made my life more miserable,married a man who lie everyday,who does not care how I feed cloth or pay the rent even feed him on top,also beat me.what do I do.pls help.

If your marriage is still young and without kids why not talk to your legs especially if u feel ur man is irresponsible.. if he drinks and womanise.. then u need to act fast b4 u get hooked..all d best.

*Catwalks into thread*

*Sights another trailer load of haters*

*Laughs out loud and sits comfortably on sofa*

@op, why do I have the feeling that all this calamities are befalling you because of your dumbness and poor command of english

Last bullet: Improve on your written and spoken english and your life will be better

espn:
If your marriage is still young and without kids why not talk to your legs especially if u feel ur man is irresponsible.. if he drinks and womanise.. then u need to act fast b4 u get hooked..all d best.

op u don hear

some advice you have to give to yourself

**Horns**

What God has joined together
Let no man put asunder



For better
For worse

How do ladies like this end up with such guys?

divine247:
True life story,am from a polygamous home where everybody is his or her own,we all ended in secondary school,but I refuse to end it there,so I decided to further,strongle all alone see myself through school,came out got a mini job,the worst is the job am not paid at every end of the month because customers made away the companys money millions that I ve been paying for the past 2yeears with my own salary,so I decided to get married since I ve no pay and no one to help,marriage made my life more miserable,married a man who lie everyday, who does not care how I feed cloth or pay the rent even feed him on top,also beat me.what do I do.pls help.

I don't know why some women fail to understand that getting married because you can't finance yourself anymore almost never works out. I can understand that you might be really confused right now and you have to take wise decisions here.

How long have you been married? Do you have kids? It's not just okay to run away just like somebody commented earlier...do you have where to go if you leave the marriage?

I just noticed a contradiction in your story you might wanna clarify.

who does not care how I feed cloth or pay the rent even feed him on top,

Are you paying the bills of the family? (Feeding, housing...)??

ggrin:
What God has joined together
Let no man put asunder



For better
For worse

MrIncrediible:

MI is that yo

seriousbabe:
*Catwalks into thread*

*Sights another trailer load of haters*

*Laughs out loud and sits comfortably on sofa*

@op, why do I have the feeling that all this calamities are befalling you because of your dumbness and poor command of english

Last bullet: Improve on your written and spoken english and your life will be better

miss know it all what has English got to do wt her misfortune.if u hv no reasonable advice biko just shut dt gutter u call mouth...@op if dre is no child or children involved pls rearrange ur life ooo.life is too short to endure wt a NFA man ooo.

No kids yet,and the marriage is just a year,yes I pay all the bills in the house.thank u all for your comments God bless u.

divine247:
No kids yet,and the marriage is just a year,yes I pay all the bills in the house.thank u all for your comments God bless u.

You clearly stated you have no pay. How do you manage to pay all the bills?

I have another means of getting 11k from small busines I do every month.so that's where I get money to manage to pay bils and also feed.

divine247:
I have another means of getting 11k from small busines I do every month.so that's where I get money to manage to pay bils and also feed.

so is true. Emmylex

divine247:
I have another means of getting 11k from small busines I do every month.so that's where I get money to manage to pay bils and also feed.

Why were u then desperate to marry when you had another source of income. Well, I understand here that you gambled and failed...i.e, watin dey the packet no be watin dey inside. May be you thought the guy would make life easier, may be he borrowed his friends car and got you cheaply. Sorry dear, just manage if you love him but if you don't, life is too short to stay miserable.