chibic:
I wonder why some men are still getting worked up over women's promiscuity.mr searching4love,the ealier you realize that any woman you meet on the road is a potential cheat,the better for you!!
The best thing you can do is to treat your woman with respect but do NOT trust her.because in today's world,any man that foolishly trust a woman is digging his own grave.these days,women cheat like there's no tomorrow and they find a way to blame the husband by citing lack of attention etc.I've seen a thread where a little boy said he discovered his mom is cheating on his dad and some women told him to free the woman and close his mouth because it might be what makes her happy.to women,promiscuity is enjoyment and happiness.
When I was 21yrs,a friend of mine was sleeping with a married woman and we didn't know,he opened up to us when the woman asked him to bring his friends because her female friends needs boyfriends too.they are all married o! We rejected.

Is there any guarantee that the good woman will not cheat tomorrow?CHANGE is constant bro.even pastor's wives dey cheat steady sef.and they are all good women.there are women who waited till 10yrs,15yrs,20yrs into their marraige before the cheated.so that good woman you met today may cheat on you and give you another man's child in future.so,you don't need to be scared of cheating anymore,just have it in mind that it can possibly happen because it happens all the time already.I think the only thing you should be praying for is for GOD to give you a woman that will not give you another man's child.but as for a cheating woman,I no fit shout.every woman has that tendency to stray.because,attention and compliments from a new guy drives them crazy.plus women are easily influenced and they changes with environment.awoman may be good because she's in an environment filled with people that don't misbehave.but once she gets herself in a place where people flirt a lot,she will change.she may get a job and get close to a male colleague and start developing feelings for him.its crazy man!
Some men will run after virgins but me,I won't cos I've witnessed first hand a babe cheating on her fiance who disvirgined her.I've seen a lot and concluded that cheating is a part of women's life.
My guy,you can marry because of kids.to me,I don't see what I need marraige for if not for kids.living together with a woman for years,trust me it is always like hell.
Just do not trust any woman!!! No matter how good she is because she may surprise you tomorrow and when you find out,you may develope heart attack.but if you never trusted a woman and she cheats,you can only be dissapointed and stilll move on with your life.

Go and ask the husband of the head nurse who was sleeping with a cleaner why he collapsed on finding out his wife's sexcapades.that's because he trusted the woman with all his heart.

One more thing....stop being over good to women...women's attitude towards goodmen is nothing to write home about! You may exhaust your time and money on a woman and she'll dump you for one bad guy..they love bad guys.
And also,if you feel like playing games/cheating,please do!!..time no dey for any man to dey suffer himself because of one woman that will dissapoint you after all your faithfullness.btw,I believe you are bitter because,you've been faithful and good only for your gesture to be reciprocated with cheating etc.any woman that tells you "be good and faithfull so that you'll gett a good and faithfull wife" is only decieving you.no mind them and live your life.enjoy my guy!

Sunymoore:

Take twelve bottles of Origin for for my head

searching4love:




I am a disciplined person. I have only cheated once and that was my university days. Infact i wont call it cheating cos i was drunk and seduced by a lady who came to charge in my room. Ever since i have always been conscious of myself but can that be said of ladies Do you know the average Nigerian girl has a minimum of 2 boyfriends

Obalende:
as ive said before the numerous boyfriends of these young girls are the main benefactors of their bodies. In almost every nigerian marriage you are marrying old cargo that is anything upward of 26. these ppl are experienced and have been around numerous guys. at such age they not even fresh again. the first and second year university boyfriends got the goods fresh.

then men keep waiting for the ideal person to get married to... wasting time...

drlawizle:


Hell yeah we own up to it..and we dont point fingers at anyone...all I'm asking is for ladies to do d same....own up and stop acting as if yur following our footsteps cos yur

not...even if all d men in ds world decide not to cheat...ladies are still gonna look for a way to seduce men into cheating...we both cheat independently simples!

charijee:
I hear you

MizMyColi:


Noted

I was blind, but now......

iSee....

omenka:
Lol. Just being real hon. No woman wants a guy no woman wants.
Regardless, there are exceptions to every rule, but, sadly, I've yet to meet one that deserves such an exception.

Errr, last I heard, you had a fiancee.
You mean, she's not worth being that exception?

MizMyColi:


Noted

I was blind, but now......

iSee....

Drewin:
[color=#000099][/color] Building your babe a palace means that you should make her comfortable most times and when you can't, explain to her with love..if she doesn't want to understand you.. It means she is not meant for you . What I meant by being a sore loser is that... You go around looking for threads that have something negative to say to women.. That's not cool... Moreover the most important thing is that you shouldn't be a pest... No one likes a guy creeping around her everytime... Give them some space... And for pete's sake don't suspect everything she does... Anyways change your mentality about ladies... They are too adorable...but if your relationship skill is zero then WORK ON YOURSELF...

naijaboiy:


So when a man cheats on you,,you must cheat back?

Are you people trying to justify cheating or what?

See what these ladies are saying o

searching4love:




In as much as i find your comment as an exaggeration, its no excuse for u to engage in such just because gus have booty calls. Can two wrongs make a right? How do you know your plan B is not also playing you? How many plans do u intend to have by jumping from one bed to another just to retaliate a cheating man's action. Smh

MizMyColi:


Noted

I was blind, but now......

iSee....

delishpot:

And dont cry when your woman isnt a one man woman.

You meant to tell Omenka this, I presume?

See, that's the thing.

It's that simple, for me at least.
Do unto others what you'd want them to do unto you.

If you wanna be controlling and manipulative to score fleeting romantic points, question is

If nah you, you go like am

searching4love:

Can we be what i desire

Bia, searching for lust, leave me o

diddydiva:

hmmmmm

like I said the other time,

work on yourself first.

MizMyColi:


You meant to tell Omenka this, I presume?

See, that's the thing.

It's that simple, for me at least.
Do unto others what you'd want them to do unto you.

If you wanna be controlling and manipulative to score fleeting romantic points, question is

If nah you, you go like am

blesslovv:

i support that......all girls aren't same, same
with boys....

Drewin:
[i][/i]To all ladies on this thread. Please ignore all the retarded comments written by weak guys. They are using the thread to insult women.. Y'ALL are better than this... Please don't reply them... Some idiots that said it's better for a man to have more than one babe.. I pity you... I hope you don't end up sad... Cos I know a handful of men that are regretting it today.. As for me oo.. Na me and only my babe... Dassal

chibic:
my guy its good to speak out the truth.I have always being a good guy to women but things don change.if I feel like cheating,I no dey look back sef..if she finds out and want to go..bye bye!!..I am the predator and I do the chasing.as far as my money's intact..no time to die over a woman because of cheating when they plenty evrywhere.

searching4love:



Honestly you sound like a woman wrapper who hasn't experienced the bad sides of nigeran girls

MizMyColi:


Errr, last I heard, you had a fiancee.
You mean, she's not worth being that exception?

omenka:
She deserves every bliss this life can offer. A rare gem outta this galaxy, love her to bits! But I don't think I'd ever wanna place my heart in a plate and serve it to anyone for desert.

Once did in '01, a naïve punkass then, never will again.

confused.
But I won't prod further.

charijee:
Men started the cheating game.....ladies are only reciprocating

adbokus:

lunacy!

searching4love:



I don't need prettythicksme opinion on this thread she is very rude

delishpot:


Sorry was reffering to the guy.. If one doesnt want to be a one woman man he should not cry if his fav woman isnt a one man woman.

omenka:
You guys are just being overly emotional.

Odunharry:
prettythicksme i seeth thou..thou should sayest something