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Man Sexually Molested/harassed Shares Story Also Advises Parents (PHOTOS) / Man Places ‘magun’ On Wife, Tumbles Twice After Falling Victim / Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 8:11pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Meringe: That's sad.. I bet you were very little then... |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Meringe(m): 8:36pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
francizy:Was in primary two then. I should be 6 or 7 years then. |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 8:46pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Meringe: You were really little then.. But I hope you're getting over it? |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Meringe(m): 9:18pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
francizy:It didn't affect me like yours though it left a scar on my life that I can't forget that a lady about 6 or 7 years older than me took my innocence, I was followed up with mom strict rules to religious life and I was also faced with no option than to follow my older siblings footsteps, who were/are morally strict but it didn't stop me entirely from d fantasies of the feeling I was introduced to. When I was growing up, I was inducted in a belief that any immoral and sinful life will attract failure in academic and in future . I was the least in my class at some point , I was booed at home by my friends then and my siblings who were taking the best position, I had to cry to God, I cried every night and morning as little as 8, 9 years begging God to forgive my act with the maid and to make me intelligent. I was depressed and God answered my prayer , I was changed from the public school to a private school in 1993, I took a better position after a term and I later took the 1st position; my experience with my friends and siblings laughing at me for taking the last position killed any urge to continue with the life I was introduced to. Long story. God have mercy. 4 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 9:25pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Meringe: Wow.. Happy for you bro.. I had a similar experience tho I didn't pick up in my academics till my degree program when I started topping my department.. I did fairly well in primary school, but my secondary school grades weren't that good... From your story and mine, I wouldn't be wrong to say that child molestation not only affects one's sexual urge, it also affects one's academics 2 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Meringe(m): 9:53pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
francizy:It affects. Our people use to say that if a child didn't come of age before tying wrapper, if breeze blows, it will carry him and the wrapper away. There is time for everything, I strongly believe. Though it might not be the case for every abused child but it's not ruled out from any disorder in social and academic life. 2 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by khiaa(f): 10:05pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
francizy: Things are going well for me hope you are doing fine aswell. HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY in advance. 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by khiaa(f): 11:44pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
mutter: It's psychological due to being sexually abused, studies has shown that this is how a child that has been sexually abused behaves, she/he is reacting on what was taught to them so don't blame the victim blame those despicable evil parasites walking around pretending to be human beings also known as pedo.philes. I hope they rot in hell. Traware come and read how your sexual behavior can effect a child's life forever. 5 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by khiaa(f): 11:58pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Meringe: I am sick to my stomach, this breaks my heart and makes me mad as hell in the same breath. I pray you will forget this ever happend to you and live a happy rest of your life, and there is no need to ask God for his forgiveness on this matter because sweety it wasn't your fault, you did nothing wrong. The sick poor excuse for a human being *pedo.phile* should be asking God and you for forgiveness, I'm sure you weren't her only victim. May she kiss the devil goodnite. 2 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by dytbabe: 12:33am On Feb 13, 2015 |
Wow This is so deep From a seperated home and lived in a face me I face u I think I rem this neigbhour , he was a banker, married with a kid or so, called me to his room to get him some stuffs and then asked me bend down to put his thing in my mouth, put spit and suck I didn't understand what he meant, so he actually made0me kneel down, removed his thing and pushed my head further I was a naughty child, I was rude He kept pushing my head further with his D in my mouth, I was choking and spitting, I cldnt take it no more I bit him hard, pushed my head and asked me leave the room He didn't stop there as he called me in again another day but this time I said I will tell his wife, the whole compound and in fact I will scream He thought I was joking until he tried to do it again But no one was home I kept thinking abt it, until this night I slpt off in their house and woke up heraring strange sounds, he was actually sucking his wifes cousins boobs, they both saw me Next day I called anty funke that I saw what she was doing with daddy halima and I will tell, na dia the anty begin beg tell me say he don do for almost all the young gals in the compound This is the first time am sharing this story in 24yrrs Did it have effects on me? Maybe yes maybe no But then I had my first bf after secondary sch I actually did followed mums rule that if a man comes close to u, touch/hug/kiss u will get pregnant It did worked for me even with bilogy and all I had this fear for my mum and I maintained it But uni days, I guess I had to erm erm I wldnt say I was with bad companies cos if not them, I may/ may not marry as a virgin But in all I thank God 10 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 1:07am On Feb 13, 2015 |
Meringe: So much I've learnt right now.. Thanks for this.. |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 1:10am On Feb 13, 2015 |
khiaa: Well, am bout to sit for some tests.. Your Valentine wishes will guard my path to success on these tests hopefully.. Happy Valentine to you dear.. |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 1:17am On Feb 13, 2015 |
dytbabe: That man really deserves to be tortured and jailed! That's disgusting of him.. All the same, I thank God you came out fine afterwards.. Some other people might have been affected badly after that day but God helped you get over it.. Am happy for you, and I pray/hope/wish your husband loves you till death, never cheats on you, never hurts you, be the perfect husband to you and the perfect dad to your kids.. Wish you the best dear.. 3 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Daresh(f): 1:30am On Feb 13, 2015 |
Thank you for sharing your story. I try to protect my kids and teach them that no one is to touch their private part, but in the end it is God that will save us. 3 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by khiaa(f): 2:06am On Feb 13, 2015 |
francizy: Thank you and good luck with your tests. |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by dytbabe: 2:25am On Feb 13, 2015 |
francizy: Lol Amen to ur prayers But u sound like u pitying me? Seriously I don't even rem it but I hated men before I had a second thought Maybe I was lucky sha 2 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Meringe(m): 7:15am On Feb 13, 2015 |
khiaa:That's life for us. I ve come to accept that fact. But I can't forget it. It rings like a bell and shows like a movie in my memory. |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 8:54am On Feb 13, 2015 |
khiaa: Thanks hun.. |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 8:55am On Feb 13, 2015 |
dytbabe: Yes, you most definitely lucky |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Joel3(m): 10:13am On Feb 13, 2015 |
there is nothing to thank god about here. The girl that molest you probably she was molested by someone old of her age too. Someone has to put the idea on someone head. And the game goes on. But the funny thing is that once you tested it. Your life will never be the same again as you will want to do it further. That's why girls molest little boys because someone did it to them as well. 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 8:03pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Joel3: How sure are you that all the ladies who do such were molested too? 2 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Joel3(m): 8:11pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
francizy:yes very sure? Where do you think they learnt it from? 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 8:29pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Joel3: What if they learnt it from movies? The first person that molested me was about 22 or so, must have had sex on several ocassion before doing me.. So its possible that just being sex starved made her do what she did.. 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Joel3(m): 8:34pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
francizy:ok how I wish you are the type that molest kids then think about the circle. She did it to you, then probably not only you. Maybe up to 500 boys is she has her way. That will be detriment to the society. 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 9:09pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Joel3: Now, am not ruling out the possibilities that she was molested, also let's not rule out the possibilities of she not having being a victim of molestation before. |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Joel3(m): 9:51am On Feb 14, 2015 |
if she molest 20 boys. And 10 of this boys molest 50 girls. These girls also molest 50 boys. The circle continue. Not only that lesbian women also molest girls and end up putting the spirit of lesbainissm on them. The circle continues. 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Dyt(f): 9:54am On Feb 14, 2015 |
Joel3: Ur point is what now? 3 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Joel3(m): 10:02am On Feb 14, 2015 |
Dyt:who to blame? 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Dyt(f): 10:12am On Feb 14, 2015 |
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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Joel3(m): 10:26am On Feb 14, 2015 |
Dyt:since they are still too young to really knw what they were doing. So You cannot compare the guy now and when he was a kid? Can you. Not forgetting that I and my friends use to have sex with girls when I was around 10years old. But the truth is that is not sex, as our dick did not enter the hole we only wined waist ontop girls. Not until we started watching blue firm from one chair man window. Before I learnt that the dick need to enter the hole where urine is coming out from. I was like put my dick in that hole? then We don't really knw how to sex. Beside some girls also romance me when I was 3 to 5 years old. they kiss and press me to their breast. Although they are older but still young to really knw the consequence. Those girls can't do that again now since they are married and have kids of their own now. Its all part of kids play and drama. You cant tell me you don't have sex as a kid. Don't lie. 3 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Dyt(f): 12:44pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
Joel3: Like seriously did u just type this thrash? If u are/were too lazy to read the comments at least u read the subject This is molest young man *hammer* Not our usual lay on me we kids called daddy and mummy This is u as an adult doing what we call peadophile *strong hammer* These ones actually put it in the right place as they are experienced * very angry and continues hitting with hammer* 7 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Joel3(m): 12:56pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
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