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Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by shaynelifa(m): 6:28pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Its obvious the man was not fully prepared for marriage. marriage entails alot. u must b committed to each other. u're married yet u stil lock ur phone with password simply because u dont want ur wife to knw u re a serial cheat. Am much younger bt i know a little abt wat marriage requires. u re even saying u Wont beg nor accept her back. oga, marriage still far frm u oh.... when u want to give up flirting, den u cn think of settling dwn. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by wasmilebags: 6:28pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
First tin first why do u password your phone? Since you know you can't keep away from your girlfriend even to giv your wife feww years to enjoy her man alone why didn't you delete the mssage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by Ojoariyo(m): 6:28pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Married couples have no wright to privacy,show your wife some respects and apologyze so that she can return home.. 3 Likes |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by soulglo: 6:29pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
crackhaus: Do you really need to ask LOL He is not ready to fix the problem. He wants someone to tell him that his wife is the devil for looking through his phone. OP you need to grow up. Your wife might be wrong for searching through your phone but that is the smaller issue here. The fact that you have refused to take responsibility for anything is very telling. You will not even admit that you have been whoring yourself out. You either think that the people you are hoping to get responses from are fools or that you truly feel that you have the right to do whatever you want to and take no responsibility. In either case you would be wrong. I am willing to bet that you have been playing games for a while and when confronted you have lied through your teeth and she finally guessed the password probably from weeks or maybe even months of trying. Some women go crazy just trying to prove that they are not imagining things when their husbands are cheating. So now she has the proof and you cannot lie anymore and what do you do? You come one nairaland and gloss over what she saw and focus on the part were she went looking in your phone. Looking through your phone is wrong but that is not the real issue here. 8 Likes |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by DesChyko: 6:30pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Apologize. |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by Mogenerous(f): 6:33pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
I'm sorry to write but this op is a fool, don't let her into your house again na... If it was your wife that your caught in action that way, hell will loose, now that its you, its breach of privacy, like there is privacy is marriage? It really shows that being old doesn't mean being wise.... ish, instead of him to apologize he is writing one kin, coman marry those guys that are in support of you sending your wife out na.... egocentric groups of mammals... pssst..... *spits on him* 7 Likes |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by cococandy(f): 6:34pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
To think that you even had the guts to get angry and say she won't come back to 'your' house. Shudders. Gentleman, When you're wrong,learn to apologize. But how will you even apologize if you're not really sorry for what you did? 7 Likes |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by Nobody: 6:34pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
charles009: I have little sympathy for you. In marriage there is no privacy. She has a right to check your phone as only distrust makes people do that, before you give her AIDS on a gold platter. 5 Likes |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by ojeffo: 6:35pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
RULE NO 1....:DONT GET CAUGHT! |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by Nobody: 6:37pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
charles009: I'm assuming no kids? If so then thank your God. Change the locks, find yourself a new Wife (it's Nigeria for Gods sakes). During your courtship set down the list of your unacceptable which should include to never ever touch your phone even if it's about to fall into the toilet. I only wished that my Ex left so peacefully Dude you're lucky. 2 Likes |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by Jeflox: 6:37pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
somsom:ur judgement is one sided. |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by janny89: 6:39pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
I think its maybe she over love u dats y she is acting like dat.a girl dat does not love u will not react over dat thing she saw becos she has many . So pls don't blame her |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by LadyAmaka(f): 6:39pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
She left and instead of reaching out to her to express your remorse on whatever made her angry, you are talking of not allowing her to enter your house again? God help we ladies. Why did you marry her when you want privacy with your phone? 1 Like |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by Nobody: 6:39pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Hit 'like' if you think the OP is irresponsible 18 Likes |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by raziboi(m): 6:39pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
charles009: I Neva reach to marry 1 Like |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by Lexusgs430: 6:39pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
If she looked through your phone and saw nothing, this matter arising would not be existing!!! So the cause of this issue is the content(s). If you want to save your marriage apologise, if you don't divorce!!! Has she got a right to look through your phone, No. But she suspected you and got the evidence she was seeking. Where you doing the dirty behind her back or in her front(it's only you and I reading this), tell the truth? 1 Like |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by orobs93(m): 6:40pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Y use a password at first? |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by PLEXPLEX(m): 6:46pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
charles009: |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by graciella(f): 6:46pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
charles009: Has she caught u cheating before? Leave her let her waka go, after she go waka come back |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by LajaLaba: 6:47pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
The ladies are very angry |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by sheymoni(m): 6:48pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
charles009: Op if you must cheat for any reason, make sure you keep the 11th commandment intact (thou shall not be caught). It is obvious you don't care about your wife's feelings |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by Boss13: 6:51pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
You are not a serious man. C'mon go and manage your home 1 Like |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by Nobody: 6:52pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Melahou: I wish he won't misbehave again. To be honest i think the wife might have over reacted, It's a marriage for crying out loud not that courtship thing that happens before actually getting married. I'll advise the OP to call her like you've said and ask for forgiveness and he should make her understand that another woman might be getting ready to move in. I hope it's not too late sef. |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by pembisco(m): 6:56pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
im a guy but bros, I hate guys like you. what the fuccck do you mean by privacy? If she were my sister I'll have personally dealt with you, forget say you don already marry her. I'll deal with you. Nonsense! 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by Thermythorpe(f): 6:56pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
TROLL |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by chiamanda1234: 6:57pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Guys n phone privacy! Makes me wonder at times...is der supposed to be secrets and privacy in relatioships....if derz ntn to hide y d restriction... |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by xtervaganza(m): 7:02pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Dear op, the moment you decide to settle woth lady, even if you're not married yet, is the day you should bin all the other girls And as for your wife, she's still a baby or one of those with severe anger issues. Why leave? No matter what you can discuss it like adults or if it all comes to worse she reports you to your parents or pastor. I don't care about what she saw in your phone, she has no right to smash your phone. She should st least let you know your offense 1st. So I won't be begging her if I were you P.s she's destroyed the evidence |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by babygirlfl: 7:04pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
DrGroove: Please speak for yourself only. 5 Likes |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by Nobody: 7:04pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
[quote author=Closetoheart post=30659494]Forgiveness is a choice. My husband cheated on me with his long time gf barely two months into our marriage. I saw the messages... I wanted to commit suicide. I was pregnant at that time. I felt abused, disappointed and bad. He apologised and I forgave him. Eight months later, I saw him send his unclad picture to the same girl. I threatened to pack out of the house, he apologised again, and promised not to do it again. Now, you know what? I don't care any more. Whether he is still seeing the girl or not is his problem. He is answerable to God. He is a xtian, he ministers in church now. So if he still indulges in such acts, he will have God to answer to. Do you why I kept on forgiving him? Because he apologised. It still pains me, but I have promised myself that the forgiveness will stand, and I will continue to forgive him, even if he does something worse. Because I cannot continue to bear grudge in my heart. I want to make heaven. The best I can do is to be wise. When I say being wise, it means protecting myself and my children from whatever inactions or actions of their dad that might want to cause harm to us. [/quote]You are a real woman and home maker too! |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by Nobody: 7:08pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
charles009:why are you feeling guilty all of a sudden? you men sef! It depends on the conversation you had with this certain girl! so what was it? you seem to not care at all And yes! she has a right to breach through your privacy in case of any unexpected situation, and she's your wife! not your girlfriend 1 Like |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by tonte(m): 7:08pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
I usually never comment on topics like this but you are very stupid that's all it really is Melahou: |
Re: She Went To My Phone, Now She Is Threatening A Divorce. by bukatyne(f): 7:10pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
2good: Read your post again and tell us How it relates to the OP 4 Likes |
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