mployer:
A lady can live in the city without a job and without prostituting. The ones You met are probably career prostitutes hiding under the cover of 'no jobs'

juianne95:
..u dnt know their story,dnt judge a book by its cover

ulaa:
Who told you every family is loving or supportive, some family members are worst than satan. Most of the ladies you are talking about, come from bad homes. Don't be quick to judge.

ulaa:
Who told you every family is loving or supportive, some family members are worst than satan. Most of the ladies you are talking about, come from bad homes. Don't be quick to judge.

Tallesty1:
Tell me more............?

Certifiedboss:


Without a job and without prostituting. Please what will be her means of livelihood? Enlighten me please

mployer:
A lady can live in the city without a job and without prostituting. The ones You met are probably career prostitutes hiding under the cover of 'no jobs'

Certifiedboss:


Have you ever heard of someone who speaks well of guys who sleep with older married women? There's never a way you can justify using your body as a means of livelihood both male and female. If you do it doesn't mean it's right, don't tag it as breaking out of your comfort zone. A hoe is a hoe, there are other ways out if you think with your head rather than thinking with the vagina

Where exactly in my post did I justify "prost*tution" or "gigoloism"?
Please point that out, then we can discuss.

Tallesty1:

There is one around here, the only time she sleep at home is when she is seeing her period.

Tallesty1:
There are times we need to ask ourselves questions and answer them truthfully.

What I’m talking about today is the reason some ladies will leave everyone they know in a state and go to the city to stay without a job or handwork.

Personaly I don’t see why anyone will love to leave his or her beloved family to spend time in another part of the country without a genuine reason.

Their(ladies) reasons most times are, They want money, spouse, They need to be free from parents and everyone they know, a job etc but they don't know that in so doing they have pierced themselves through with many sorrows.

Thats why you see them Being used in the relationships, Guys see them as spare parts element and not wife materials, the very unfortunate ones are being killed for ritual purposes.

It breaks my heart to see the pitiable life they live here.
You see them cooking and washing for guys. Some are even married without their parent's knowledge. On sundays they would be praying for a guy to ask them to cook for him so that at least their would be something to eat. Crazy things like that.

There are those that have moved into the permanent site(Prostitution).

There is one around here, the only time she sleep at home is when she is seeing her period. No job, oh sorry, she is got a job. Her job is her relationship, she is got more than five guys that are dating her.

And there some (gosh) that date sugar-mummies(lesbian sugar-mummies).

Typing the stuffs they do here just to survive will definitely give me keypadtriosis.

I know that some of them do succeed and make money but every other thing seems to be against them.

My questions are:

1: Why leave your village when you know that you don't have anything serious to do in the city?

2: Is the money worth what they pass through?

mployer:
A lady can live in the city without a job and without prostituting. The ones You met are probably career prostitutes hiding under the cover of 'no jobs'

hardbody:


Where i go to nap before i hit office in the morning ( i am usually an early bird), i see this vehicle that brings in men and women to work on building sites. There are quite a number of cute ladies and women with them. Still around me there, i see a lot of cuties coming through with keke maruwa and they go into some buildings to do cleaning. I understand some hold same jobs in various households In and around VI and Ajah. In fact while staying with my uncle at fola agoro, we had one that used to come clean the house 3 times a week. She was a cute and well educated lady. She just said she will never sell her body and will struggle till she fiund a way

mployer:


some have handworks like bead and cake-making
some do home lessons
...the list is numerous bro

Kachisbarbie:


Where exactly in my post did I justify "prost*tution" or gigolism?
Please point that out, then we can discusss.

ulaa:
Who told you every family is loving or supportive, some family members are worst than satan. Most of the ladies you are talking about, come from bad homes. Don't be quick to judge.

mployer:
A lady can live in the city without a job and without prostituting. The ones You met are probably career prostitutes hiding under the cover of 'no jobs'

hardbody:
I have a question for the OP. When men leave the village out of frustration and come to the cities without jobs? How do they cope? Take note, fellow men that are g.a.yy pick them up and screw dem up da azz, some ladies may see them in their near stranded state and take them to be servicing them after thoroughly cleaning up the guy. Yet there are others who come into the cities, struggle like their female counterparts and become useful. I am just getting sick and tired of these female bashing threads.

arimahoseloka:
pls how do u know when she is seeing her period? you are talking crap young man.