skywalker888:
Tosyne2much again... Thank God no guy has ever gotten under my skirt

funmilayoB:
Thank god no 1 has ever gotten under my skirt

bigwind:
wat do umean sharp guys no dy akure?? Let me av ur gf number if she no go find me kum here...btw., d babe no fine 4 my face jor

Bisolarh:
tosyne bursting our speaker since 1600.. we just pray our bfs dont come across this thread... Anyway i'm glad no dude has ever gotten anything from me

humilitypays:
@tosyne2much, all what u said are nothing but the truth! Well done guy. A standing ovation for u. But unfortunately, ladies won't listen because they don't love to be told the truth most times

Another reason guys dump a lady after going down with her is because most ladies have no other good value to offer to a guy aside their body...hence, when a guy goes down there & realises this lady has nothing else good to offer to him aside sex, he will definitely run at any given opportunity.

Solution
Ladies try and make yourself valuavle so that u can have other positive values to offer a guy u are dating; believe me, no guy will dare leave u even after having sex with u severally

You maybe wondering what other good/positive values u can offer to a guy u are dating?

1. Try and be active in his financial growth- giving him vital job/career tip offs, secret biz tips, things he can do to increase his income, etc. Don't give him money or don't spend on him, never u try!

2. Help him cut down on his expenditure and waste. Help him save more than his spends.

3. Most men are domestically not organised; help him organise him house if u can.

4. If u know anyone that can help him get a better job, get into a better business deal, win a contract, get promoted at work, graduate with good grades, pls do.

Don't sponsor him to travel abroad if u live in Nigeria. You can only sponsor him to come meet u abroad if u live abroad too.

Avoid spending on any guy...its wrong! Help him become financially responsible not spending on him cos it will boomerang on u.

These are some of the positive values u can add to his life aside sex. If u do this for any sane guy, whether u guys have sex a million times or not, he won't ever leave u, never, except he's insane which he will sure come back to his senses some day!!

But unfortunately, majority of single ladies today believe that their only job or role in a relationship is to provide the guy with sex while the guy takes care of all their financial and material needs; now tell me why won't guys dump them after having sex with them

No man dumps a valuable lady with plenty values to offer aside sex!

funmilayoB:
Thank god no 1 has ever gotten under my skirt

cho25bc:
Hmmm,I usually do dat though meagre tips.but I realise dat most guys are difficult to please.even if u are most virtous woman wit great values,they will run when they are ready to run.I'm talking frm experience.pls ladies,respect urselves.don't give ur all to ur guy until u are married to him.

JeffreyJamez:
I don't understand Why some guys feel ladies are sex objects..... they have blood o

tosyne2much:
clap for yourself

cho25bc:

Lol!why? because I said my mind?

tosyne2much:
you have spoken well my sister

Shubbylee:



Lmfaooo!! Mr Akure.....na jazz u wan use? u can't even get my house girl!!

toshmann:


Once i ask a girl out, i make it clear that if she doesnt give me s€x i will get it from someone else, and that she shouldnt be upset if she calls and i dont pick up the phone bc at that time i might be f-cking another girl who is doing jer job for her.
Any girl that denies u sex while calling you boyfriend is being f-cked somewhere

Secondly, i dont believe in hard to get. If she's playing hard to get, either she no send you, or she has other options, but my dictum is, a girl playing hard to get for you, is another man's cheap rags. Aint worth it. Say yes or no. Stop saying may be, and stop coming close after you said no

My 2 cents

Happy valentine, my people
Drink responsibly, dont drive, dont waste and dont forget your condoms

cho25bc:
Hmmm,I usually do dat though meagre tips.but I realise dat most guys are difficult to please.even if u are most virtous woman wit great values,they will run when they are ready to run.I'm talking frm experience.pls ladies,respect urselves.don't give ur all to ur guy until u are married to him.

urchbarbie:
All dese traumatized dudes! I wonder wat kind of training uld give ur children when u av dis kind of warped mentality. Smh

abdulkayus:


Don't mind that hypocrite, they will be talking as if they don't have sisters at home or will nt have female children in future?
Will he agree for someone to tel his sisters or female children wat he just spew out? Its ppl like him that has make women to be like a sexual object.

Burningstar:
Because that's the only thing they're interested in.

Zeezy99:
No matter what, only an irresponsible guy would use and dump a girl and still thinks he did something cool

bigwind:
lol...Mr Eko! Then ur house gal must be hotter than ur gf..,if atall u av a gf

urchbarbie:
Tnx for ur comment gf. Ladies shld learn not to give dier all in all dese gf/bf BS. If he can't wait untill we r married, mehn he shld go and swim shit as my colleague wld always say. No1 is claiming virginity, but gals shld get wiser. How many more men wld u sleep with bfr u meet d Mr right? When ure ready, he wld be d one to say ure wid***. I just hate dese tin called premarital sex.
For d record: Any guy who comes to meet me for a relationshp, I always come upfront. No sex! If u can't keep to it, marriage is not by force n so is d relationship offer. Biko!

Shubbylee:


I'm just curious!! if ur bf agrees to a NO Sex relationship with u and he has sex with other ladies and u're aware of it....would u agree to that kind of arrangement?

urchbarbie:
My dear! If I find out, it may lead to a break up. As I said may. Men usually tink they can get away with every tin even in marriage. Its just an unhealthy thought. He wld only be making a fool of himself n not me. After d itch goes, if he is one with a consience, he won't be confortable. But to my dismay ...........some no longer have dis costly tin called consience!

Shubbylee:



Ahhh!! Aunty u wicked small oh!! u won't let him enter Jerusalem and u won't also let him play away, that's EVIL!! what u ladies don't understand is that the sexual urge in a Man is diff from that in a woman, its natural for men to want sex more regularly than women!! again if a man says he wants to wait till marriage, how do we know when we're gonna get married in this kind of our economy where 35yr old pple still live with their parents? is a man gonna wait till he's 30+ (cos that's d average marriage age for naija men) to have sex? please aunty be a lil considerate (not saying u should be promiscuous) but have mercy.....ur thing is inside our own thing is outside!! LOL

funmilayoB:
Thank god no 1 has ever gotten under my skirt

urchbarbie:
Lolx! U got me laffing dear! Ure such a comedian