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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Nobody: 1:16pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Xerum(m): 1:18pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
OP, And you finally show your true colour with the below comment. And you say you are not jugdemental? Since when are you the one to decide for others what is good or bad? Are you saying that there is actually a good way to do bad things? Be the one to cast the first stone bro! |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Nobody: 1:19pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Nonso23: Pseudo-intellect is better than no intellect at all. ![]() Have a nice day feeling ashamed Mr Emotional ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Chibaby87(f): 1:23pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
As they are jobless, I believe you be of help for them by providing work for them. I came to ogun state where I served to search for work in Lagos, it doesn't mean am a harlot. So I need help from you. 1 Like |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 1:26pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Xerum:It is funny how you reason. The person I quoted said that her friend's lifestyle is [b]bad[] but she is doing it to help her poor family, and then concluded by saying that I should not judge them until I have read the story. So I asked if there is actually a good way to bad things. It is a question and I am directing it to you now...... Is there a good way to do bad things? |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Nobody: 1:32pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Nobody: 1:38pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Nobody: 1:38pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Nonso23: Since you have repeatedly insulted me, you can continue the discussion with people who are at your level. Come back when you learned how to control your emotions. 2 Likes |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Nobody: 1:42pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
juianne95: Talking from experience? And I beg to differ no amount of money is worth a woman's virtue,... but only the too stupidd would argue this. You see even if it as broke I wouldn't steal, or be a gigolo. So for you to say it's worth it shows where your moral compass points. Well good luck with raising your daughters that way. |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Nobody: 1:42pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Nobody: 1:48pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by hardbody: 1:56pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Xerum: Thanks bro. I am even encouraged by your post too. it is a terribly chauvinistic society. 2 Likes |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by ixora3(f): 2:11pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Some of dem u won't blame dem,pple around u nt even family members kip asking dem,u no go go find work?as if u lazy or somEtin.but I tink stayin @home to look for dis jobs is better dan goin to live in d city.is nt even easy for a working class lady in d city let alone does who don't ve jobs. |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Timotos: 2:19pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
The prostitutes, @ d end of d day, they will get married 2 som1 responsible. |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Abbey2sam(m): 3:41pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
MissSlimbody: go and read ecclesiastes chapter 10 vers 19 please read and tell me what it says |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by MissSlimbody(f): 3:47pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Abbey2sam: Ecclesiastes 10 verse 19 (Good news version) "Feasting makes you happy and wine cheers you up, but you can't have either without money" So, how is it "Owo ni keke ihinrere"? |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Nobody: 5:46pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Tallesty1:Lol. I like your response(s) bro! |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 5:51pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Xerum:Dunno if your comment is for this post or if you mixed up a comment meant for another thread with the one meant for this one............ I started this thread with Living in the city without a job or handiwork, how ladies cope. This should tell you that the post is about a set of people and not all African women as u said in your comment. Then I listed stuffs they do and the sorry life some of them live here and concluded by asking if the money is worth what they pass through. So where and how did I bash women ![]() As for the lady that stays @ home only when she is seeing her period, I won't say much about her but if you need proof then I suggest you come down here and I will host you until you are sure that I wasn't lying. If in the end you didn't see enough evidence to believe then I will come online, create a thread and apologise to all ladies on Nland and deactivate afterwards. |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by AreaFada2: 5:56pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Op has raised very pertinent questions. They are all over social media too. Before you say "hello" to them, they want money. Very needy, many of them. Even those that have jobs, many have poorly paid ones. It's worse in December when they need money to return to village to form big city girl. Pathetic. |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by hardbody: 6:03pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Tallesty1: While your response is not directly for me, i have no doubt whatsoever that i hold the same views as the guy you are responding to and my reasoning stands. Leave the girls/ladies/women alone. They never get it right with us men. When we are not querying why they haven't married, we are wondering whether it makes sense for them to live in a house as single ladies. Some say you should not date a lady that drives or owns a car, others say she should not be richer than you, Haba. There is no evidence in the stuff you posted. If any lady comes to the city, she has come to make ends meet. I dont justify immorality but what guarantee is there that the person will still not be bot immoral and amoral in the village. Let them be, to each his own. A better question will be , what do PEOPLE gain when they leave the village and come to the city. We can then look at both the ladies and gentlemen. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by nwonufestus(m): 10:38pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
naija n city runsgals since 18BC |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Abbey2sam(m): 12:04am On Feb 16, 2015 |
MissSlimbody: read New king James version (NKJV) this is what it says ecclesiastes 10 : 19 A feast is made for laughter, And wine makes merry; But money answers everything. @bold, that translates to "owo ni keke iyin rere" go and read the yoruba version except ofcuz, you're trying to tell us that samuel Ajayi Crowther didn't translate it well please stop arguing blindly |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by MissSlimbody(f): 8:50am On Feb 16, 2015 |
Abbey2sam:my bros, good morning. My dad's Yoruba version says "Owo si ni idahun ohun gbogbo" I still cannot find "Owo ni keke ihinrere" Yes, I know money answers all things, which Yoruba christians translate 2 mean "Owo ni keke ihinrere". But that doesn't mean that the quote "Owo ni keke ihinrere" is in the bible I understand what I'm saying, and the point you're trying to get across, but please don't add to the bible. |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Abbey2sam(m): 9:28am On Feb 16, 2015 |
MissSlimbody: good morning i get your point,We are saying the same thing, just in different version lol |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by MissSlimbody(f): 9:33am On Feb 16, 2015 |
Abbey2sam:Its all good ![]() |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by JaneKenedy: 10:24am On Feb 16, 2015 |
what have u done to help them, hv u tried providing job and they continued. or hv u tried to sustain her without asking for anything in return. or you thought u just walk up to somebody u r not close to posing ur self as a saint and the person opens up to u. some one said dont judge pple by what u see, or by what the person merely say to u.....they could all be defensive mechanism. you think pple enjoy prostitution, ever wondered why most prostitutes are alcoholics too. know that when you point one finger at smone, three are pointing back @ you. |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by dahreyM: 10:39am On Feb 16, 2015 |
softysparky: u sounded lyk u've tried it b4 |
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