blublahd:
if indeed the story is true as you are, i will suggest you post your write up in the family section for better feedback.
Now, i dunno any full blooded african male, in this case a nigerian who would not want a child. Be-very-ware!

littleduck:



Dear blublahd,
thank you!

I am "very true" and the story is true. I have not given all details (it would take a book... but it is a 100% true story)
This is right the kind of answer I need. I need to understand but I do not have enough knowledge. I am still learning. However, one of the first things I understood is exactly the "child thing" you mentioned and this worries me a lot.
This is also why I specified that point.

Ipledge:
I have seen four different female monikers that joined nairaland today...

Op the picture of your egusi or Adonbiliv

littleduck:


here we go, my camera is not that great but I was so proud that I took a picture.
I have watched all possible youtube video on egusi preparation, and there is an African shop that sells Nigerian food in my city, thus, I got all ingredients.
I wrote I am a scientist, I cannot lie, sorry, it is a professional influence.

blublahd:

whats your type of scientist?
And what knowledge do you need?
I never knew they sell egusi ingredients in europe btw.

Ipledge:
wait let me do forensic analysis of this picture and even d egusi

littleduck:


Please you are very welcome


anyway it is not that I wanted to speak about my cooking abilities....

promsman12:
Yahooo on remix...

Ipledge:
sorry oo,not that am too inquisitive,how many maggi did u use...I no won make u see me as ijay,but ur egusi no get much oyel

littleduck:


I am a physicist, I study new materials for electronics

I need cultural knowledge, in my country no man has problems with the fact I cannot have children, adoption is seen as a good way to have a family since in my case not even the most advanced medicine can help.

Regarding Egusi, I can buy Nigerian food in my city and look below my picture

blublahd:

you have possibly met all men in your city who arent bothered by it?
and just because they are not, does not apply to an african man, a young one at that. I can bet you, any african mother wants to, at some point, carry her grandchild.
Like i suggested earlier, this page would be better off in the family section.
Your cultural knowlege could be best served there too.

imas:
Maga about to pay

Aprime:
If he really loves you, you wouldn't be wondering at all if he does. But since he doesn't, you're left wondering the whole time if he do.

delishpot:
OP, he may be real or wants to get some cash out of you or wants to use you to get foreign passport.
So. Just watch out and be careful if he starts asking for money to treat his relative or himself or if he starts pushing for you to invite him and take him over even when you dont feel its time to do so. Watch his reaction when you say No to his cash or visa request and dont let love blind you.

For all we know, he could be a girl posing as a guy.

littleduck:


I think you got the point

littleduck:


here we go, my camera is not that great but I was so proud that I took a picture.
I have watched all possible youtube video on egusi preparation, and there is an African shop that sells Nigerian food in my city, thus, I got all ingredients.
I wrote I am a scientist, I cannot lie, sorry, it is a professional influence.

littleduck:


no he is a man
he calls me on skype on video, I can call him when I want
He has shown me his house, his things... when he goes to the beach he calls me on video because he knows I like the see. I was born on a island but now I live on the continent, in the mountains

dokunbam:
So you guy communicate only through phone and Internet?

If that's case be watch out and study his moves,
Also give it sometime and learn more about NAIJA. You will find NAIJA interesting

THX
Yes.
in another situation I would have simply taken a train or a flight and visit him, as it is the usual way.
Unfortunately at the moment, there are, how to say it?, complicated political issues. My governments (I have two passports) strongly discourage people to travel down there, I have to do a lot of things to overcome this indication at the moment...considering that I am also a woman and in general traveling alone it may be dangerous in any part of the world.

About NAIJA, I am sure that you are 100% right and I am going to learn more. it does not matter how this story will end...






















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littleduck:


I'll try to see how to move this there, I am not sure I know how to deal with it...
anyway, "no man" was meant as you mean "any african mother wants to....."
Also "any" European one likes to have grandchildren, but it is not a problem.

Do you think it was funny for me when the doctors said that I had to undergo surgery and I would not have any children? I cried all my sorrow for years and it still hurts, but there are things that cannot be changed.

dnawah:
my dear u really tried for that soup o!some girls here cannot do it.but next time add plenty palm oil ok,