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Sex Is Not Love by Ochedi(m): 11:51am On Feb 15, 2015 |
Men are frustrated with women because they never seem to want sex. Women are frustrated with men because they always seem to want sex. Women blame men that they don't how to love. Men blame women that they only talk about love but don't want to to prove it. One is not to for a 'blame game' here but an attempt to put things in their proper perspective should be made, as i have come to understand that a lot of the heartbreaks that are are left in the wake of most relationships are due to undue expectaions. I do not not see why one who is purely in a relationship for sexual gratification should make the other believe otherwise. I also do not think it's realistic for any woman to assume that a man that has looked her way (sexually) is readily in love with her. Such women even begin to feel 'entitled' because sex is involved...SEX IS NOT LOVE. It has been said a thousand times that men and women are wired differently, thus for a man, sex is a physical act that eases the biological pressure he experiences constantly. Only after this tension has gone can a man begin to think straight. This is why it often happens that men (in some cases) disappear after the get what they want. It isn't love; is just some hormonal pressure. SEX for most men is a 'relaxant' of sorts. Having sex early in a relationship can be hazardous for the woman (who wants more from a man); the man has not had the time to develop any romantic feeling for her. He needs time to develop those feelings and it is not what sex alone can achieve. Indicators of love in every relationship are rather substance based. For example, realising that friendship is an important ingredient of love and TRUE LOVE is knowing that you can enjoy each other's company thoroughly, without first rushing to the bedroom. Things have become so pathetic that some people don't even what to discuss with each other once the 'sex marathon' is over. What i am saying is that if the only thing that seems to bind a lady to a man is sex, then none should delude him/her into that love is at work. SEX is not love. Love is not sex. You can have sex and not be in love. You can be in love and not engage in sex. A man may not be crazy about you and still have sex with you. Using sex to manipulate a man may not always have desirable ending. It is self - deception for a woman to think that giving a man sex will make him love her. TRUE LOVE WILL NEVER MAKE SEX A PRIORITY. A man who doesn't love you will not change his mind because of sex. If he tells you to 'PROVE YOUR LOVE' by having sex with him, he is only in for sex, 'better sex' will take him away from you. Love never shames or degrades. If you have made the mistake of trying to use sex to buy a man, now is the time to reassess your relationship and build it on the right foundation. SEX is good but there is more to a lasting relationship. Let a man get married to you because he loves you, honours you, feel a strong emotional and spiritual connection with you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you 1 Like |
Re: Sex Is Not Love by ITbomb(m): 12:21pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Cloud is not rain but where there is rain there is cloud. Love and making love are part of the same process, the mistake is which one has more priority |
Re: Sex Is Not Love by Skillfullulu(m): 12:23pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Love and sex works together. |
Re: Sex Is Not Love by Enegod(m): 12:27pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Girls look for love and find sex Guys look for sex and find love ![]() |
Re: Sex Is Not Love by ronald4lif(m): 12:44pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
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Re: Sex Is Not Love by Juliano47(m): 12:53pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Old news. ![]() |
Re: Sex Is Not Love by Thanos(m): 12:58pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Eh when you get married, don't have sex. Let her have your babies via IVF. Mtcheew |
Re: Sex Is Not Love by LewisO: 1:08pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Yes! #teamvirgin. |
Re: Sex Is Not Love by Ochedi(m): 10:35pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
ITbomb: sex shouldn't be |
Re: Sex Is Not Love by Ochedi(m): 10:36pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Skillfullulu: only in a marriage setting |
Re: Sex Is Not Love by Ochedi(m): 10:43pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Juliano47: knwin ain't enough but doing/acting in accordance |
Re: Sex Is Not Love by Skillfullulu(m): 9:43am On Feb 17, 2015 |
Ochedi:if u say so |
Re: Sex Is Not Love by Nobody: 9:48am On Feb 17, 2015 |
see guys as them dey vex ![]() what a pity |
Re: Sex Is Not Love by Ochedi(m): 12:09am On Feb 20, 2015 |
diddydiva: hehe.na so o |
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