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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:19pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
babyosisi:OK ooo. ![]() ![]() Maybe I should fast in advance. ![]() If I miss this man it will pain me o. Good men are many but hard to come by. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by fresh360(m): 11:39pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
Hmmmmmm... I hv rily gained a lot here tankx 2 does dat contributed.... Still waiting 4 more 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by prissyluv(f): 11:45pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
Herzumpther:Calm down dear and take it easy,ok? Leave this young man to come. Stop the postponement pls. My man would ve come to my place just that my dad made it clear that he doesnt want to see him. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by cococandy(f): 11:51pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
Herzumpther: ![]() ![]() |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by cococandy(f): 11:54pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
Chipeculiar:you're not proud of him. You think he might be an embarrassment to you later on. If you find faults with even the way he walks and the sound of his voice, is there anything you like about him? Why are you with him? He might eventually start resenting you if everything he says is subject to correction by you. 4 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 12:09am On Feb 19, 2015 |
prissyluv:Hmmmm okey then,.I will let him come. Thanks dear. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 12:10am On Feb 19, 2015 |
cococandy: ![]() |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by arizona2k5(m): 12:53am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Sometimes the answers we seek are right there... *singing* all u got 2 do is look me in me eyes ![]() ![]() ![]() https://reviews.naij.com/thinnest-android-phone-the-blu-vivo-air.html |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by An0nimus: 1:27am On Feb 19, 2015 |
FOREXMARTS:Hard truth. *goes back to spectator mode* |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 1:27am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther: Let him come The worst that can happen is your dad telling him not to come back,which may not even happen Assurance to your man that you love him greatly and will work with him to change your dad's mind is what he needs more than anything. Also assure him that not receiving the ring at this time is not because you don't love him or are not sure but because you want to sort through this first and be able to wear his ring proudly. 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 1:35am On Feb 19, 2015 |
@all the people trying to contact me by email,please share your stories here,it could help someone and you will have others to chip in and may give the better advise But if you insist on an email my email is babyosisi@hotmail.com |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 2:36am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther: My dear do not tell him before hand or u want him to rehearse 101 why he cannot marry you, when he comes to the house, just tell him dad some one came to see you. U can pray and fast about the meeting, there is nothing God cannot do oh. My dear as u and hubby to be play ur own path physically, u can also follow it spiritually with prayers. Another suggestion might be for him to meet ur mum first when ur dad is not around so she can know him and make her own judgement. Any decision u make, i wish u all the best 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 2:39am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther:I think you should not bring the issue up till ur man comes for the first time. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 5:48am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther: I have a very good feeling about this. You won't miss him. I think after His first meeting with ur Dad subsequent meetings should follow, with a short time ur Dad will warm up to him. Am able to have long conversations with old people cos am very vast, I hope he is to cos from the little u have said about ur Dad i see ur Dad quizzing him directly or indirectly, Prep ur man before sending him to the front. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Funjosh(m): 5:48am On Feb 19, 2015 |
chisom101:+ Wives checking their husbands phones and reading his messages are liable to die young ![]() |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by barnaby04(m): 5:54am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Wives of Naijas. Season One! |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Sashafm(f): 6:09am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Hunwa:Thanks so much for this wonderful advice, you said what was actually on my mind. i just wanted an assurance that with time, things will work. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 6:31am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Funjosh: In this case are liable to long life sans HIV 6 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 6:37am On Feb 19, 2015 |
babyosisi:Aunty shouldn't u be asleep by now? (smiles) |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 6:42am On Feb 19, 2015 |
FOREXMARTS: Slept and woke up 10 pm ![]() ![]() It's 11.40 ![]() Let me close my eyes and see if sleep will come |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Funjosh(m): 6:45am On Feb 19, 2015 |
babyosisi: Lolz.... But honestly their are some husbands that their wives shouldnt just bother checking their sms or rushing to pick their calls. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 6:49am On Feb 19, 2015 |
FOREXMARTS:Good morning. Just like ma'am kimoni suggested I wrote a letter before I slept I then dropped it in his car. He left for work by 4 because he has some suspect he is taking to court this morning. He sent me a text saying "Herz, I don't hate you or your friend, just remove your mind from there and go for a man from the east or somewhere else. I am your father and I want the best for you. You don't know the Yoruba's. I dont want to see him but if you insist I see him then no problem, I will see him but it really won't change anything. We will talk more when I return and please cook banga soup and pounded yam for me". I think I'm beginning to understand his fears/why he is saying a big NO........now I understand.......well people can't be the same but it will take a long time to make dad see that. Good morning everybody. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 7:01am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther: I suspect the civil war, a lot of wounds haven't healed till now. Most Yoruba's are scared of giving off their daughters to igbos and vice versa. Will wait for u to discuss with him then will take it up from there. Hope ur night was good? |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by thorpido(m): 7:09am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther:Let him see him first.He said it might not change anything but it can. Of course he has his fears and a generalized opinion about the yorubas but his generation is not the same as now. I'm sure your guy can give him a good impression.He's surely going to quiz him. Cook him the banga soup and pounded yam first make him body cool down. Don't forget to seek your mother's support. 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 7:11am On Feb 19, 2015 |
FOREXMARTS:Also his friend's daughter married a Yoruba man who eventually turned her into a punching bag. He would beat her till she sometimes faints. He did it to the extent that he killed his baby in her womb and she had to go through major operation twice and to crown it all, he was an armed robber unknown to everybody until he went for a robbery mission and was caught.....I also think its part of it but like I said everybody can't be the same. The Igbo's he wants me to go to, I tried this awka guy but the communion was zero, in fact if I don't move then no communication. I see people's relationship too and I know how it goes. Again everybody can't be the same. For me I will say its character, who we are and not where we come from. My night was good thank you. ![]() |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 7:18am On Feb 19, 2015 |
thorpido:Mum suggested I do a village square meeting ![]() I will allow him come surely......hmmm lakes will have to defend his CVE 599 in front of my dad o. ![]() All I know is I can't start searching for an Igbo man, abi them get Igbo men tree I should go pluck my choice from? ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 7:36am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther: Bia nwanyi oma i never chop this morning and u cracking a brother up. Lol@Igbo tree. It's just like my place where no one voted for obj cos he was the commander in charge of the battalion that took our place(Oguta) during the civil war with the help of our Ijaw neighbours. They killed and raped and committed all sorts of war time atrocities and the young generation then are parents now so imagine a babe telling her father that she wants to marry a Yoruba man or worst from ogun state,"Ogutaeeeeeee! i ra nshi" is the first reply she will get. But it happens, my cousin married a Yoruba man from ibadan. 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Darteyyyy(m): 7:37am On Feb 19, 2015 |
I'm think I'd rather keep my distance from marriage... Tis not meant for everyone, not with these awful things people that once claim to love each other are doing to each other. I'll adopt... I rest my case. I can't now come and die young. 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by thorpido(m): 7:45am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther:What if you find the igbo man and you end up not happy with him? Let him meet your dad first.He will flow naturally with him. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 7:50am On Feb 19, 2015 |
FOREXMARTS:Lol. Oguta men are proud ![]() Lol @ Ogutaeeeeeeee! I ra nshi ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by okotv(m): 7:51am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Darteyyyy:Marriage is beautiful if consummated properly. Marriage isn't meant for everyone but do you have the consecration to remain chaste all your life ? You might be scared because of all you have heard but its not always that way. Good morning |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 7:53am On Feb 19, 2015 |
thorpido:OK thanks. If only my dad understands how my mind is, if I miss this one eh, any man that will end with will have to work a lot to even gain my smile. ![]() |
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