samflexxy:
1)Catch his attention, but in a
different manner that all girls
usually do.

Your goal is to make him
remember you and like you for who you are, not
just for your good looks. Make him think you're
special - be charming, smart, sexy, and fun to be
around; in a word, show off your best parts. Let
him know you're not like the other girls - so he
will eventually treat you differently, too.

2) Make him respect you.

Faking affection
is forbidden. This guy will show no respect
for you if you're willing to accept everything that
comes from him. When he goes overboard, for
instance saying unpleasant things to you or
making fun of you, gently, but firmly warn him
you don't accept this kind of behaviour. Also, be
careful how YOU behave yourself. If you look like
you're trying too hard and flirt with every guy
you encounter, he will think you're promiscuous
and treat you accordingly.


3). Try getting to know him a little.


Being
"just friends" works in the beginning. But
beware: don't act COMPLETELY like his pals;
don't lose your femininity. But don't make
romantic allusions just yet. Getting to know him
better will prove helpful later: you will know
when he's lying, what's his general attitude
towards girls and so on.


4). now you can try to flirt with him
a little. Don't make it too obvious though.
Subtlety is the key here. He will most likely
understand the message and respond. But don't
let him get too comfortable; as soon as he
wants to get closer to you, you'll going to have
to reject him gently. But let him know he can call
you again. Tell him you *kind of* like him, but
you don't fully trust him yet- and he'll have to
prove himself worthy of your trust. At this
point, he's already supposed to like you back, if
you've shown him your best traits AND a little
bit of interest in him. He will hopefully try
harder to get you- these guys have a huge ego,
and wouldn't like the idea of not being able to
get a girl. Tell him that you can change your
mind if you go on a few *real* dates with him,
and during these dates, he must prove himself
to gain your full trust.


5) These dates will decide whether
he's the right guy for you, or not.

They shouldn't be official (in the way that it
doesn't mean you two have a relationship), so
there can be no 'break-up' in case things don't
work out between you two, and reason no.2:
because such guys act differently in a
relationship than they do in a non-official date.
Make them fun, interesting and original; you can
choose romantic to unusual locations, you
decide; just make sure he doesn't get bored with
you around. Be yourself, so he will get to know
the real you; and -very important- don't get
jealous if he happens to look admiringly at other
girls (jealousy will turn him off instantly; after
all, you're not yet a couple)..

Note: after watching a movie 'think like a man' that's what brought the idea of this thread ladies I think you should watch that movie.

Composed--by---samflexxy

spacefreak:


I like your comment. I like you.

chimkaire:
I tell ya. Kids all over here with 'em equally childish opinions

samflexxy:
so opening a thread to voice out your opinion and views now makes someone childish
Smh

Cutesexy1:
tame?so the individual has become a wild animal that should be tamed

samflexxy:
so opening a thread to voice out your opinion and views now makes someone childish
Smh

Jasboi:
my first post dis year! op i need steps on hw to be a womanizer

chimkaire:
Every gaddem thought of yours is staring at us here on NL

ggrin:
Iceberylin

iceberylin:

Am loyal joor.unlike u

ggrin:
loyal milk ba

Cutesexy1:
tame?so the individual has become a wild animal that should be tamed