You find such a guy and you begin to form for him? There must be something wrong somewhere

How do you know he is an husband material?

1. He calls you often and asks how your day went.

He does this in a friendly manner. He doesn't "act" it.


2. He visits you on sick bed and perhaps sleeps there with you.

This implies that he is willing to accept your "ups" and your "downs" alike.


3. He loves your siblings as his own.

He loves your siblings and plays with them carefreely? Haba, think about it!


4. He talks to you with respect.

He doesn't talk down on you even when you talk flippantly. He ignores without and scolds within with respect.


5. He doesn't force sex on you.

He loves you so much that he won't force anything you're not comfortable with including premarital sex.


6. He gives you cash when you need it.

He is responsible in your financial issues. He likes giving to you to the best of his capacity. He even tells you his whole salary . He loves you then.


7. He tells you the truth not minding how you feel. He later pets you


He doesn't leave you to yourself. He scolds within but with love. He draws you back with one hand however. He doesn't sleep with malice.


8. He talks of his future plans with you in it.

He plans his future and includes you. That's a major sign.



Ladies, this kind of guy exist. Don't give up on us yet. Naija guys are all you need. At least, I am here


You can add more...

Aha!!! I knew it!... FTC.





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For our tomorrow you're giving your today. Nothing in life is greater than this. For honour, for mates, for country. God bless you all

How many guys are like this?

elantraceey:
How many guys are like this?

I just listed my qualities dearie

Only a robot can do all these

there is nothing like husband material...
Every man is suitable for marriage

englishmart:
always a counter thread for every thread?

Thus fulfilling Newton's 3rd Law Of Motion.

To keep NL Romance Section In Constant MOTION, you need counter threads.

Has the guy got no life.?

hatbricker:
Only a robot can do all these

That's not true. Nobody is perfect but it doesn't say One can't score a "B" in some of them and "A" in the rest

ezra01:
Has the guy got no life.?

SMH

Enegod:
there is nothing like husband material...
Every man is suitable for marriage

One's life MUST gravitate towards his greatest beliefs...Young man, change that belief pattern.

Ladies, if ya want dis kinda man u won't get it here on earth buh in heaven

emusmith:


That's not true. Nobody is perfect but it doesn't say One can't score a "B" in some of them and "A" in the rest

u know how gals reason, they'll take u for a fool if u do half of these.

OREMUSSANCTUS:
Ladies, if ya want dis kinda man u won't get it here on earth buh in heaven

I guess some of us are living in Heaven on Earth

hatbricker:
u know how gals reason, they'll take u for a fool if u do half of these.

Hmm. I used to say that o...Bro, let her be the one to play the fool and I'll know she didn't deserve me but if we're in a relationship and I love her, what stops me from expressing my love?

emusmith:


I just listed my qualities dearie

Hian , i knew you would say that but if i hear

elantraceey:



Hian , i knew you would say that but if i hear

# turns back with my hands on my chest- You broke my heart #

emusmith:


# turns back with my hands on my chest- You broke my heart #

Should i bring super glue?

9) He is purposeful and courageous enough to lead the direction of his life and yours : he doesn't just have lofty dreams whose height cannot be attained.

10) He protects and defends your honor: he stands up for you when his family and friends are displeased with you.

He's a goodlistner
Hez always ready to listen(pretend to listen) to her stories, even though are blabbiong doesnt make any sense or meaning, he would always listening attentively and give are the required comments(wow, thats nice, hmmm, really etc)

He takes you anywhere
He doesn't prevent her from going out with him even to the bar or watch football with him.


Kitchen Assistant
He assists you in the kitchen, by washing the dishes with you, cooks for you attimes etc . If your yoruba boyfrend can pound yam for you or Igbo Fiancee can pound FuFU for you, meen forgerit, he is Mr right Please stick to such guy.

Laundry Assistant
This is the greatest quality although somepeople call such guys dumb, but its still part of it, if the guy can washcloths with you then no doubt he's the one.........Note it shouldn't be on every occassion or you packing all her cloth jez maybe you doing the washing and him doing the rinsing or spreading.
Although i cant wash cloth for my babe ooo ...,my love no reach that side, cos i hate washing





#PsalmWise TheJollyGoodFellow#

How many yards are we talking about here?

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A good listener

By nature, men aren’t the best listeners. Instead, they tend to be more focused on fixing problems as opposed to trying to understand them. While it’s nice to have a man who wants to fix your issues, it’s even nicer to have one who is willing to listen and lend an ear when something is going wrong. A man who can listen and understand is definitely worth keeping around.

A good communicator

In combination with a good listener, you also want a man who is a good communicator. Men aren’t always in touch with their emotions, so it can be hard to find one who is willing to talk and communicate about any problems or concerns that he has. Communication is important in any relationship so make sure that the man you marry is in touch with his emotions so that down the road communication problems aren’t a relationship breaker.

A provider

A man with a good job, a set career path, and a steady income is definitely worthwhile. You want to be with a man who will be able to provide for you, and while you shouldn’t expect him to buy you everything under the sun and pay all of your bills, he should be able to provide for himself and help you along the way if necessary.

A protector

What woman doesn’t want a guy she can count on to protect her? The man you marry should be one who you can depend on to protect you from any outside forces that may harm you. While he doesn’t have to carry a gun or some other weapon, you’ll want to know that deep down if anything were to ever happen to you, he’d be right there to help.

A semi-handy man

So you don’t need a man who can build a house from scratch, but it’s nice to have a guy who is somewhat handy. If something breaks around the house or if something goes wrong with your car, it’s nice to know that your man will hopefully be able to lend a helping hand. A handy-man will really go a long way.

Family oriented

Before you marry a man and start a family with him, it’s nice to know that he has a good familial foundation and values that. Does he spend time with his family? Is he always offering to help your family if they need it? A man who is already family-oriented is bound to make a good dad and family member.

Faithfulness

When you get married, you vow to stay faithful to your partner, but faithfulness should start long before your walk down the aisle. Find a man who is faithful, loyal, and committed to no one but you long before you say “I Do”. Finding a man who is truly in it for the long run is bound to ease any worries or fears of unfaithfulness that you may have.

Sensitivity

A sensitive man doesn’t mean that your husband has to cry at lovey dovey chick flick movies but instead a man who is sensitive enough to understand your emotions, acknowledge him, and communicate as much as necessary. A man with a chip on his shoulder isn’t likely to be very sensitive. Marry a man who has let down his guard and is willing to be sensitive to you and himself.

Adaptable

Life is full of unexpected twists, turns, and bumps in the road. Change is bound to happen and since change cannot be avoided, it’s important to find a man who is able to adapt. When life throws you lemons, you want to be with a man who is willing to make lemonade with you. A man who easily adapts to new scenarios will help you make it through the most unexpected curveballs that are thrown to you.

Trustworthy

Find a man who refuses to lie to you, even the smallest white lie. It’s hard to trust a man after he has lied to you and unless you’re willing to fully forgive him, it’ll be hard to forget his betrayal. Marry a man who you can trust inside and out 100%. You don’t want to go through a marriage doubting each and every word he says.

A man who practices humility

Most men don’t want to admit when they’re wrong, so it’s nice to find one who isn’t so arrogant and instead practices a bit of humility. It’s much more admirable to find a man who can admit his wrongdoings, which in the end prevents plenty of arguments. This will make any marriage easier.

Confident

There’s a fine line between cocky and confident, and when it comes to finding a husband, you want one who is more in the confident category. A man who is confident in public is able to handle random life situations. A confident man is bound to be secure in himself as well as in his relationship. A man who is truly confident will show this trait no matter where he is: at home, in the office, or out in public.

Able to make you laugh

Laughing is the best medicine, not only when you’re sick or down, but when your relationship/marriage hits a snag. Having a man that can make you laugh is one of the best ways to repair a relationship as well as to keep the relationship fun and youthful. Having inside jokes and laughing at each other for hours on end is bound to make for a great marriage.

Down to earth

No one wants a man that lives with his head up in the clouds. Having a husband who is down to earth can help eliminate a lot of problems in the future. A down to earth man is more likely to be level-headed and a clear thinker. A down to earth guy is bound to be more understanding, more realistic, and more reliable when it comes to a marriage and long-term commitment.

Responsible

A man should not only be responsible, but he should take responsibility if necessary. While a husband typically defines a man who is married, the dictionary also defines a husband as being a manager. A manager, someone who takes the lead, is someone who needs to be responsible and willing to be a leader. A responsible man is not only going to make a good husband, but a good father.

Source>> http://madamenoire.com/273396/is-he-the-one-traits-that-make-a-man-husband-material/

elantraceey:



Should i bring super glue?

Please do, glue the Vena cava.
Also, check out the Right and Left Ventricles.

I feel some pains in my Aorta... please it needs immediate attention

Ouch!

Evina:
9) He is purposeful and courageous enough to lead the direction of his life and yours : he doesn't just have lofty dreams whose height cannot be attained.
[b]
10) He protects and defends your honor: [/b]he stands up for you when his family and friends are displeased with you.

Hmm...Power Oil! Sorry Power Points! wow!

# picks pen and paper #

Enegod:
there is nothing like husband material...
Every man is suitable for marriage

i disagree with u on this one.not all man are suitable for marriage,some are animal that treat ladies like shiitttts #u know what i mean!

Yayy... M a husband material.. Where d ladies come hook up with daddy

Psalmwise:
He's a goodlistner
Hez always ready to listen(pretend to listen) to her stories, even though are blabbiong doesnt make any sense or meaning, he would always listening attentively and give are the required comments(wow, thats nice, hmmm, really etc)

He takes you anywhere
He doesn't prevent her from going out with him even to the bar or watch football with him.


Kitchen assistant
He washes the dishes with you, cooks for you attimes, sometimes he assists you in the kitchen. Please stick to such guy

Laundry Assistant
This is the greatest quality although somepeople call such guys dumb, but its still part of it, if the guy can washcloths with you then no doubt he's the one.........Note it shouldn't be on every occassion .
Although i cant wash cloth for my babe ooo ...,my love no reach that side, cos i hate washing

Hmm...A good listener.

Laundry , I like washing. If I get too busy, I'll buy her a washing machine

Cooking: I'll do my best o ...When she's pregnant, she'll need the expertise I've gathered as a bachelor

elantraceey:
How many guys are like this?

Just me

yemicoal:
Yayy... M a husband material.. Where d ladies come hook up with daddy

Lol...They don't want a Sugar Daddy but a Partner...

emusmith:


Hmm...Power Oil! Sorry Power Points! wow!

# picks pen and paper #

kudos to my boo , cos he has all those qualities op listed! .#I am indeed lucky to have him.