Must tru love comes frm a decent background? I tink wat he want to know is if it's moral or immoral to date such people

Marc9:


I'm from where you need to be an adult before I can tell you.

im glad you aint an adult yet thats y you have to spit this shit out, im so sorry hope you dont get rejected by girls with ur horrible look thats y you wanna manage ur brotha leftover? What a mofo? With alot of girls around? you sounds like a LOSER.

chrisbaba1:


Its not safe mehn, i know u might be deeply in love but its not safe.

From my own experience,a guy can sleep with almost any lady he has had a history with in the past or at least flirt, for some reason i don't understand, it just works that way, soul ties i guess.... So let the girl go and don't cause yourself unnecessary pain in the near future because if things happen, ud hate ur brother, hate women and this girl will vanish into the arms of a guy who knows none of her history while u pick up the remnant of ur messed up heart

For a woman, that's not how is works and remember both have to agree before any sleeping begins. Like the op said they have not even spoken since, meaning that it was probably a one night stand with no emotions attached so I doubt any of them would want to sleep with each other.

shejane:
Is exactly what my friend is going thru now with her boyfriend, she once dated d elder broda in school and now d younger one but she didn't kw till d guy invited her to his family house only for her to recognise d house to be her ex's apartment thou she told d guy immediately and d guy was like it doesn't matter

But d elder broda made a comment about her counting Census with guys and dat gt d younger one thinking real hard

So I don't think is good or healthy sha

And d guy has been acting strange dis days

...here we go
On recognizing this apartment, she would have started purging This would have lent her wings to bat off forever

This kinda thing rarely works meeeeeeeeeeeehn

I no fit

If i understood you well, u mean dating not crush or fling. Hmmm, my brother, i advise u not to continue with it. There is this joke my lawyer friends used to crack then that a Bleep that was bleeped in the previous that the "fuckor" and the "fuckee" accept that the Bleep was well bleeped they can always Bleep again. This summarized the advise. Do u remember how similar stuff scattered Ryan Giggs family when he was having an affair with his brother's wife. It was later discovered that the romance dated back 8 years before it blew. Ti ll date Ryan is not in good terms with his brother. Do not let emotions blind your mind to realities otherwise reality may bind your mind to eternal regret

Can you share her with your brother? I mean knowing fully well that she has slept with him in the past, can u live with that? Do u trust her enough that she won't go bck to her old way. If your answer is YES then u can follow ur instinct

Many ppl Don talk my mind..so I will wait patiently for the part two when you play the omoge mi track...but with this kind blindness... You go really go down bad....word of advice...NEVER TRUST GIRLSSSSS

profjones:
chai!!!!!! c advice 4rm a loving enemy....

Why would I condemn my lady just because my brother was on to her?

I rather it was my brother than it was you. My brother, I cannot whack. But you, I can!

I can only sleep with her,but dating or marriage.....no way

I will...!!... a lot can happen in 3 years!!

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kandiikane:

For a woman, that's not how is works and remember both have to agree before any sleeping begins. Like the op said they have not even spoken since, meaning that it was probably a one night stand with no emotions attached so I doubt any of them would want to sleep with each other.

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Bro, i dont think it can work, eitherways.... Even as a guy uno how we get when we feel lonely, sometimes guys flirt with the wrong girls becos of lonliness... if the brother in question is a real womaniser, he would successfully sleep with her again, they will both regret their actions, then do it again and again till they dont care..... As humans we just have to be able to let things and people go, in a short while he will be with a girl he loves and laugh at himself for thinking his brothers ex was the one for him.....

yinkuschua:


It possible sometimes...

What's possible

izuch:
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Bros the guy need advice, so come and edit your "dot"

Am currently dating my elder brother's Ex

I dnt knw weda dey had s3x though

None of my biz

Guy free the girl. What I will tell you is this, road wey person don pass before he fit pass am again. What I mean is this, if you continue to date this girl, and if she has great love for your brother then or she enjoyed your brother then, there could be every possibility that it could happen again. When this happen and you found out, this will separate you and your brother. Chase that girl sharperly and fast because she has a dented reputation as regards bleeping bro previously. There are many other innocent girls out there. Run as fast as Usain Bolt or faster than Usain Bolt from this babe. One love bro

chrisbaba1:
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Bro, i dont think it can work, eitherways.... Even as a guy uno how we get when we feel lonely, sometimes guys flirt with the wrong girls becos of lonliness... if the brother in question is a real womaniser, he would successfully sleep with her again, they will both regret their actions, then do it again and again till they dont care..... As humans we just have to be able to let things and people go, in a short while he will be with a girl he loves and laugh at himself for thinking his brothers ex was the one for him.....

your loneliness has nothing to do with her. Just because you got an ere.ction doesn't mean she would do you a favour of helping it go back down.

My guy did told abt his step bro askin his ex out n d gal told my gûy abt it n askd him to b careful of him. I tink its a sick tin for a guy to do.

fyneboi79:
I can only sleep with her,but dating or marriage.....no way

..'You can only sleep with her, but dating or marriage..no way, then you dump her and marry the one that 100 men have slept with in her past!

Definitely a kiddo!

Shouldn't you be reading your 'macmillian' than being here?!

it's not wrong to fall in love with a girl that has a rough and dirty past....but it will be wrong and hunting if any of ur family members featured in her past......
my question is....what if it was your dad she slept with in the past will u ever consider dating her?.... family is family.... think twice bro not majorly for now but for the future....

let her start a new life with someone else....

it will hunt u...

Marc9:


Why would I condemn my lady just because my brother was on to her?

I rather it was my brother than it was you. My brother, I cannot whack. But you, I can!

bros, quit deceiving urself nd face reality, ONCE bleeped iz always prone to being bleeped over nd over again, either by ur bro, driver, cook or any of ur close associates. @Op, let go of d gurl nd find ur true luv somewia else. no say i no tell u ooo

Why not?if the giirl fine and her toto sweet pass honey,I go put head o

Let these advice of NLders with dignity and integrity pops into your head like popcorn, if not, you will visit this Forum sooner or later, and by then your name will be sorry.

crious relationship is a no no, bub she can b ma Bleep buddy sha

No

It would create an awkward situation. Imagine how family gatherings would be when u are with your wife and brother. It's just to messy.

Marc9:


..'You can only sleep with her, but dating or marriage..no way, then you dump her and marry the one that 100 men have slept with in her past!

Definitely a kiddo!

Shouldn't you be reading your 'macmillian' than being here?!

Your father said it was his turn to read the macmillian and said ur mother has just moved up to ABC level






Idi0t like u

Lordabas:
just found out now before it got serious or we started dating that she slept with my brother 3yrs ago. She has been very honest with me about how she was wild partying hard, very young and naive.i think i got a thing for her and by her actions of late to me and words of other people i think she's a very nice girl. Whatever actions people had in the past with her when i wasn't involved i tell them to leave it in the past i dont care
To be honest with all of you i really don't care but i think some strong feelings are clouding full judgement

...I and my brother still get along great together

Ok Would appreciate some helpful insight

If its just to date and for one night purposes, go ahead. But if marriage, I don't think so.

Most ladies will urge you to go ON with it while most guys will tell you NOT TO but reality is, morals should guide you.

Smelling thing

NEVER