There are relationship red flags and many choose to disregard them. You can’t leave the choice of marriage to feelings, it’s a destiny decision. Know that you deserve the best.

1. Never marry someone who does not know God:-There is no good man/woman, the only good thing in any man/women is God. You can only find fulfillment in God.

2. Never marry someone without direction. Also never marry someone going to a direction opposite yours.

3. Never marry someone who is desperate: - If you close your eyes and marry in error you will open your eyes and live in error. A desperate person thinks will find fulfillment in the person he is with.

4. Don’t marry someone you don’t love: - Don’t marry someone you are not proud of. Never marry somebody out of pity or sympathy.

5. Never marry a person that does not love you: - When love is thick, faults are thin. When love is thin, faults are thick. To have a great marriage don’t just marry someone you can live with, marry someone you cannot live without.

6. Never marry mummy’s boy: - Mummy’s boy cannot take any independent decision. He cannot say no to the things he should say no to.

7. Don’t marry the domineering woman: - She is a he, not ready to bend to any person. When submission is absent, danger is ahead.

8. Don’t marry someone you don’t trust. Trust is the foundation of relationship.

9. Don’t marry an unserious believer such as: bro or sis fire brigade who has a doctor patient relationship with God. Bro or sis celebration that only come to church during festive periods. Etc.

10. Never marry someone who focuses on externals. Don’t marry someone without character. Character is what sustains a marriage.

11. Don’t marry an abuser (one who abuses verbally, emotionally or physically). Don’t marry an addict.

12. Don’t marry a raven. A raven is one who is not under authority.

13. Don’t marry a masquerade:-  A masquerade is someone you don’t know; a stranger. Courtship is mandatory. Don’t marry someone who your loved ones don’t like.

14. Don’t marry the married, don’t date the married, and don’t flirt with the married.  

Culled from a message from the youth alive singles conference, Winners Chapel, Effurun.

U are right

kent79:
U are right

thanks.

nice one

till death do us path. ones you are into marriage you are in for it. no turning back.

benuejosh:
till death do us path. ones you are into marriage you are in for it. no turning back.

true

So who person go come marry na?,

No one person has all the good qualities in this world jhor.

Darteyyyy:
So who person go come marry na?,

No one person has all the good qualities in this world jhor.

marry someone who is teachable.

Lateralmaths:
marry someone who is teachable.

Teachable in the sense that I can change her?

No one wants to be changed now

Lateralmaths:
marry someone who is teachable.

If you do mean someone i would teach i would say that's a big "no" no"

damm so all this kind people dey this world,thumb up op.#Thank GOD i am taken!

thnks for helping..

Darteyyyy:


Teachable in the sense that I can change her?

No one wants to be changed now

someone who knows that she is not perfect and strives to improve.

1miccza:


If you do mean someone i would teach i would say that's a big "no" no"

someone that can admit a wrong and is willing to become a better person.

Lateralmaths:
someone that can admit a wrong and is willing to become a better person.

Oooohh right!!!!