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10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by priscaoge(f): 7:23pm On Feb 21, 2015

Stephanie share this piece,I find it quite interesting so I decided to bring it here wink wink


1. Stop Taking Each Other Down:
For a woman, it is another woman. As women, we need to stop taking each other down with our words and actions and rather focus on lifting each other up. The world would be a much better place if we all did that.

2. Stop Comparing: embarassed
As women, we find it so easy to look at ourselves and compare varying qualities that other women possess. Each of us is created in our own unique and special way. Let us try taking the time to realize the unique qualities that each of us has rather than comparing.

3. Fighting Over Guys undecided undecided
Obviously, if your best girlfriend has an affair with your guy, you have every right to scream and yell. That kind of betrayal warrants anger, for sure. But most times, we should take our anger out on our partners rather than the other girl. Also, if your girlfriend is in a relationship and you are not, don’t allow your jealousy and frustration to get in the way of your friendship.

4. Criticizing Other People’s Weight:
There are very polite ways to make a complement on another woman’s weight. But saying “oh my gosh you’re so skinny” or “wow, you’ve added so much weight!” might be more hurtful than we think it is.

5. Withholding Compliments lipsrsealed
Not only is it bad to compliment someone negatively, it is also wrong to withhold good compliments. If your girlfriend has a really nice hairstyle on, or has lost some weight and is looking great, go ahead and say it to her.

6. Telling each Other's Secret: angry
It’s really sad to confide in someone and find out that the person has let out your secret to the wrong person. Ladies, let’s not do this to ourselves.

7. Not been Supportive: sad
Many times as women, we desert our friends when they need us the most. Its our friend’s wedding, birthday, graduation, store opening…. and because we feel a certain way about that achievement or milestone, we don’t give our support. So wrong.

8. Stop Competing: sad sad
I wish I could scream this. Not everything in life is a competition. No one has to really ‘win’ that best dressed award or most expensive bag title. Focus on your own qualities that are unique and special to you.

9. Comparing Our Bodies:
Hey ladies, we really need to stop this. Many of us have done harmful things to our bodies in a bid to look like the next person. Love who you are and don’t think you need to look like anyone else.

10. Stop Hating: cry
I really didn’t know what to title this last point. It might not be the appropriate word to use, but have you noticed that some women just don’t like other women for absolutely NO REASON? I’ve heard this a lot of times “I don’t like that lady” and when you ask why, the response is “I don’t know, I just don’t like her“. Maybe she walks or talks in a certain way that you don’t feel comfortable with and because of that, you conclude that you don’t like her even though you hardly know her!

This gets me confused. Let’s continue this discussion in the comment section. Ladies, why do you think we do this to each other? How can we stop such habits?

What other things do we need to stop doing to each other?

Read more @
http://www.stephaniedaily.com/10-things-women-need-to-stop-doing-to-each-other/

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by zyzxx(m): 7:25pm On Feb 21, 2015
Stop thinking that a guy as become ur atm
D moment u said yes.

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by Cutehector(m): 7:26pm On Feb 21, 2015
They also need to stop stealin dr fellow girls bra and pant in female hostels. grin na hear I hear am ooo

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by Nobody: 7:27pm On Feb 21, 2015
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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by naijaboiy: 7:27pm On Feb 21, 2015
They should learn to stop hating on their fellow ladies who were lucky to get married before them.

What were you doing when she was getting married

Still flexing life with so many guys

And now you hating undecided

SMH

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by kilokeys(m): 7:30pm On Feb 21, 2015
why is the op spoiling our show...
we need women to hate on eachother.. they are disunited and we are this miserable
. if they come together..
we would be in cages o..
brought out for sports (gladiator things) and se. x..

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by Brugo(m): 7:32pm On Feb 21, 2015
This is front page material.

Hello Ladies! Please don't heed the OP. We don't need you ganging up in solidarity against us. Stay divided please. Thank you.

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by Viktoh(m): 7:34pm On Feb 21, 2015
cool
Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by chibwike(m): 7:35pm On Feb 21, 2015
They shud stop kissing and hugging themselves in public...and also calling themselves darling and my love. ..coz if we guys do that....the rest is history.

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by Nobody: 7:36pm On Feb 21, 2015
I don't do all except No 10.. I can fit hate some girls ehhh! grin
Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by Nobody: 7:37pm On Feb 21, 2015
kilokeys:
why is the op spoiling our show...
we need women to hate on eachother.. they are disunited and we are this miserable
. if they come together..
we would be in cages o..
brought out for sports (gladiator things) and se. x..
Really!
I just hope you are kidding undecided
Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by Enegod(m): 7:38pm On Feb 21, 2015
Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by koolet: 7:38pm On Feb 21, 2015
They should pleeeese stop telling liesangry

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by chibwike(m): 7:40pm On Feb 21, 2015
lagmostkuit:
I don't do all except No 10.. I can fit hate some girls ehhh! grin
re u a girl?

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by kevv(m): 7:41pm On Feb 21, 2015
Niggurs shouldnt even try to understand the female mindset, that shii is as complicated as rocket science.

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by Nobody: 7:41pm On Feb 21, 2015
I don't do all except No 10.. I can fit hate some girls ehhh!

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by Tallesty1(m): 7:42pm On Feb 21, 2015
Stop Romancing themselves.

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by Hazardd(m): 7:43pm On Feb 21, 2015
girls be like ... grin

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by Nobody: 7:44pm On Feb 21, 2015
chibwike:
re u a girl?
I'm a woman!

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by Nobody: 7:44pm On Feb 21, 2015
Nice write up op! point and clear.

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by priscaoge(f): 7:46pm On Feb 21, 2015
Some Nairaland attention seekers (ladies) need to Stop opening silly threads about who envy's them,who "Wish" to be like them or asking how they look undecided undecided

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by priscaoge(f): 7:48pm On Feb 21, 2015
kilokeys:
why is the op spoiling our show...
we need women to hate on eachother.. they are disunited and we are this miserable
. if they come together..
we would be in cages o..
brought out for sports (gladiator things) and se. x..

cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy Lol this is funny

No vex say I burst d bubble angry angry angry angry
Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by kilokeys(m): 7:52pm On Feb 21, 2015
priscaoge:


cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy Lol this is funny

No vex say I burst d bubble angry angry angry angry

something funny happend grin
while trying to read the quote on ur dp.. i tried with d first line.. then i got foncused tongue when i read the scribblings across ur boobs. still havent been able to understand them cool
Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by naijaboiy: 7:54pm On Feb 21, 2015
priscaoge:
Some Nairaland attention seekers (ladies) need to Stop opening silly threads about who envy's them,who "Wish" to be like them or asking how they look undecided undecided

I wholeheartedly and seriously Concur from the depth of my being angry

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by chibwike(m): 7:54pm On Feb 21, 2015
lagmostkuit:
I'm a woman!
Ok..cool
Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by naijaboiy: 7:55pm On Feb 21, 2015
chibwike:
They shud stop kissing and hugging themselves in public...and also calling themselves darling and my love. ..coz if we guys do that....the rest is history.
This too grin
Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by naijaboiy: 7:56pm On Feb 21, 2015
lagmostkuit:
I don't do all except No 10.. I can fit hate some girls ehhh!
Na small pikin dey worry you undecided
Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by priscaoge(f): 8:01pm On Feb 21, 2015
kilokeys:


something funny happend grin
while trying to read the quote on ur dp.. i tried with d first line.. then i got foncused tongue when i read the scribblings across ur boobs. still havent been able to understand them cool

shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked Across my gini? shocked shocked Omo see description oooo shocked cheesy cheesy cheesy....

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by Nobody: 8:01pm On Feb 21, 2015
grin grin grin

they should support themselves when a lady is bashed

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Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by priscaoge(f): 8:03pm On Feb 21, 2015
naijaboiy:

I wholeheartedly and seriously Concur from the depth of my being angry

cheesy cheesy cheesy That sh.....t de vex me eeehhh angry angry angry. One just did that today n inked my moniker, I just read n smiled,then threw it where it rightfully belong.......The Thrash Bin cool cool
Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by priscaoge(f): 8:05pm On Feb 21, 2015
diddydiva:
grin grin grin

they should support themselves when a lady is bashed

Not on Nland grin cheesy cheesy cheesy......Infact a Lady will bash u 1st n then wait for supporters cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by marieclare(f): 8:05pm On Feb 21, 2015
Op, you've said it all

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