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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Blitz888(m): 6:36pm On Feb 22, 2015
CHM11:

Are you based in the east?
Nah. But had my tertiary education there primarily to understand my culture and language very well. Thank God I followed my dad's wise advice if not ehh.. To even speak Igbo for be war not to talk of understanding my folks.

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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Feb 22, 2015
splashbaby:
Like something is wrong with you upstairs...my domestic animals are better than you... At least they show signs of trying to communicate...Many like you have no good manners because you have known. You can't bring anything sensible to this thread for us to discuss... If we meet in real life and you behave in this manner... by now I will be begging those beating you not to kill you... Lucky you
. Hahaha. See pot calling kettle black. U are the most mannerless and tribalistic person, I hv ever seeb. Keep living in the dark ages and spreading ur tribal bias. I advise u to cleanse urself of this stain dat u have b4 it is too late. Ewu. Oloriburuku.

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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by GodMode: 6:37pm On Feb 22, 2015
Notyourb1tch:
My racist tendencies? All because I said that we are all black and not African. Going by your same premise of Caucasian Nigerians, there are also Caucasian Africans so what was I supposed to call us non-Caucasians Einstein?

When a person uses color to describe another human... Its racist tendencies
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by UnimkeAk(m): 6:38pm On Feb 22, 2015
Whatever u guys do, better keep my light skin igbo babe for me oh! Or else

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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Feb 22, 2015
lol you no well
aryzgreat:
[s][/s]

Continue to miss ur luck till u clock 40.

Anambra guys are d most caring guys. Ask Lola of p-square

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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by ak47mann(m): 6:39pm On Feb 22, 2015
olajide8:

Sis- because they are difficult people* and they can manage each other well- secondly because they feel they are the true igbos' and they don't want to pollute - their blood
just to correct your spelling of ibos cool

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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Franchise21(m): 6:39pm On Feb 22, 2015
Blitz888:
Very true sir. My mum needs to hear this gospel. I love her allthe same.
Plz preach d gospel to her... I hv been doing so to my mom
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by zubby29(m): 6:39pm On Feb 22, 2015
Anambras are like dat.it happened to.me.very sad bt i insisted on my wife even though she is from enugu
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by derock533: 6:41pm On Feb 22, 2015
Please ooooo igbos don't marry only from their tribes alone.....am from Imo state and ready for marriage....I need a Yoruba or House lady....am very serious...but you need to know how to cook very very very well cos I am a very good cook, know how to take care of the house, be very very very caring cos I need it so much....then other qualities of a good wife. Not for jokes, am serious
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by whatx: 6:42pm On Feb 22, 2015
redsquare:


Mumu, you started avoiding Igbos after your NYSC? As if an average Igbo person gives a rat ass what you think about him/her. Nonentity like you seeking online attention. Ogogoro drinking iiidiot.


Kia how would nairaland checkmate underage. This comment is purely stupid and uncalled for.

Like an underage u are, i expect u get back at me even when u have read this part of my msg.
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Notyourb1tch(f): 6:43pm On Feb 22, 2015
GodMode:


When a person uses color to describe another human... Its racist tendencies
You win cheesy am a racist wink
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Nobody: 6:43pm On Feb 22, 2015
bigfrancis21:


You've kept on mentioning this particular thing again and again and I've asked you, what exactly is weird about them? What exactly don't you understand about them? And what was your experience?
pls I beg u to stop replying dis idiot calling himself chm111. He was dumped by an Igbo and is now venting his anger.A fool at his age is definitely a fool forever.

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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by AspDrone(m): 6:44pm On Feb 22, 2015
Radoillo:
*sigh*

How many threads now on the issue of Igbos being too clannish when it comes to marriage?

Maybe I should also start a thread and talk about the two Yoruba girls I dated ( the first during my NYSC days in PH, the second while doing my Masters' in Birmingham) who both told me their fathers would kick me, an Omo Ibo,out of their houses if I dared to show up at their homes talking about marriage.

Igbos are mostly deceivers.... Yorubas find it hard accepting Igbos as in laws but if you are from other tribes they bend there rules
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by wisdompraise(m): 6:45pm On Feb 22, 2015
Notyourb1tch:
This thread has a lot of generalisations.

My dad is from Anambra and he went on to marry a woman who is not even from the same tribe and even country as him. He married a Ghanaian

People generally marry who they understand and are comfortable with. It's not just limited to Igbos or Nigerians but Chinese, Indian etc. It's normal. However as can be seen by myself, Anambra men can marry outside their tribe if they really love you and you have all the qualities they want in a spouse.

My dad is the best man I know. I am proud to be from Anambra. Beautiful rich culture and people.

Igbo Kwenu cheesy cheesy

TeamAnambra.

Nice to have you here, Ada.

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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Calculia: 6:45pm On Feb 22, 2015
J12:


The point is - there's no norm in igboland as regards ethnic preferences in choosing a spouse unlike it obtains in other places.
Various Igbos in the thread have given examples of their relatives who married from other tribes and nationalities, that gives credibility to my assertion that we're the least likely to marry someone of the same tribe when compared to the other two major tribes.

If you check the rates and statistics of Nigerians in inter-racial marriages, you'll find out that majority of them are Igbos.

More and more Igbos will continue to marry people of other tribes.
Majority of Igbos don't stay in the east, they only come rarely during festive seasons. This means many igbo children will continue to be born and bred outside the south east, which means the possibility of them (these children) getting married to a fellow Igbo is very slim. Also remember that Igbos are not too protective of their culture and traditions like the yoruba's and hausas.
You rarely see an igbo person born and bred outside igboland speaking Igbo or even wanting to identify with their being Igbo. I've seen many Igbo people say they can't or won't marry an Igbo person (mostly females) for reasons best known to them but you'll rarely see a yoruba/hausa person say he/she can't marry a yoruba/hausa.

Due to these trends peculiar to the igbos, (migration, cultural independence and education) many igbos won't end up marrying a fellow igbo in the nearest future. Igbo to Igbo marriages will reduce drastically.

Anybody who doesn't acknowledge this is lying to himself

Thank you sir for this comment. I think the OP is heartless.

They want to kill the igbo tribe off. Inter ethnic/racial-marriage is too high amongst the igbos compared to the other two major tribes. At this present rate igbos will be endangered species.

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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Feb 22, 2015
k
AspDrone:

Igbos are mostly deceivers.... Yorubas find it hard accepting Igbos as in laws but if you are from other tribes they bend there rules

Noted.
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Feb 22, 2015
see grammar 'why is Igbo from Anambra'....and you are high on urine. how many men in your family married outside your tribe?
IBRAHIMLAMOUR:
. Its like this guy is high on cheap drugs. If u dnt get the question straight. WHY IS IGBO FROM ANAMBRA DNT LIKE MARRYING other igbos

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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by whatx: 6:49pm On Feb 22, 2015
ak47mann:
just to correct your spelling of ibos cool

Know before u talk na. There is Igbo and there is Ibo
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Nobody: 6:52pm On Feb 22, 2015
says the man from the tribe of sabotuers and tribalism....,.Igbos don suffer for nl
AspDrone:

Igbos are mostly deceivers.... Yorubas find it hard accepting Igbos as in laws but if you are from other tribes they bend there rules

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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by whatx: 6:52pm On Feb 22, 2015
wisdompraise:


TeamAnambra.

Nice to have you here, Ada.

Let Ada confirm if her parents are still together, or village people done pursue the woman and brain washed her.

Hhn hnn hnn (Pete edochie laugh)
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by 0merta(m): 6:53pm On Feb 22, 2015
Peppyluv:
may amadioha disect your head for using the word igbo coup.

If it was not an "Igbo coup", then what was it?

The only Yoruba man in the team, Adewale Ademoyega, was "blackmailingly" coerced into joining. The other 5 members were core Igbos; Besides, no Igbo was killed in the coup, while the Hausas and Yorubas had their share of victims.

And you think it was not an Igbo coup. No let me swear for you o!

Peppyluv, e don tey o! Longest time...

How your husband, 5.00GPA?...hope say you dey do am well!

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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by splashbaby(m): 6:54pm On Feb 22, 2015
nnannaidoko:
. Hahaha. See pot calling kettle black. U are the most mannerless and tribalistic person, I hv ever seeb. Keep living in the dark ages and spreading ur tribal bias. I advise u to cleanse urself of this stain dat u have b4 it is too late. Ewu. Oloriburuku.
oponu oni ra nu radarada.. If we see face to face you will be sorry for your life...products of gorrila insemination.. Omo Iran kiran.. Yanmiri aje okuta ma mu mi oloriburuku. Decorated monkey,

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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by whatx: 6:56pm On Feb 22, 2015
wisdompraise:


TeamAnambra.

Nice to have you here, Ada.

Let Ada confirm if her parents are still together, or village people done pursue the woman and brain washed her.

Hhn hnn hnn (Pete edochie laugh)
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by docsholz(m): 6:57pm On Feb 22, 2015
Who cares undecided
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Nobody: 6:58pm On Feb 22, 2015
CHM11:

Hahahahaha oya I've quoted you,..u can go to the bank now.... See how you've been hustling for my quote!!!!...lmao
This character calling himself chm11 must have a damaged brain. U shld be in a psych ward. Ur hatred 4 Igbos will lead u to doom. Why not go somewhere and sensitize urelf because u hv a very big problem.

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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Nobody: 6:59pm On Feb 22, 2015
Stupid generalizations like this lead to tribalism.

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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Mrbigman1(m): 7:03pm On Feb 22, 2015
laudate:


Moses married an Ethiopian woman in the Bible, yet he still spoke to God one on one, and received the 10 commandments from His hand.

Bros, a little knowledge is a dangerous thing oh...



Jst d way u left other points to pounce one one that favours ur argument.
Smh
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Nobody: 7:03pm On Feb 22, 2015
splashbaby:
oponu oni ra nu radarada.. If we see face to face you will be sorry for your life...products of gorrila insemination.. Omo Iran kiran.. Yanmiri aje okuta ma mu mi oloriburuku. Decorated monkey,
. Continue displaying ur madness for d whole world to see. I advise u to check urself into a psych hospital. Your hatred for Igbos has no basis. It is only damaging ur brain more and more. Supersonic idiot. Orietiyi. Useless tribalistic mofo.

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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by deavicky(m): 7:03pm On Feb 22, 2015
nzeobi:
We prefer people who understand us better. Nobody will marry from a tribe that will using his hard earned money for owambe and stuffs like that.
Ka chineke mezie okwu
what about my case where I own the money yet her parents are still against it cos I'm from kogi(Igala).
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by wisdompraise(m): 7:04pm On Feb 22, 2015
Come to think of it, I don't know why girls from other tribes always want to marry us (Igbos).

Back to your question. We always want to marry our girls because they are the best women in the world.

TeamAnambra.

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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Nobody: 7:06pm On Feb 22, 2015
jmoore:
My elder brother(Anambra) got married to a woman from Crossriver.

I don't even know where mine will come from. Maybe Imo or Edo or Kaduna... smiley


What the op stated can be found in every tribe. "To whom brain is given, common sense is expected".
Na the cash wey she miss dey pain her. Shey they said Igbo people too like money? shocked

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Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by splashbaby(m): 7:09pm On Feb 22, 2015
nnannaidoko:
. Continue displaying ur madness for d whole world to see. I advise u to check urself into a psych hospital. Your hatred for Igbos has no basis. It is only damaging ur brain more and more. Supersonic idiot. Orietiyi. Useless tribalistic mofo.
Product of expired sperm... Omoale Igbo...

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