If he refuses to put a ring on it,she shud leave na! Every rltnshp mustnt end in marriage, dere r so many tribes to choose from, Ibibio, Efik, Eggon, Tiv, Yoruba, Kanuri

Neplusultra:
My dear eh! I tire!

I didn't feel like tongue lashing her even though she deserved it. I won't be surprised if she is the 'friend' in question.

Subom1:
It's normal for someone to marry from their own tribe/culture. Everyone is entitled to marry who he/she wants and I believe that if a man wants to marry you, he will irrespective of where you are from.


It's not only Igbos who tend to marry their own. Same can be said about other tribes and nationalities. I know a lot of Yoruba folks who will not marry anyone non-yoruba.

If I want to marry a fellow Ekiti man because he is the same tribe as me then no one should have a problem with my decision.


It's the ladies fault dating a guy for 6years with no intention to marry you. Trust me when a man wants to marry you, he will irrespective of where you come from.

I really don't see the big deal in people marrying their own if they choose too. It really is not the end of the world

Yeah.

django1:
This is the kind of thread bigfrancis21 likes. If everyone else is deceived by your deceptive cries here I'm not, you live, eat and drink tribalism.

Shutup! He's not a tribalist.

He only promotes his own tribe.
Tribalist is one that insult and make derogatory remark about other tribe and i haven't seen him doing so.

please blow the trumpet loud and clear! i know about 5 non Anambra girls whose prayer point is to marry Anambra men. obser e when they come for ashoebi them no dey gree go . haters keep hating. we dont care. i no wan marry you,na by force?

Neplusultra:
#ProudlyAnambrarianByAffinity #AnambraMenRocks

Neplusultra:
If he refuses to put a ring on it,she shud leave na! Every rltnshp mustnt end in marriage, dere r so many tribes to choose from, Ibibio, Efik, Eggon, Tiv, Yoruba, Kanuri

and Boko

Neplusultra:
#ProudlyAnambrarianByAffinity #AnambraMenRocks

Udo diri gi


Igbo will always marry igbo

Be it from any igbo states be it in southeast and Niger delta

Now. Non igbo

Why are you so keen to marry us while we don't want to marry you ?


Igbo rocks


Nnewi south boy talking
Ndi ogo m na ukwuani ...ana m ekene

Igbo dalu



Hot ofe nsala

Dominiquez:
When I meet a girl I will try as much as I can to know her tribe before any emotion will set in cos I know my boundaries. So instead of arguing with my parents tomorrow I better get it right today.

Sorry Op I can't marry non-igbo.

Ouch!! Dat was harsh

megacity:
The Igbos are of Jewish descent, a royal and peculiar people. Traditionally, Jews weren't supposed to marry gentiles....

Culdnt be any truer

PoorUgly:


and Boko

Hahahahahaha!!!!! WICKED!!

Peppyluv:
please blow the trumpet loud and clear! i know about 5 non Anambra girls whose prayer point is to marry Anambra men. obser e when they come for ashoebi them no dey gree go . haters keep hating. we dont care. i no wan marry you,na by force?

Nwanyi oma
Kedu maka nwanne m


Bia Kedu okeipku

Peppyluv:
please blow the trumpet loud and clear! i know about 5 non Anambra girls whose prayer point is to marry Anambra men. obser e when they come for ashoebi them no dey gree go . haters keep hating. we dont care. i no wan marry you,na by force?

Yea, dats y am sounding d alarm!!!!

stunningjudy:

I didn't feel like tongue lashing her even though she deserved it. I won't be surprised if she is the 'friend' in question.

Na she na

tonychristopher:


Udo diri gi

Igbo will always marry igbo

Be it from any igbo states be it in southeast and Niger delta

Now. Non igbo

Why are you so keen to marry us while we don't want to marry you ?

Igbo rocks

Nnewi south boy talking
Ndi ogo m na ukwuani ...ana m ekene

Igbo dalu

Hot ofe nsala

Please tell J12 to read what you have just posted here...you really need to enlighten him!

tonychristopher:



Udo diri gi


Igbo will always marry igbo

Be it from any igbo states be it in southeast and Niger delta

Now. Non igbo

Why are you so keen to marry us while we don't want to marry you ?


Igbo rocks


Nnewi south boy talking
Ndi ogo m na ukwuani ...ana m ekene

Igbo dalu



Hot ofe nsala

Ya gaziere gi nwoke oma enyi ora!

CHM11:
Dear OP, please leave igbos alone if you are not igbo. Let them keep marrying themselves, its better for them.

I just pity peeps who date igbos!!,..especially igbos who live or have lived in the east...how do you cope with them??

Had to live amongst some east-based igbo guys and ladies during my NYSC..... Worst experience of my life....
Its worse that when they are told they are hard to understand, they all fall back to insulting in their local dialect.. You will hear things like ewu, anuofia etc...proving my point again....

igbo ndị karịsịa ndị na-dabeere nọ n'ebe ọwụwa anyanwụ dị
nnọọ na-akpa ọchị ndị mmadụ. Ha anaghị akpa àgwà ka
nkịtị mmadụ. Ndị njem dị anya ma obosara ịmụta na-akpa
àgwà dị mma ma ndị na-ahụ n'ebe ọwụwa anyanwụ bụ nanị
larịị na ụmụ anụmanụ. Onye ọ bụla na-anaghị amasị nwere
ike iji kacha nso eriri ka kpọgidere ya onwe ya. na-akpa ọchị
ndị mmadụ.

Plenty tongue out!!!!

chia, ochi atogbulemuoo
elee ihe wu ihe a I dere?
GOOGLE Translator mere gi alu my brother/sister.

In English; Google translator has useless your life.
Better go and master your langauge and leave Igbo this and Igbo that alone.

well,she may, depends on how hard he tries to make the girl's parents accept him and convince them that he will take care of their daughter. my cousin married an edo man,it wasnt easy for the guy thou and being the only girl too but the guy didnt give up. Realtor otabor,if you love her ,dont give up. our parents are strict but dont stand in our way of happiness.

tonychristopher:


What happened to your edo girls and the ones in abroad ...why don't you marry them.



To be factual ..she wont marry you

Bet me

datibo:
I am very ashamed of some pple. Igbo this igbo that. Dem use igbo pple do una. U guys av ur own problems instead of u to address it,u luk 4 tins that wil bring down the igbos.its quite unfortunate. U feel so happy when people insult the igbos. The igbo r stil the highest in inter tribal marriage. I know many yoruba family that wil prefer to marry an iliterate yoruba instead of an educated sound igbo. I am proudly Ikeduru,Imo and my girlfriend is from ijebu in ogun state. And we planning a great future 2gda,if God wills. Stop creating enemity btwn igbo n d other tribes. Its enough. Remuv d sand in your eyes before u do 4 someone else. NONSENSE.

Pls leave dem alrdy! We're used to deir devilish schemes!!! Truth is, it doesnt change a tin!!!

nwanne mmadu i dey o. nwanne gi no kwa ofuma. kedu maka ndi be gi?

tonychristopher:



Nwanyi oma
Kedu maka nwanne m


Bia Kedu okeipku

I wud buy those boys beer when I see them

onila:
most of the Nigerian men that treat me badly are Igbo men

remember one time in highschool
some igbo boys read my diary

and told me to commit suicide

how mean

Peppyluv:
well,she may, depends on how hard he tries to make the girl's parents accept him and convince them that he will take care of their daughter. my cousin married an edo man,it wasnt easy for the guy thou and being the only girl too but the guy didnt give up. Realtor otabor,if you love her ,dont give up. our parents are strict but dont stand in our way of happiness.

I spoke with my cousin that dated an edo guy she dumped him...why I asked

She said that d average edo guy will marry u then after kids he will remeber he will travel to abroad and she can't imagine husband at large situation

And its true

I DON'T MIND MARRYING FROM OTHER TRIBES IF ONLY SHE CAN COOK OFE AKWU, OFE EDE, OFE NSALA, OFE UDA, OFE NSU AKWU, OFE ACHI, OFE OWERRE, TYPICAL ENUGU PORAGE YAM, AFIKPO'S IKPA YI NKWUKWO AND THE REST.
COME TO THINK OF IT WHY DO OTHER TRIBES LIKE TO MARRY IGBO LADIES ?

Peppyluv:
nwanne mmadu i dey o. nwanne gi no kwa ofuma. kedu maka ndi be gi?

Udo

Anyi di mma

Kene lum ya

uzoexcel:
I wud buy those boys beer when I see them

fcck u

vivalavida:


Dont mind them. 3 yoruba men dumped clarion chukwura and we didnt make any noise. Because no one is proposing to her abi her friend,she is creating a thread

Dat Clarion own sef, I no sure say she fit stay under man, na onitsha woman and dey are well known for 'not submitting to men' wonder y most onitsha women are lawyers? Dey are very exposed and highly dominating.

django1:


Hahahahaha. I've beeen trying to stay away from this thread but I just couildnt resist this. LMAO. This dude wants to wear a MAST!!! Lol

Guy your face go begin dey find network o. Lol.

Loool. It was clearly a typo but I would prefer to leave it uncorrected just for bants. I meant 'mask' but nothing do you.

So wetin u reason, make I do video ni?

laudate:


Please tell J12 to read what you have just posted here...you really need to enlighten him!

It's pointless Bro

They have warped notion about igbo and I am unapolegetic about my igbotic nature


I can't marry somebody that we don't have cultural compatibility


Udo

urcutecrush:
My step dad is ibo.
dated Ibo before.
current bf too is Ibo.
I luv d fact they are caring.
But the fact be told,they r too TRIBaLISTIC.

Who Isn't Tribalistic In Nigeria ?...

This Your Myopic Post Just Showed Your Exposed Ignorant Nyansh. Complementing Them(being caring) and Then Joining The Poisoned Crowd To Attach Tribalism Solely On Them as Though Other Ethnics Are Free Of It.

You Say Your Ex Is Ibo, Your Current Is Ibo Your Step Dad Is ,and Bla Bla Bla Is ..Confirming To Us That You Haven't Been With Other Tribes But Igbos Only and Then Knowing Others Including You aren't Guilty.

Some Of You Uneducated Gossips Are Better Locked In a Ravel Room With Keys Thrown Inside The Trench Sea.

uzoexcel:
I wud buy those boys beer when I see them

It should be hero

whatx:


@Bigfrancis21

Trying to observe nairaland rules, else i would have rained it on you.

You don't have to justify your culture nor comment on every post you come across.

If you don't have real experience, hold your peace. Am from the ibo speaking part of delta state and also a victim of such relationship.

Even being from the igbo-speaking part of delta state did not help me, as the particular family in question told my girl that it will be over their dead body.

On hearing the news i took time to strategies how to tackle this challenge, but to my surprise the babe made a shocking revelation.
She told me that the mum has actually being informing her of one spare part dealer who is from Anambra who she wants her to marry (true story), and that she has visited the guy severally (ehn ehen?).

On hearing this people i change am for hear. WHAT DO YOU MEAN? WHAT NONSENSE? WHEN DID THIS HAPPEN? YOU VISITED HIM WITHOUT MY PERMISSION? Screaming at the top of my voice. I angrily went home that day from our meeting joint.

To be fair with her, she later called and tired to calming me down asking; "what do i do"? By then i have already Googled the dude from the names she gave me (serious under cover sh#t). And my people Wetin i see nor help matters oh, the guy already has a car and am still using my most trusted two leg slabaquin.
I told her to follow her heart, which is the most stupid advice i have ever given. I tried analysing it for her as a wafi man,
- you Stick with me we try make it in life together, i graduated top in my department, a chartered accountant, currently doing my msc in accounting, though no job yet but tomorrow MAY be better.
- you go with them, married the guy within the next two years, and thing may blossom between you two.
I decided to ask her one question which i didn't get the answer till date- do you love him? She replied that he is a cool guy (ukpabiokpabio okpokicha, cool guy).

I discharge her that day thinking say my qualification go save me and thus decided to give her the silent treatment. Two weeks later she finally broke the silence with an outright personal invitation for me to their wedding (i die stand) this is a girl i have dated for the past 12 consecutive months, no break. See Wetin first silent treatment bring me, i almost poisoned my friend who gave the silent advice.

Well, that's about my experience with an Anambra babe, she is now married with one issue, leaving happily.

So bigfrancis21, i do not give what i don't have, this is my true story. That our forefathers are corrupt does not mean you should be corrupt, that everybody is going left does not mean you should go left (check ur boko alert before you move oh), that ever tribe is tribalistic dies not been you should be.
Further revelation from her on the negative pressure she received from her parents and siblings (whom i chat and play with every visit)was so shocking that i didn't even bother to go discuss with any of her family members.

I tort i was igbo until i met a lady from across the niger. just one bridge made me realised that there is difference between IGBO and IBO. Today, if you referred to me as IGBO i might slit your throat.

ADVICE: tell your friend to ask the guy directly if he is serious, thereafter discuss marriage possibility. If you must be a relationship ref, you have got to be good in what you are doing. Life is too short for wasting around.

PEACE OUT

tonychristopher:




It's pointless Bro

They have warped notion about igbo and I am unapolegetic about my igbotic nature


I can't marry somebody that we don't have cultural compatibility


Udo

I see what you mean...hmmnn!

kayciano:

THANK U...
U know that this THREAD is as Useless as the OP..
OP, may ur kids never follow ur footsteps..

Lmao! Na curse?!