Sweetlemon:


The Igbos in my company have their own clique. You need to see how they constantly bash non-Igbos especially Yorubas. In any department with an Igbo executive, Yorubas are in trouble there! But Yoruba executives usually create level-playing field.

jmoore:


Osi Umenyiora(Anambra) engaged to Leila Lopes(Angola)

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whatx:


@Bigfrancis21

Trying to observe nairaland rules, else i would have rained it on you.

You don't have to justify your culture nor comment on every post you come across.

If you don't have real experience, hold your peace. Am from the ibo speaking part of delta state and also a victim of such relationship.

Even being from the igbo-speaking part of delta state did not help me, as the particular family in question told my girl that it will be over their dead body.

On hearing the news i took time to strategies how to tackle this challenge, but to my surprise the babe made a shocking revelation.
She told me that the mum has actually being informing her of one spare part dealer who is from Anambra who she wants her to marry (true story), and that she has visited the guy severally (ehn ehen?).

On hearing this people i change am for hear. WHAT DO YOU MEAN? WHAT NONSENSE? WHEN DID THIS HAPPEN? YOU VISITED HIM WITHOUT MY PERMISSION? Screaming at the top of my voice. I angrily went home that day from our meeting joint.

To be fair with her, she later called and tired to calming me down asking; "what do i do"? By then i have already Googled the dude from the names she gave me (serious under cover sh#t). And my people Wetin i see nor help matters oh, the guy already has a car and am still using my most trusted two leg slabaquin.
I told her to follow her heart, which is the most stupid advice i have ever given. I tried analysing it for her as a wafi man,
- you Stick with me we try make it in life together, i graduated top in my department, a chartered accountant, currently doing my msc in accounting, though no job yet but tomorrow MAY be better.
- you go with them, married the guy within the next two years, and thing may blossom between you two.
I decided to ask her one question which i didn't get the answer till date- do you love him? She replied that he is a cool guy (ukpabiokpabio okpokicha, cool guy).

I discharge her that day thinking say my qualification go save me and thus decided to give her the silent treatment. Two weeks later she finally broke the silence with an outright personal invitation for me to their wedding (i die stand) this is a girl i have dated for the past 12 consecutive months, no break. See Wetin first silent treatment bring me, i almost poisoned my friend who gave the silent advice.

Well, that's about my experience with an Anambra babe, she is now married with one issue, leaving happily.

So bigfrancis21, i do not give what i don't have, this is my true story. That our forefathers are corrupt does not mean you should be corrupt, that everybody is going left does not mean you should go left (check ur boko alert before you move oh), that ever tribe is tribalistic dies not been you should be.
Further revelation from her on the negative pressure she received from her parents and siblings (whom i chat and play with every visit)was so shocking that i didn't even bother to go discuss with any of her family members.

I tort i was igbo until i met a lady from across the niger. just one bridge made me realised that there is difference between IGBO and IBO. Today, if you referred to me as IGBO i might slit your throat.

ADVICE: tell your friend to ask the guy directly if he is serious, thereafter discuss marriage possibility. If you must be a relationship ref, you have got to be good in what you are doing. Life is too short for wasting around.

PEACE OUT

laudate:


I see what you mean...hmmnn!

prettymiss4433:
Na wa oh u guys shud free d poster na,she didn't insult anyone she just asked a question that doesn't call for a quarrel.I understand dat she's worried and pained for her friend based on her aunts experience.u peeps shud pls stop d insult about tribes and individuals nd behave mature for God's sake.No tribe is better dan d other.remember we are our tribe.
Come to think of it,I really dnt know y a man will date a lady for years knowing fully well dat he'll marry one from his tribe,way a height of wickedness,if she wasn't good enough for u after a year,y didn't u call of d relationship?A man shud know if a woman he's bin dating is a Wife material despite her tribe.A responsible man shud know wats good for him he shud seek God's wisdom and direction and not that of friends or family knowing fully well dat dey won't run his Marriage for him. Dat u marry from your tribe doesn't make ur marriage perfect,or make u secure.I know of an igbo man who was killed by his wife who is igbo too wat have u to say about this. I smell pride from some of the anambra posters,remember d bible says dat pride growth before a fall stop trying to justify d wicked actions of an ungrateful Man who didn't appreciate wat he had,I have no problem with the igbos, nd I don't judge based on tribes I judge the personality. My boyfriend is anambran nd I'm not,most non anambra friends get scared for me wen dey hear I'm dating an anambran but d truth is My bf hasn't given me a reason to doubt his luv for me nd I pray to God evryday for his will to be done knowing my worth as a woman and the sacrifices I've put into dat relationship.if eventually he jilts me,which I doubt den I know dats not God's will for me.and if I smell pride, unfaithfulness and dishonesty in him which is a turn off for me den I'll end d relationship.No Man is worth dieing for.

PoorUgly:
In fact let me answer the question;

Question: Why do Igbos Especially the Anambrarians(not Anambrans) marry from their tribe?

Answer 1: Our women fine die. And they have a tasty fashion sense.

Answer 2: No tribe can cook, ofe akwu, ofe egusi, ofe nsala, ofe oha, ofe onugbu, ona, ngwongwo, nkwobi, ugba, pass our women.

Answer 3: we want the maternal grandma of our children to live nearby for easy omugwo.

Answer 4: we want to speak Igbo well without annoying anyone.

Answer 5: we value marriage a lot, some tribes don't share our marriage views.

Answer 6: we go and solve scarcity of husband problem in another tribe who will come and solve for us.

Answer 7: in fact we are seriously obsessed with ourselves.

Answer 8: we want our values, virtues and ideologies to remain intact.

Answer 9: we are die hard hustlers, we don't want to introduce lazy blood into the bloodline.

Answer 10: our women knows how to take care of a man Wells (inside bedroom inclusive).


We no send you. if it vex you bang your head for wall.

leere!!!

squaddy:


I could not have said it any better nwanne. We know their problem and it is because the God of wealth and prosperity favors an igbo man by default. So they try to sneak into the fold through marriage and cries foul when the door is slammed shut on their oily brained self.

PoorUgly:
In fact let me answer the question;

Question: Why do Igbos Especially the Anambrarians(not Anambrans) marry from their tribe?

Answer 1: Our women fine die. And they have a tasty fashion sense.

Answer 2: No tribe can cook, ofe akwu, ofe egusi, ofe nsala, ofe oha, ofe onugbu, ona, ngwongwo, nkwobi, ugba, pass our women.

Answer 3: we want the maternal grandma of our children to live nearby for easy omugwo.

Answer 4: we want to speak Igbo well without annoying anyone.

Answer 5: we value marriage a lot, some tribes don't share our marriage views.

Answer 6: we go and solve scarcity of husband problem in another tribe who will come and solve for us.

Answer 7: in fact we are seriously obsessed with ourselves.

Answer 8: we want our values, virtues and ideologies to remain intact.

Answer 9: we are die hard hustlers, we don't want to introduce lazy blood into the bloodline.

Answer 10: our women knows how to take care of a man Wells (inside bedroom inclusive).


We no send you. if it vex you bang your head for wall.

leere!!!

Is J12 reading this!

squaddy:



Cry us a river. We don't marry promiscuous ladies. Please kindly stick with men from your ethnic extraction. No be by force you hear? Cheer up

donigspain:
Are you really at peace with what you wrote in the bolded? I mean, if it gives you orgasm, then enjoy.


So you actually feel hurt when a Yoruba elder is insulted but you, yourself, feel at peace insulting the totality of an ethnicity. Hypocrisy!

Neplusultra:

VirginFinder:
I dont fancy a Yoruba lady marrying an ibo man, at all.
But the reverse is ok by me.

enkay4love:
Thank u very much,u've said it all.I've never had a fairly good experience with them,they are just too complex,& weird in behaviour.No matter how good they may pretend to appear,right at the back of their minds,they secretly strive to drain u.God forbid for this race!

Neplusultra:
Hehehehehe

bigfrancis21:


Its quite a long story that dates back to about 1930 in colonial Nigeria.

pastorKosiso:
You are not Igbo so I don't expect you to support them and besides not everyone you see following a man is an Igbo...e fit be you

elipheleh:

See how ugly you look....Just take a good look at your face!!!!
Now tell me why a good looking Igbo man who is not insane would want to forgo all his beautiful queen Igbo sisters (dovelike,nneka123, just to mention but a few) for a wowor ugly girl like you.

You rubbish Ye-robbers both male and female should mind your own bussinesses. Stop seeking love from us.

You are a tribal Bigot and unluckily you are worwor.

prettymiss4433:
The last time I checked Igbo ladies are d most promiscuous in d society because dey love money.dem plenty for phc oh!!!! So stop bragging about dem coz ur hype for dem is baseless.

ENDTIMES:
Even if you date someone for 20 years it doesn't give you any right over him.

Don't date anyone hoping he will marry you, whether Igbo, hausa or Yoruba. If you can't date him except he must marry you, then wait for him to propose before you "date" him.

A sweet Marriage is one built on love and fear of God. But it is sweetest if in addition to these, both partners are also from the same tribe or even town. I'm a living witness.

laudate:


Nobody is making funny insinuations. Some of us actually know these girls and what they went through, before they eventually got married to P-Square.

Anita gave birth to Paul's son more than a year before she married him. Lola Omotayo gave birth to 2 kids long before she tied the knot with Peter. If you do not have the inside gist of what went on behind the scenes, consult those that know and stop drawing up funny similarities with other people, where none exist.
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Achilies:
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So because of bad experience in the hands of 5,or more igbos you are condemning the whole tribe?

Let me tell you a story
In the jos 2002 crisis, I took my younger brothers and my girlfriend at that time to my BEST FRIEND place for protection and so on. As I go about looking for a way to get a transport for my mother and sisters.

When I went back for them, danladi my best friend for 10 years together with his father and some other people have killed my younger brothers and my ugomma I leave to tell this story because by the special grace of God. He intervened few minutes before the killed me..

Even after what happened, I don't see an Hausa person as a bad person until he gives me reasons too.

Danladi choose to kill my loved once. It was his choice. An individual choice. And not an Hausa thing. Even now in battlefield in borno my partner in our division is an Hausa guy and I trust him with my life.

Having bad experience in the hands of few igbo men or women is not a good reason to condem an entire tribe.

I am an igbo guy.

enkay4love:
U're very stupid to had made this comment,have u taken a good look at urself?since u posted a pix,not even one " like" to console urself. U're bigger than this,& stop behaving below ur age. To start with,did my post sound like one looking for a man?or do I seem single to u?pls go away,ugly bleaching gorrilla!

IgrigiMercenery:


**grins** Look at her here again, Ugly troublesome dirty girl. Igbo guys refuse to date your ugly face, you go around abusing them , i'm 100% sure you also have mouth odour. Tua! **LOLS**

enkay4love:
U're very stupid to had made this comment,have u taken a good look at urself?since u posted a pix,not even one " like" to console urself. U're bigger than this,& stop behaving below ur age. To start with,did my post sound like one looking for a man?or do I seem single to u?pls go away,ugly bleaching gorrilla!

veave:
I'm an Anambarian. There's not beating about the bush on the matter. I'll marry and Igbo man. If possible from Anambra. If i can even get one from my mothers place, the better.




Amen!