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Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 3:17pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
prettythicksme: Hmm... He won't |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by 989900: 3:17pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Konji! Konji!! Konji!!! 'How many times I call u?' |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by DonaldGenes(m): 3:18pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
buygala: You so funny...Keep cracking me up |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by kika23(f): 3:20pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Dynamo1: Lool! I really don't like the off shore on shore thing or the sea work too... Hell no! 6months I ain't getting married to that kind of man oo... Kai.... That's a Good decision he made but how long can one live life like that? |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 3:22pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Kika23: You've been helpful in this thread even though you're not yet married. Your points have been touching, personally. Thank You. |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by kika23(f): 3:24pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
emusmith: OMG!! I feel honored. Your threads do inspire me anyway Thank you too sir 1 Like |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by DonaldGenes(m): 3:25pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
kika23: Mehn! Your Dairy "Charm" sounds so intriguing Now, iKnow you better... What a pretty Nice YOu Will be visiting it once you Update it Keep it Cominq |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by kika23(f): 3:30pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
DonaldGenes: Thank you very much I'm slow in updating though but I try... Thank you again |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 3:35pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
kika23: You are welcome dear. |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by tivta(m): 3:44pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
emusmith:. Do you know how many couples live together and see each other daily yet have not had sex in years? Or you want to be having sex at age 60 and above? Will you have time for sex when you work from 4am to 11pm monday to saturday? Leaving sunday to care for the kids and the house? Trust me men, marriage is not based on sex but companionship. |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 3:46pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
tivta: Ok 1 Like |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Nigerians we pretend alot and like to use religious belief to cover up, those who are saying by grace couples can stay apart for long without sex is just story story, no married man or woman fit stay without sex for three months., they be fire wood. Come to alade market here in ikeja and see how women are rushing th intimacy gadget they call rabbit. In nigeria we live in secrecy and self denial. .is either they masturbate or have a service boy., for men they maybe patronizing love pedlars |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by blesoh(f): 3:58pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
lefulefu:lol,i dont tink oh cos women are so reserve,some men can never keep their JT one place. |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by ayusco85(m): 4:02pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
kika23: Am scared already. As a future oil company worker, I pray my futuure wife will be faithful wen I start my career. |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by kika23(f): 4:08pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
ayusco85: Haha! An engineer!! You don't have to be scared. Just don't abandon your wife for long, that's all |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by kandiikane(m): 4:10pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
funmilayoB:[img]http://media0./media/Rhhr8D5mKSX7O/giphy.gif[/img] @topic, to have an affair is a whole lot of work. Being faithful is easier than having an affair. I don't understand how people make excuses, because if one really intends to be faithful they will be regardless of whatever is in their way. Block any distractions, stop encouraging it and occupy yourself. Cheating starts because you put yourself in a situation to cheat. To discourage such nonsense, you need to stop entertaining people-men and women who throw themselves at you. No one is that stup!d to not notice the hints. Nip it in the bud before it Blooms. Discourage the conversations, stop the people, masturbate if you have to, change your mind set and most of all, stop making excuses. You have lived years before without having sex and you were just fine. 6 Likes |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by richielan: 4:16pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
G00gle pay 85$ per hour my last pay check was $8500 working 100 hours a week online. My younger brother friend has been averaging 12k for months now and he works about 22 hours a week. I cant believe how easy it was once I tried it out. This is what I do cashbay20.com ********************************************************* |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by missmalachi: 4:20pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
My husband does a rotation job in d oil n gas n I dnt see it has a problem.he goes in 28days n comes home 2 stay wit me 4 28days.am sure I spend time wit him more than does that hv der man around always.to me d period he is offshore maks me to miss him well n as soon as he is around its lik new couple again. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by kika23(f): 4:22pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
missmalachi: This is sweet!! He stays at home for a month and leaves for a month. It's very balanced.. This one I like! |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Alakwa: 4:23pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Naira landers , some women are really discipline but the temptation is really much if there is anything one can do to avoid long distance after marriage fine , but in the case where you need cash to keep family going it is very difficult to quit your Job, just because you think your wife will cheat on you. Remember if you don't have the money the blow will be X2 . Just do your best pray for the Best and ready for the Worst. I have done 6 months 2 weeks schedule when I started my career, I did that for almost three years never for once I heard any story of my wife misbehaving. I know of someone that does 5 days in 2 days off in the same state but the wife still cheat on him . So Mates lets forget wetin them write for motor enter Motor !!! A common say in the oil field .NO MONEY NO HONEY!!!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by missmalachi: 4:36pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
kika23: From ur previous comments, u sounded as though offshore worker spend eternity away.d number of days u ar offshore is d number of days u go on break except for d freelancers or ppl who hv diff plans. |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
kandiikane: i need ur avater pls |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by kika23(f): 4:41pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
missmalachi: I have friends that stay longer off shore than they do at home. Plans almost always change! The worst is the seafarer job!! That's why I concluded that moderation is ultimate in such situations.. |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by pweetymama(f): 4:46pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
kika23:one thing u should always understand is that women have stronger will power than men.they can easily resist infidelity except for d wayward ones.Even if d man is away for 20yrs.My hubby is a rig worker n as for me,m used to it.I was not promiscous as a single girl and dnt see any reason why I should be as a married woman. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Sleekyshuga(f): 4:46pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
I've never been a supporter of 'long distance marriage' cos truth be told, it's really not easy.. Why marry a man in diaspora when I can settle down with a man based @ home? Body na firewood ? What then is the essence of 'marriage', when we are both far away?? I can only speak for those who work offshore cos boo does as an engineer.. Working offshore is always rotational; 3wks on, 2 wks off or 4wks on, 4wks off or 4wks on, 2wks off etc, save during emergency period, and you are still compensated for the 'extra period/time' spent.. To curb unfaithfulness, high rate of divorce, etc, this is a serious matter that should be looked into intensively.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by kika23(f): 4:52pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
pweetymama: True talk though, thank you ma |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 4:56pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga:...Kudos 4 d words well said...#Distance relationship, closer problems Sleekyshuga:...Kudos 4 d words well said...#Distance relationship, closer problems... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 4:59pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga:...Kudos 2 d words well said...#Distance relationship=closer problems...#Gbam! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by pweetymama(f): 5:05pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
missmalachi:Not true dear.not all companies operate dat way.Ours is not certain.Infact,u can be called upon from ur days off to go to rig.Dats where our source of livelihood comes from,so u dnt hv a choice dear.Dis thread has actually aroused some thoughts in me.Why will a man be out there stressing himself for hiis family,while the woman is sleeping around with d money?sounds really digusting n stupid. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Yucee55(m): 5:07pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
All things are possible. How about Rev Sisters and Rev Fathers? How do they cope for life? Marriage vows are sacred. Keep the bed undefiled. Just get a very busy job and you won't Remember sex. I am a living witness. |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by missfaviy(f): 5:31pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
oh no that one is strong |
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by missmiss(f): 5:34pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
AgapeCharis:u just said it all. Though marriage is not for the lily-hearted, it takes great strength, love and commitment to each other, in other to scale through. I believe there are couples who still believe in the sanctity of marriage, no matter how people would try to deny that. long-distance not withstanding. |
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