u r wife material jo

9cbaby:
The guy is right

Op, don't mind d guy....he's just lookg for excuses n subtly lettg u know yr stand ......he won't marry u.....period!
Any man keen on marrying u will be happy pampering u, not complaining abt everything!
My humble submission

classicB:
He said this after a prolong chat that am not a wife material. He said I dnt display the attribute of one, what I.dnt understand is that must a gf act as a wife even when she isn't? Just to prove she's a wife material

not really but there are certain traits that suggest you have marriagable qualities.

If i decide to dissect you, there are probability that you would reveal what you are made of.

The fact that you're not even ashamed to post it here shows you're not a wife material.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4gap6PMC178

vjsmiles:
FOR YOUR FELLOW LADY


IFA HEAR

Hahahahahaha
See them--my enemies,they have come to attack me

U sef, u saw how I cleaned ur dirts u littered everywhere

missjenna:
Op what I don't understand is why you posted this here.
Do you derive some sort of weird pleasure in showing people your flaws and short comings?
Or don't you know that what you did was wrong?

Of course no guy would tolerate a lazy lady. So you go to his house and you still expect him to cook for you?
The fact that he said you don't wash his clothes means that you have never even tried to wash his clothes for once.

Despite the fact that I am an advocate for women rights and gender equality, I believe that there are things that women should do.
You don't even lay the bed you slept on? Definitely, any man would be annoyed by this. Its spells laziness and immaturity on your part. It also shows that you are not an organized person

Op this guy loves you an he wants to marry you, that is why he is saying all this. The best you can do for yourself is change.
Prove to him that you have changed so that he doesn't leave you for another woman
Thanks

Why would she wash his clothes?? Has she finished washing her own??

Washing a man's cloth is not a duty, if I am washing mine and I ask him to bring his own out of the kindness of my heart...that's better but not for him to insist I wash his clothes. What the hell is that?

OP you should cook for him though and try to keep his house neat. Most men are bad at housekeeping and you should try to help out.

Sam Smith - Stay With Me (Lyrics On Screen):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4gap6PMC178

Awkward moments when d op think d female peeps will support her nd day all against her.....
Op pls change u can't even be my side chick with all d guy listed

The fact that you're not even ashamed to post it here shows you're not a wife material

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classicB:
Thank you all. Am not a lazy girl I just dnt want him to see everything he listed as my duty

I doubt! Just leave the pride and work on yourself. We learn to die by sleepping...

wife material indeed
u all keep shouting wife material
mtchewwwww!

ShirelleBaby:


Hahahahahaha
See them--my enemies,they have come to attack me

U sef, u saw how I cleaned ur dirts u littered everywhere

classicB:
Thank you all. Am not a lazy girl I just dnt want him to see everything he listed as my duty

My dear, forget that thing, there is nothing there.
Nothing is wrong with you tidying his houseeonce in while just like you see nothing wrong with him helping you once in a while.Abi you want make him leave you go meet the chick wey dey come clean the house from morning till evening?

If he is the working class type that goes to work even during the weekends, he won't have the time to do the house chores, you can help him if you truly love him and want to be with him.If you can sleep over at his place then what is there in arranging the house?

If the girl no de go the guy house de sleep de chop this for not come. For a real guy to know if a real girl is a wife material, its the way she keeps her father's house. That's how I observed my wife. Till date she hasn't changed. My house is intact. Period! We should stop messing this courtship issue up.

vjsmiles:
NO OFFE?NSE BUT HE IS RIGHT....

IF ALL THOSE THINGS HE MENTIONED ARE TRUE THEN BAE YOU AINT EVEN A HOUSEGIRL MATERIAL...
ONCE AGAIN NO OFFE?NSE

NO!!

He is NOT right.
He only wants to kpansh and then kick her out with some silly excuse like "it took u so long to start acting like a wife material and am not sure if u are doing it for real... I need some time to think things tru"......

Naija babes and oyinbo mentality

classicB:
He said this after a prolong chat that am not a wife material. He said I dnt display the attribute of one, what I.dnt understand is that must a gf act as a wife even when she isn't? Just to prove she's a wife material

He is so right. I might have said more.

So you go to his house and cross your leg while he goes up and down to cook for you?
Wake up on the same bed and expect him to lay it every time?
Never helped him with any chore no matter how small?

So when do you want to start acting a 'wife'

Sorry to say, you're not a wife material, even by half yard!

Go and learn pls!

ALL THIS PLENTY TALK ABOUT 'WIFE MATERIAL',HAS ANYBODY BOTHERED TO FIND OUT UF THE MAN IN QUESTION IS 'HUSBAND MATERIAL'?. HAS HE BEEN LIVING UP TO EXPECTATIONS AS A BOYFRIEND?ABEG,FREE THIS BABE JOOR!!

This is hilarious.
Adon tell all this NL girls make dey no dey listen to all this feminist
Most of them ar not married some married and divorce
And then come to advice u on how to make a man respect u yet they unmarried

Here is a word from the wise

Respect is not forced it is earned by doing the right thin
It is how u treat any thin that u threat every tin and men know this

Those thins feminists say ar just gimmicks they ar theories forget the logics behind it
They ar imaginary thins on how men should behave they ar not actually how men really behave

Hehe a desperate g don collect am from u the funny thin is that u might be more of good behavior than this girl but she played her cards right


Bae u just lost

But here is the bright side


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Una neva married and he's feeling bossy .Wetin go com hapun wen una married?Nah to slap and kick her around abi?She is ur wife not ur maid and shouldn't be treated like a piece of shit . Help her where necessary and stp complaining over petty thing. U berra move on young lady,nor go kill urself cos of unsound man

texybaby:
Dear op ....its not just a wife duty Its in u...thats one thing my ex misses me....if I reach his house at nyt cs of d distance I travel..I wont even wiwi in d toilet...till I wash it in d morning...I wont bath till I clean d bath...even d kitchen always un organised...if u cam stand like staying in dat room untidy...then tufiakwa....abeg its just hygienic u stay somewhere clean bikoo...no b say I like work ooo...but I wont look at d place like that....plsss x guy is right adjust n stop giving excuses for been filty

why didn't he marry you? since you have all the materials needed.

Aunty ClassiB what will be your next step now? I guess to try another guy who can accept you just as you are? But the truth is no guy will accept this.

sameer1212:
Toh the matter taya mesef

Bro its either ur in ACA or u want to b in ACA...why only aca pple use toh and sameer is used for female officer cadets in aca...u knw d drill nw

The guy loves you to have let you know all these.You better change before it is too late.

Things have gone really out of hand!!!!!

A lady u are dating has no business in a man's house in the first place until dey get married!

Even if she comes around the man is suppossed to try to impress her. By keeping everywhere at and showing her an example of his standards

For her to sllep over she is "obliged" to play the other roles of a wife since she has started sleeping over

This generation have complicated things for themselves

classicB:
Thank you all. Am not a lazy girl I just dnt want him to see everything he listed as my duty

you are shameless, dirty and lazy.

you should be covering your face in shame. I guess your mother didn't bring u up properly to do simple things like laying your bed and keeping the environment clean.

If you like don't change, but let me not catch u at my church when you have clocked 40 attending singles seminar/miracle crusade. I will so swear for you instead of pray for u

A P C!!!!!!!!!!...CCHANGE!!!!!

If you can sleep in his house when he has not married you, what's wrong with you doing wife duties? The moment you decide to be sleeping there, things change. You are living in that house, so do the necessary.

You seem like the kind of girl that'll just eat and run! you can't teach manners I guess.

Dolemite:
You seem like the kind of girl that'll just eat and run! you can't teach manners I guess.

anthoniaz:

My dear, forget that thing, there is nothing there.
Nothing is wrong with you tidying his houseeonce in while just like you see nothing wrong with him helping you once in a while.Abi you want make him leave you go meet the chick wey dey come clean the house from morning till evening?

If he is the working class type that goes to work even during the weekends, he won't have the time to do the house chores, you can help him if you truly love him and want to be with him.If you can sleep over at his place then what is there in arranging the house?

NNE,SERIOUSLY,THERE ARE NO HARD AND FAST RULES TO THIS GAME.WHEN I STARTED DATING MY HUSBAND,HE HAD THIS HIS IN PORT HARCOURT BABE WHO WOULD COME WITHIN THE WEEK,DO HIS LAUNDRY,CLEAN HIS HOUSE,NEARLY SCRUB THE POP CEILING (LOL!) SERIOUSLY,PRACTICALLY CLEAN UP THE PLACE SO MUCH THAT WHEN I COME OVER AT CLOSE OF WORK ON FRIDAY ,EVERY WHERE WAS SPECK AND SPAN.ME,ON THE OTHER HAND HAD MADE UP MY MIND THAT I WON'T WORK HARD AGAIN FOR ANY RELATIONSHIP BC WHAT WILL BE WILL BE.AT LAST,WE ARE MARRIED NOW AND I DONT THINK HE HAS A PROBLEM WITH MY HOUSE KEEPING ABILITIES! THIS IS TRUE