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Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by ednut1(m): 8:40am On Feb 24, 2015 |
chop nd clean mouth things. boys will Always hv excuse ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 8:40am On Feb 24, 2015 |
PunkyBrewster:it's an individual thing and not all guys. Personally, I hate people washing my clothes, I won't wash urs and pls dont wash mine. Aside the cloth washing stuff, the girl in question bleep big time. No responsible person would wakeup in a room and leave it untidy. For me, the girl in question is way far from a wife material. 5 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by lonelydora: 8:41am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Cutehector:because they are busy with BBM, Facebook, 2go and WhatsApp. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by daddynasa: 8:41am On Feb 24, 2015 |
classicB:young girl take correction jare. u lazy joor. a fool that knows he is a fool is a wise man 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by IAMBREEZY: 8:41am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Nigerian women ain't wife materia |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Idowuogbo(f): 8:41am On Feb 24, 2015 |
who wan marry liability? Dirty gal! you slept and probs b@nged him on that bed,yet you are forming i'm not your wife i can't cook Nd clean? You go tey for ya mama house till popsi's friend go use you do second wife. FISH BRAIN! ![]() 15 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by shevon: 8:41am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Dear OP, Why are we not seeing your part of the chat? ![]() ![]() Anyways, the poor guy is right to an extent and I won't blame him for the outburst. When I was still dating my wife, I never allowed her to do any any of those things in my house but she will always offer to (even when she knows I'd say no) When I'm cooking, she'd be there with me in the kitchen. She will always come with me to the market and sometimes buy the condiments on her way to the house sef. I cannot stop her from tidying the house when she is around cos no matter what I say, she will still do it. Sometimes, she intentionally comes around when I'm not home and do everything I'd not allow her do when I'm home. The only thing I forbade her (and I still don't like her doing as my wife) is to wash my clothes. So, the question to you is have you even offered to help out for once? While you are at it, also show us your response to his chats and let us judge una case well cos what you've done is like stating a case by presenting a one sided argument. I hope your gather wisdom enough to sort out your issues with your beau; otherwise, make your self good enough for the next man in your life to see you as a keeper. Warm regards. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by lovepraise(f): 8:42am On Feb 24, 2015 |
This clearly show what u do at home to ur parents u allow them to cook and clean the house for u so u are use to being the oga how can u say u love a boy to the extent of spending a night in his house and u can't clean the house at least but u can have sex with him (am sure) if u were to be my brothers girl u wudnt have this opportunity he is giving to u now so try to help urself out by learn from ur peeps 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by kramer: 8:42am On Feb 24, 2015 |
zizibabe1: Well from what op has said.. he seems to be tolerant, caring, and honest.. Apparently he's been doing the washing, cleaning and cooking alone without help, besides the op hasn't said anything negative about him, if there was she would have mentioned it to support her claim 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 8:43am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Trinxie:I am very sorry for girls like you, keep deceiving yourselves that there is boy friend and husband privilege. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 8:43am On Feb 24, 2015 |
classicB: He is right No one is asking you to slave However you cant get up from a bed and not tidy it. You wouldnt do that in your home would you? If he is cooking, you should still get up and help him. Its even an oppourtunity to bond, joke and play and bring you closer when you do little little things together. Look at it this way, if you went to a relatives house, and they are cooking, will you just sit there or will you help? If you went to your friends house for the night, wont you make the bed up in the morning? Dont be slave and sell yourself cheap, but some things should come naturally to you as a woman and for someone in love with her partner. He too I am sure does things for you, even though he is not married to you. I am sure he treated you on Vals day . . . ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by oladamian: 8:44am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Why lay the bed when you are actually gonna get back in it? 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Idowuogbo(f): 8:44am On Feb 24, 2015 |
classicB:duty ya no? Mehn you are dirty!!! don't go over to his if you are not going to at least lay the damn bed. That's laaaaaazy!!! 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 8:44am On Feb 24, 2015 |
ShirelleBaby: CAN YOU BE MY WIFE ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by joshuaidibia(m): 8:44am On Feb 24, 2015 |
classicB:First of all,upload ur pix make we c ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by linusbnn(m): 8:44am On Feb 24, 2015 |
texybaby: She doesn't collect money because she fell from the SKY as an holy angel ba?. Abeg wic gurl will not collct money from a man called Boyfriend?wen e be say the money mata self dey cause problm for relationship ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by 100Cents: 8:45am On Feb 24, 2015 |
classicB: Are you asking us ? Can't you use your head ? Are you plain lazy ? The food he cooks in your presence, don't you eat with him when its ready ? Girls like you will still expect him to take care of your financial needs. No one is asking you to go and wash his clothes and cook every weekend but that food or dish he wants to cook when you are there, commonsense should tell you what the duties of a woman is anywhere. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Coolboi05(m): 8:45am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Pamcrest:madame are u 4 real or ure just 'teasing' her...smh |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by iceberylin(m): 8:46am On Feb 24, 2015 |
vjsmiles:Pele bro |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by joshuaidibia(m): 8:46am On Feb 24, 2015 |
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Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 8:46am On Feb 24, 2015 |
vjsmiles: Gosh! |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Youngzedd(m): 8:47am On Feb 24, 2015 |
justi4jesu: You ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Get Dubai Visa for her, then take her to Prince of Dubai. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 8:48am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Pamcrest:see the kind advice you dey give person. Ain't the insulting type, buy like seriously this ur comment deserves one. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by ajetunde: 8:48am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Girlfriend material kini? She aint even a side chick material. These things should come natural to you, you are not supposed to see them as chores, its just you caring for him. You've just proved that you can't even take care of your boyfriend. Don't worry, your competitor is around the corner. From what you said, I'm taking it you are so lazy and probably don't even know how to ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Idowuogbo(f): 8:48am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Pamcrest:See this one sleeping on okada. Which man will marry you while you sit there and add nothing to the union? Oh you think the title 'girlfriend' na automatic ticket to marriage? E b like say your brain dey on annual leave. I pity you oooo 7 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by gentlechyke(m): 8:48am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Nne.emm seconded. U'R REAllY.... Not A wife Material/Instrument/Apparatus |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 8:49am On Feb 24, 2015 |
classicB: Then whose duties are they then¿...Loooooool,stop being cynical. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by eleko1: 8:49am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Haba!Wetin her mama take do U wey u dey vex like dis?Must U treat a lady anyhow cos u want to marry her?Caring is not just buying dis and dat for her but helping in the household chores.What is difficult for a suppose hubby in laying the bed/cleaning the house?Watch MR/MRS igbsam: |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Funkychic(f): 8:49am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Just passing by.....una well done oo |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by slex(m): 8:49am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Poster wat ur guy said is true. You do nothing for him i wonder why you arre defensive. Since some ladies feel you shouldnt do all those things because you are a gf not a wife then,he should spend on his wife not on his gf. Oh! He should be meeting you iiin hhotels because his wife should be the one to know his house ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by ShirelleBaby: 8:49am On Feb 24, 2015 |
searching4love: So u are no more searching4love but searching4wife abi? Tell me the qualities u possess--kus I want a guy like the OP's boyfriend! |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 8:50am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Some girl are stupid and miserable, and their way of reasoning baffles me. You claim you cannot wash a man's cloth because he is not married to you and you do not want to do a wife's job when you're still a girlfriend, yet you will still spread your legs for him to make love to you, as if that is not suppose to be between a married man and woman. Abeg if you want to be bad be bad, and if you want to be good be good. I don tire for ona idiotic life. #hisses 3 Likes |
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