Youngzedd:


You




Get Dubai Visa for her, then take her to Prince of Dubai.

No ohhh, no need for dubai visa, she can search for Dangote and the likes, then be their 50th wifey

classicB:
Thank you all. Am not a lazy girl I just dnt want him to see everything he listed as my duty

How do you sleep on a bed and leave without making/spreading it? Sorry dear, but it'll make someone think you're not using common sense! You don't have to do all he listed but atleast show some effort. You can participate in the cooking (optional)...Imagine you find his house clean and when you leave he has to do all the cleaning himself Maybe including taking plates you used to the kitchen.

Some girls if I must use this word cause problems for theirsalvs, living a life of celebrity when you are not then what do you expect. Aways tell yourself the truth and trust me nobody will prove you a liar. One thing is sure in life, if you are qualified for something you are qualified. But if your are not, you are not okay. That is why most of them will start looking at who will say they are not. Who knows what she says or character displayed that transpired this. WE WILL ONLY KNOW WHEN THEY ARE OWNING TEACHERS, BUT NOT WHEN THEY ARE PAID. Wheather the boyfriend said she's not a wife material or not, trust me the girl knows better.

justi4jesu:
@OP dont be his housemaid, please opt out and search for a richer boyfriend with maids

Next thing the boyfriend will opt for the maids

TDstarr:
smh nigerian girls will never change.......marriage is justa piece of paper, dats what i tell my girlfriend everyday.......its still the same me and her in the same house.....unless she is trying to use house work to tie me down of wish i can conviniently employ a house help or date anoda chick.....but the most annoying part is she doesnt make the bed.....men my mum will just kill her.....she seems like d lazy type

WHEN YOU GET MARRIED, YOU WILL DISH OUT THE CONCEPT OF MARRIAGE IS JUST A PIECE OF PAPER MENTALITY *FACT*It comes with a whole loads of responsibility that you cant skip as you will with ur GF *fact*

I just couldnt stop laughing........! THE GUY IS VERY FUNNY SHA. tHE GIRL DON DEY DO THIS THINGS THE GUY DEY COMPLAIN ABOUT FOR QUITE SOMETIME. ME THINK THE GUY IS A SERIOUS DUDE OTHERWISE, HE WONT BE TELLING HIS BABE ALL THIS THINGS. Ladies, you dont have to be a wife before you do all this things. Charity they say begins at home!

LadyX:
This is pass me

Is this a spoken english or just the newer 3.0 version of broken/pidgin english¿

mirexxx:
wife material indeed
u all keep shouting wife material
mtchewwwww!

when u are matured enough u will understand.

mirexxx:
wife material indeed
u all keep shouting wife material
mtchewwwww!

Look at u...u na wife material?

Pamcrest:
Op, don't mind d guy....he's just lookg for excuses n subtly lettg u know yr stand ......he won't marry u.....period!
Any man keen on marrying u will be happy pampering u, not complaining abt everything!
My humble submission

by dre comments u shal knw dem. .

ajetunde:


You are probably still drunk bro, hold your pocket well.

I dey fear them oooh

LadyX:

Next thing the boyfriend will opt for the maids

lolz if that one happens, she should take it from there oh, my advice don finish for her side be that

You dey mind am?

texybaby:

Did she tell u she collects money

sauceny:


Is this a spoken english or just the newer 3.0 version of broken/pidgin english¿

Na pidgin na

flexingPAPA:
when u are matured enough u will understand.

did u mention me??

erico2k2:

WHEN YOU GET MARRIED, YOU WILL DISH OUT THE CONCEPT OF MARRIAGE IS JUST A PIECE OF PAPER MENTALITY *FACT*It comes with a whole loads of responsibility that you cant skip as you will with ur GF *fact*

yep and who says i dont av responsibilities now i take care of my mum, siblings.....care for my gf, who i intend to marry....so its still d same me and her just till the kids come in

@ classicB
You asked a pertinent question: "must a gf act as a wife even when she isn't? Just to prove she's a wife material?"
What do you expect, do you want to be a wife first before you begin to cook. clean and tidy the house. I suppose before then he should employ a house-girl to cook and clean for him pending his marrying you.
If you don't do this when you are his gf, do you expect him also to give financial provisions and emotional care to you
From the way you sound, it's like you don't even do simple house chores at home.
I TELL YOU THE TRUTH - HE LIKES YOU BUT HE IS SCARED YOU WOULD BE AN INDOLENT AND DIRTY WIFE. LIKE HE SAID, START LEARNING (NOT PRETENDING) TO DO SIMPLE HOUSE CHORES. FOR THE MEN FOLKS, IT TELLS US THAT YOU NOT ONLY CARE ABOUT OUR EMOTIONS BUT ALSO OUR DEALINGS, PROPERTY AND ISSUES.
I wish you the Best.

UnknownT:
LadyX, are you related to LadyH?

Not at all. I don't even know her

olumzz:

Look at u...u na wife material?

nope

Now you know why many women are unmarried', and keep blaming witches from their villages and men. It is sad but many so called babes are nothing but badly trained girls with atrociously stinking pussy. Men will never change. @OP domesticate or ship out!

Aunty, you need not go all wifely with him but pretend it's your place and you have a friend who uses your space without helping to clean up after...it is annoying.

Be your clean and responsible self...no pretense.

searching4love:



I'm rich and stingy

I am hot tempered

I'm sexually active plus a big DEEK

I can beat a woman to coma

I smoke and drink heavily

I Don't go to church

I hate television or music

I snore loud at midnight

I cheat on my woman anytime i want


Tell me your own qualities let me see if we are compatible

.

I'm all for not turning into a man's maid before and after marriage but how do you get up from a bed and not dress it?

I probably will not marry you too if I were him.

God created woman as Our helper NOT AS UR MAID to be TOAST around cus u pay her bride price/provide for d family upkeep.Why complaining over petty household work U'll do without eye twitching.U dnt sit down and watch TV while she cook,wash,clean,bath the kids without concern.My own parent teach me moral but NEVER ALLOW UR WIFE SUFFER cos U ARE the bread Winner

igbsam:


Keep encouraging her to do the wrong things o. or maybe when you have a daughter, u can nurture her to behave this same way. The whole thread is against her, and its for her own good. Maybe u are like her too. Birds of a feather

Watch MR/MRS

Op, you are lucky he even pointed these out to you. I would have broken up with you if I were the one. I just can't stand dirty and lazy ladies. I don't support the washing of clothes aspect but for Christ's sake how would you sleep in your boyfriend's house and refuse to clean up. You couldn't even lay the bed, haba!

Why should your bf not husband expect u to cook, wash and do other chores for him? Very soon he will ask you to get pregnant for him without him being ur husband..anyway its the way u present yourself ppl will treat u..who knows whether you ask him to perform husband duties too...y won't he complain about bedspread when u cannot sleep in your own house....u guys are still in a relationship for christsake...visit and go to ur house.. Or better still get someone dat reasons well

Pamcrest:
Op, don't mind d guy....he's just lookg for excuses n subtly lettg u know yr stand ......he won't marry u.....period!
Any man keen on marrying u will be happy pampering u, not complaining abt everything!
My humble submission

The man u just described is what I call a typical mugu, mumu, maga, ode, oponu etc

ShirelleBaby:



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will u marry me

PunkyBrewster:
You don't have to wash his clothes but he's right about the rest. It's common sense/courtesy to wanna make the bed you slept in, in the morning or help out during meals. How can you just sit there while someone is preparing a meal for the two of you? I'd be very uncomfortable.

Only thing I don't agree with in his bullet points is the one about washing his clothes. You're his GF, not his adoptive or surrogate mother. I'm sorry but he can wash his damn clothes until he "wifes" you or someone else. How childish. I really don't get the trend of some guys expecting their GFs to wash their clothes for them, especially when you're not even living together. That's just BS imo.

I kind of buy into your point especially washing of a bf cloths, I for one really don't feel comfortable having pple wash for me, but having a lady come over and sleep and not dress the bed in the morning, cleaning of the house ok that can be factored out and the part she doesn't cook definitely means that washing of those plates is just out of the question here. she isn't so different from a LovePeddler cos that which joins them is the cash and fun they get from it.

.

See how everyone is going for the op's jugular
My dear i believe u want to make your boo happy but nt at d expense of somethg u dnt like.so tell me does it hurt to do these things?really??this general duty or stipulated responsibility are often over rated.if these things he listed wud make him happy then u should adjust.do the ones u can.as for his clothes give a washman or somethg nt all married women wash those of their hubbys.if u do i bet he'll treat u better than he's treating u now.everyone's happy

Idowuogbo:

See this one sleeping on okada. Which man will marry you while you sit there and add nothing to the union? Oh you think the title 'girlfriend' na automatic ticket to marriage? E b like say your brain dey on annual leave. I pity you oooo

No be small sleeping