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Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by veraiyke(m): 9:14am On Feb 24, 2015 |
No offence as one alredy sed bt d guy is very sincere in his words dat ur nt a wife material. U may sey bt sm girls do all dat n change after marriage n I tell dat at least got dem into d marriage. Agn u didn't also consider dat if u didn't do al dos tins d guy hs sed n he still marries u it a p cox in marriage u will still nt do dem n den tel d guy afterall he knew u dnt do dem bfor he married u. Hu is d man n hu is d woman? Hw d home go b sef? O girl ur not a wifey material n u beta learn frm it n chnge. I am not sayn dat u must slip wit d guy or turn to his machin bt u cn assist him in doing dos tins. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by igbsam(m): 9:15am On Feb 24, 2015 |
eleko1: you just shot yourself on the foot. Helper abi, why is she not helping with laying the bed she slept on, or prepare the meal. If you call all these little things suffering a woman, you have a dead brain laying in your skull and it needs resuscitation. Keep living your life around movies, I just pity your future. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 9:15am On Feb 24, 2015 |
zizibabe1:I can't lie because friendship ....she knew that I have a girlfriend before she walked in |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 9:16am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Str8twistedme:make election quick come n go ,these ppl won't let hear word...change this ,transformation that I don tire |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Abyzan(m): 9:17am On Feb 24, 2015 |
texybaby: courtesy demands you atleast do that to show you had proper home training and youre intelligible 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 9:17am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Boyfriend? The type of bondage you lot enjoy putting yourself into, only God can intervene. You have at least tried to do the first three though |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Ethereal0110(f): 9:18am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Story... Story... classicB: |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 9:18am On Feb 24, 2015 |
texybaby: If he misses you so much, why aren't you guys back together? You did all of those things, yet you guys still broke up. You can cook and clean and wash and nurse and....all of that, yet a man will marry who he wants to marry. I'm not saying women shouldn't do any of those things if they really want to do them (I don't allow any woman do my laundry...no way; I do it myself), but I'm against doing those things because you think it will make you more acceptable to a man! ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by olumzz(m): 9:18am On Feb 24, 2015 |
mirexxx:Gosh...I pity Danny boy |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by sammieguze(m): 9:19am On Feb 24, 2015 |
I bet the op is still in her teens. Probably early twenties. By the time she hit mid thirties still single, she go get sense. I mean.... Plenty sense. @ d boyfriend too, d guy sef shld switch to default. Afterall, he isn't married to her yet. He shld stop whatever husband virtue he has been exhibiting till marriage. Whats sauce for goose should afterall be sauce for the gander 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 9:20am On Feb 24, 2015 |
ShirelleBaby:like you are any better ,all girls are the same jare..... ..... Lol ....no mind me ooo ,just looking for trouble ![]() ShirelleBaby:like you are any better ,all girls are the same jare..... ..... Lol ....no mind me ooo ,just looking for trouble |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by sweetcocoa(f): 9:20am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Pamcrest:I'm sorry but what you wrote up there is absolute rubbish, why should you be pampered when you don't deserve it? Or you think it's your right to be pampered by a guy when you can't even pamper him? How can you lay on a bed and just leave it scattered in someone's house? Where are your manners? You are dating someone you hope to marry, yet you can't help with little things but expect to be pampered? git outta here puleeze. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by oshaosha2014(m): 9:21am On Feb 24, 2015 |
CoCoLav: The reason why I am not comfortable with my gf washing my clothes is because she has offered to do it without me pestering her. Since she could ordinarily show the willingness to do it, I know iam not going to have any problem with her in that area when I marry her. However, in ur own case, proving to me that you cannot wash my clothe, giving reason as to why you cannot do it, we will not fight, but am recording ur actions for final verdict - whether I can marry u or not. To me, I feel it is a natural thing for a woman to keep the home in good shape, which includes her bf/hubby clothes. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by pbs4real(m): 9:22am On Feb 24, 2015 |
mirexxx:wats ur pee? Ma fwend go and read ur books,u 2 young 4 dis. . |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by austinbrown: 9:23am On Feb 24, 2015 |
U lack home training and u still have the guts to bring up the topic here, useless girl |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Accurate11(m): 9:24am On Feb 24, 2015 |
most gal tink a relationship is all abt love making. "If we go down into ourselves, we find that we possess exactly what we desire." |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 9:24am On Feb 24, 2015 |
moreeni: The OP has stated the kinda gurl she is,bother no more,cos she gat no atom of working in her. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by mirexxx(f): 9:24am On Feb 24, 2015 |
pbs4real:and who r u?? |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by ShirelleBaby: 9:24am On Feb 24, 2015 |
dagbenga: Hahahahahaha- Trouble maker ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by toolpusher(m): 9:24am On Feb 24, 2015 |
ClassicB here is what I think: 1). You are seeking attention on Nairaland, you want your post to trend and generate many comment. Because someone whose mind is excellent wouldn't even upload those pictures and even take time to edit it to hide some details. If you have enough discretion and wisdom to hide those details I believe you should also have enough to submit and humble yourself to do house chores. 2). You are one spoiled and lazy girl who doesn't know how to do any house chores. You don't do it at home and so you don't see any need to ever do it anywhere. Charity begins at home. Maybe you have people who do it for you so you never bothered. That isn't much of your fault but since you are an adult you should learn. 3). Your mindset is very deluded. Doing house chores for your fiance NEVER relegates you to a housewife or housemaid. Everywhere in the world, ladies do some house chores and men also. A wife is a help-meet, you ought to help him do some work at home. 4). You should be very grateful to God your boyfriend told you now. Some men won't even tell you, you will be told when you receive his wedding invitation. Then you would brand him a 'beast' for leaving you. Your boyfriend is a very nice man, he is matured. 5). Lastly, your ability to organize his house and life better than him gives him a good indication that you could make a good family. My advice to you, gradually start doing some of the chores that you can, because if you don't do it he will surely find someone else who will. Nature abhors vacuum. There are many girls who will gladly "spend the night" with him just like you do and clean the house like one 'Ekaette'. Be guided! 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by mirexxx(f): 9:25am On Feb 24, 2015 |
olumzz:ok ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by nitrogen(m): 9:25am On Feb 24, 2015 |
classicB:Dont be silly, you cant cook for your b/f, you cant lay the bed you guys slept on together, you cant wash his stuffs once in a while ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by oshaosha2014(m): 9:25am On Feb 24, 2015 |
mirexxx: No mind them Jo. Its okay not to be a wife material. Why don't they go to a textile market to look for one. Definitely, they will not find you there cos you are a lady not a wife material. Imagine this people. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by pbs4real(m): 9:26am On Feb 24, 2015 |
anthoniaz:guy 4get dt tin,d gal lazy,she jez dey try cover up. .bliv me,doz tinz cum natural. . . |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 9:27am On Feb 24, 2015 |
classicB:don't mind everybody ...I support u Mo wa lehin ee ,bi abuke. I dey your back no shaking. ![]() Its not your duty,are u his sister ..NO !!! Go to his house n enjoy ursef |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Youngzedd(m): 9:27am On Feb 24, 2015 |
justi4jesu: Those guys you just mention can't have such liability naa. They want assets. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by hummerwise(m): 9:28am On Feb 24, 2015 |
zizibabe1:Imagine, B.O.T.S.F |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Setaje(f): 9:29am On Feb 24, 2015 |
You wonder why marriages don't last and people keep complaining about how their spouses changed after marriage. Everybody playing lip service so they can be seen as a wife material. This op will go on a cooking and cleaning spree so she can be wifed. Only for her to go back to her true behaviour after marriage. Isn't it obvious she should marry her kind. There are many non challant men out there or men who take delight in doing house chores. Look for one and don't deceive that poor guy into marrying you o. 4 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by oshaosha2014(m): 9:29am On Feb 24, 2015 |
zizibabe1: The home is in the hands of a woman. She brought the matter here to be schooled so it's not like someone pushed her here. Am sure she's learning right now. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by pbs4real(m): 9:29am On Feb 24, 2015 |
zizibabe1:4get dt tin joor,weda or nt d husby is a wife material or nt,it shldnt stp u 4rm doing ur part as a lady. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by eleko1: 9:31am On Feb 24, 2015 |
U are an unequivocally decadent vermin and a belligerent odiosly suffocating lamentable mistake.U reason from the cesspool u call brain.What stp a man from laying the bed they both slept on?What is the big deal in giving helping hands?Must u complain over a little thing.I dnt argue with a cretin[quote author=igbsam post=31029267 you just shot yourself on the foot. Helper abi, why is she not helping with laying the bed she slept on, or prepare the meal. If you call all these little things suffering a woman, you have a dead brain laying in your skull and it needs resuscitation. Keep living your life around movies, I just pity your future.[/quote]U expect her to clean ur booty too?Goat |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by stephnie44(f): 9:31am On Feb 24, 2015 |
classicB:Bt u s3x him abiiiiii |
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