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4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by carzola(m): 2:21pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Disagreements happen. Here’s how to turn fighting into something exciting: makeup sex. Fighting brings out the worst in everyone—and, at the end of the day, the only behavior you can really control is your own. But there are things you can do to turn a potentially destructive argument into a productive, healing meeting of the minds—and get to that make-up sex a whole lot quicker. AVOID “I DIDN’T DO THAT” If your girlfriend is saying something you don’t agree with, your first instinct may be to shoot down what she’s saying with an “I didn’t do that,” “That’s not what I meant,” or “That’s not what happened.” The problem is, this will just keep you tied up in the minutiae of the fight. Understand that what’s important is that you both feel you’re being heard, not that you both agree on the particulars of what happened. Focusing on disputing each other’s details is a waste of time and will only annoy her more. DON’T HEAR, LISTEN This might sound obvious, but it’s actually the hardest thing to do. When you’re in an argument, check your mental process: I bet you’re spending 20% of your energy listening and 80% figuring out what to say in response. But concentrating on listening to what she’s actually saying is the best way to defuse an argument, says Bonnie Jacobson, Ph.D., co-author of Choose to Be Happily Married. Though it may feel cheesy, the phrase, “What I’m hearing from you is…” is an absolutely essential thing to have in your arsenal. TOUCH HER… CAREFULLY “Physical contact is a great way to calm both of you down,” says Jacobson. But be warned, the last thing she wants is to feel you’re invading her space, telling her to chill out or diffusing the situation cheaply. So touch with caution. Holding her hand or gently rubbing her shoulder are both safe options. Hugging her may be OK, too, but ask her permission before going full contact. And whatever you do, don’t attempt anything that could be construed as coming on to her. The only thing a woman hates more than a guy she’s pissed at is a guy she’s pissed at who’s really just trying to get laid. And Finally… The Make-up Sex Don’t jump the gun here. Wait till you’ve both laughed about the fight and started talking about other things—a sign her mind is starting to get past the argument. Then kiss her to test the waters. If she kisses you back, it’s on. Remember the key to great make-up sex: slow and passionate. If she still has some anger she wants to let out and starts to take it to a kinkier place, go with it. But let her be the one to direct it that way. And while it’s certainly easier said than done, try not to finish before she does. Source: http://www.thetrentonline.com/4-ways-turn-good-argument-great-sex/ |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Cutehector(m): 2:25pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
I wonder when I will practice all the things I hav learnt |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Nobody: 2:34pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
List everywhere , teach me something new. Make up sex my ass, don't come close if I'm still angry. |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Cutehector(m): 2:35pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
brito:wat do u wanna learn? |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Nobody: 2:42pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Cutehector(m): 2:45pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
brito:alright. Whr do we start from? D easy way or d hard way |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Nobody: 2:48pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by eraly(m): 2:53pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Cutehector(m): 2:57pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
brito:aiit. Wat am abt to tell u contains a lot of strong languages so I realy dnt think it'l be wise to lecture u here in nairaland. U knw dr r some things dat needs to be said in private |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Nobody: 2:58pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Nobody: 2:59pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Cutehector: My baby don dey vex, abeg no teach me again |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Cutehector(m): 3:05pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
brito:lol u mean dat guy, guys and jealousy sha |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by eraly(m): 3:17pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Cutehector(m): 3:44pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
eraly:hian. Na wa. Person no fit joke again. U shuldnt take things too seriously here on nairaland |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Sarimah(f): 3:49pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by eraly(m): 3:49pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Cutehector: |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Hawlahscho(m): 8:11pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by eraly(m): 10:00pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Kazrem(m): 10:25am On Feb 24, 2015 |
brito:Ha ha ha ha |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Nobody: 11:37am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Nobody: 11:38am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Nobody: 11:42am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Cutehector: I don't know why people take comments here serious. he landed me in trouble cos of that comment. I almost deactivate yesterday. |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Cutehector(m): 11:48am On Feb 24, 2015 |
brito:r u serious? What did he try to do? Am so sorry for everythn. |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Hawlahscho(m): 12:33pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Nobody: 1:20pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Cutehector: Very serious, don't be sorry. continue with d lectures. |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by kingsman66(m): 3:08pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
op this one wun't work try sumelse |
Re: 4 Ways To Turn A Good Argument To Great Sex by Cutehector(m): 10:04pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
brito:told u already its not smth I can write in nairaland due to d strong language. I wouldn't want an antispam bot to ban me. |
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