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Nil by ifoundmyperfect: 2:24pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
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Re: Nil by MizMyColi(f): 2:30pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
It's nothing really. It just shows her specialness. If she isn't afraid of darkness, it is because, she is without guile, it means she operates from light. In her subconscious mind, she somehow knows that her light so shines, that darkness cannot comprehend it. To her, it is just a time of the day that'll pass. That's what our natural disposition towards darkness should be. Going by other other attributes you mentioned, all I can say is waow! She is Special. Her creator's sovereign hand will be her guide. The best you can do is show her love and acceptance, in every form possible, stop making her feel strange with your awe and wonderings, else you might lose her entirely as she just might as well become a recluse. 8 Likes |
Re: Nil by ifoundmyperfect: 2:32pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
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Re: Nil by Nobody: 2:33pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
What exactly do you think you should be worried about? 5 Likes |
Re: Nil by LifeIsGuhd(f): 2:36pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Do not only be worried, be scared! 2 Likes |
Re: Nil by ifoundmyperfect: 2:38pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
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Re: Nil by MizMyColi(f): 2:39pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Re: Nil by ifoundmyperfect: 2:39pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
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Re: Nil by Nobody: 2:43pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Don't succumb to the black mentality. Your neice is perfectly okay and fine. Toddlers often become scared of the dark when their imagination starts running wild. In your neice case, she doesn't watch cartoons, so literally, no monsters and all that stuffs to scare her. Think of it as; she doesn't have a reason to be afraid. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Nil by ifoundmyperfect: 2:44pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
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Re: Nil by ifoundmyperfect: 2:47pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
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Re: Nil by Brymo: 2:57pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
u shud b worried o, she might b a 'W' |
Re: Nil by Nobody: 3:00pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Mizmycoli has said it all 1 Like |
Re: Nil by Joniboi(m): 3:05pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Africans and our mentality sha, why should a toddler be scared of darkness? Must all toddlers enjoy cartoons? That niece of yours is a genius cos she has started showing the signs by handling gadgets at this tender age. Pls don't derail her future by 'our' African mentality of always following the crowd. 7 Likes |
Re: Nil by ifoundmyperfect: 3:10pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
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Re: Nil by remsonik(f): 3:10pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
My niece is like that also. She's very sharp and smarter than most of her colleagues. She's just 4 years old and she knows all the states and their slogans. She is also good in maths as she can solve word problems already. 1 Like |
Re: Nil by ifoundmyperfect: 3:13pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
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Re: Nil by ifoundmyperfect: 3:15pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
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Re: Nil by Nobody: 3:40pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Op,what do you want her to be scared of? Her handling of gadget is because she's exposed to it. My niece like 3yrs knows how to pick call,on the the TV,and so many things beyond her age. So its normal,don't be worried,she's a special child. |
Re: Nil by Joniboi(m): 3:43pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
ifoundmyperfect:You have one in your niece, she is a peculiar and special child. Pls let the little one be. She is herself, so because almost all kids all over the world are scared, she should be scared too abi? Nawa! |
Re: Nil by haroldrich: 3:46pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
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Re: Nil by ifoundmyperfect: 3:52pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
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Re: Nil by Joniboi(m): 3:54pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
ifoundmyperfect:Ehen! Correct guy...Lol. 2 Likes |
Re: Nil by ifoundmyperfect: 3:55pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
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Re: Nil by Brymo: 4:09pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
ifoundmyperfect:haha, who said she was a witch, W meant witty for me not witch. U funny bro, i actually laughed. |
Re: Nil by ifoundmyperfect: 4:19pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
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Re: Nil by bellong: 4:23pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Why should she be scared of darkness? It is not peculiar to her, there are other children in her age group who are not scared of darkness... She may not like cartoon now because she is yet to see one that fancies her interest. again she is not alone on that.... You and her parents shouldn't be worried... 1 Like |
Re: Nil by jnrbayano(m): 4:46pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
It's a good puzzle to have because the things you listed she does and not afraid to do differs from the norm. This shows responsibility on your part as to the duties you have over the younger ones. Kudos! However, those abnormal signs are not sinister rather they are clear signs of a child who is gifted. Not being afraid of the dark suggests boldness/daring and it's a prerequisite for achieving any feat in this life. I reckon she's gonna be a great risk-taker. Her affiliation with gizmoes suggests dexterity. Her fine motor skill has really developed rapidly thus far. We may have our own Bill Gate in her. Fingers crossed. Why she doesn't like to watch cartoons and play for longer periods with her mates I can't really rap my head around it. Perhaps she sees it as children's programs/affairs and feels she's already bigger than that level. Who knows? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nil by saintneo(m): 5:10pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
ifoundmyperfect: This baby needs to be engaged in tactical quests, spatial orientation, mathematics, multiple languages, spy stuff, sports, science and technology. A genius from the beginning, please don't let her loose the opportunity to develop her talents, we could end up with black female 007 or Army General. |
Re: Nil by Noloss(f): 5:15pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
It's nothing to worry about bro. I av a 5yr old son dat behave like dat. He's not scared to stay in d sitting room alone whenever nepa takes light, infact he slept in his room alone yesternite without light. I think it is an attribute dat neede to be developed. To such children, d c it as a normal thing dat happens, hence nothing to worry about. |
Re: Nil by mylora: 6:26pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Do not be worried dear me, she's a Nigerian. We're not afraid of darkness. 2 Likes |
Re: Nil by Vision4God: 6:28pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Watch her closely. Children displaying such shudnt b left alone buh guided positively or it turns out dangerous |
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