drafrican:
"Dr's bribed their way through school " shows the school you went to and sweetheart what did you do to get through school..........you read your books all day every day!

Best graduating student in my class, steady As and B's grades in all 4yrs, even your medical degree cannot beat my achievements.

nefertitiram:


See why I am questioning your educational background? Do you have an idea the meaning of empathy?
How many women here have told you today you are insensitive?
Where is the empathy?

You are just a hungry doctor jor! You for talk early so that we can donate money for your pharmacy!

Well I won't degrade myself to throw insults on financial prowess,talk is cheap anyone can claim to be full!

nefertitiram:


Best graduating student in my class, steady As and B's grades in all 4yrs, even your medical degree cannot beat my achievements.

Talk is cheap my dear,as for educational qualifications let's see the certificates!

drafrican:

Well I won't degrade myself to throw insults on financial prowess,talk is cheap anyone can claim to be full!

You mean degrade yourself further, after proving how much of a disgrace you are to the entire Nigerian medical profession. I would have confused your business for escort services with your money for hand, back for ground policy!

drafrican:

Talk is cheap my dear,as for educational qualifications let's see the certificates!

I can boldly say it, loud and proud, even brag about it. But you...
You cannot boldly deny your bribed your way through school. Medical doctor my behind! With all your ranting, I can bet you are a mortician! Cold heartless non entity

Am sure those on the group know who is ranting and who is stating facts but as this is a very emotional issue, I totally excuse your outbursts.

TeesMom:
Hello house, pls has anyone applied for a visa for a nanny before? Any info wld b great as my child has plenty activity.

I wish I had good Info for you . I also came with my little one, I put him in a day care, it's a 3 mins walk from wer i stay and less than 1 mins drive. 280 dollars a month for 3 days. It's owned by a church otherwise it would be very expensive...

Phema:
This is gonna be interesting. . .

Bloggerina, where that your groundnut? Abeg add guguru this time. Man shall not live by groundnut alone.

Ehen, so, where were we? Naija healthcare Vs US healthcare huh? Like there is any comparism
*continues chewing groudnut and guguru*

Make i follow chop groundnut, Hahahahahahahahaha, gosh my son is sleeping now o, I should sleep, but amebo won't allow me. One say go climb Zuma rock, the other one say go back to lurk mode, person say she be superman to travel at 40 weeks, qwuak doctor matter, money for hand back for ground policy, another say this one bribe way through school, someone say no generator so the incubator done turn pale for fetching water, see blasting. Gosh, I have so laughed today.

kizluv:


Make i follow chop groundnut, Hahahahahahahahaha, gosh my son is sleeping now o, I should sleep, but amebo won't allow me. One say go climb Zuma rock, the other one say go back to lurk mode, person say she be superman to travel at 40 weeks, qwuak doctor matter, money for hand back for ground policy, another say this one bribe way through school, someone say no generator so the incubator done turn pale for fetching water, see blasting. Gosh, I have so laughed today.

Aunty!!!! Biko, talk true,
You be newspaper reporter!
See as you don summarise the whole gist sharp sharp! Ehen, I can see you studied your way through school, unlike Mr. Quack Native doctor who wants to use medical degree to open pharmacy!
Let him go and try that one in US! Nonsense alacrity!

Drafrican, please do not mock a pain u have not passed through. Last year June, I lost a 4days old baby due to medical negligence in on of the supposed best hospital. He was born healthy. He cried, he sucked and burped after. The only thing I noticed was that he kept spitting up a brownish liquid. I was told he swallowed meconium, and that he would spit it up by himself. He was not put in any nicu and no paediatrician came to see him till the third day despite all my complaint. I was discharged even though I kept complaining. The fourth day I went back because I didn't like the way the boy was behaving. I got there at 10am, his blood was taken and the result didn't come out till he died at to 6pm. Meanwhile they were suspecting sepsis so they were pumping him with antibiotics. When the result came out, his white blood cell count was ideal for an infant. No further investigation was carried out. Till now I don't know what killed him. It never crossed my mind to ever travel out to give birth before I lost a baby, but after losing a handsome little one, I have realized our health care system is shifty. I was going to sue, but you know how doctors cover each other. Eventually the doctor in charge wrote it off as sepsis. I saw the lab result, and I did a biological science course so I know he had absolutely no infection.

Lol @ Phema. So you don finally join #Team Gnut!

Drafrican, you could have still stated your professional point of view without making it look like you really don't send any preggy. Your response to her was harsh and hurtful, honestly.

slimwendy85:
Drafrican, please do not mock a pain u have not passed through. Last year June, I lost a 4days old baby due to medical negligence in on of the supposed best hospital. He was born healthy. He cried, he sacked and burped after. The only thing I noticed was that he kept spitting up a brownish liquid. I was told he swallowed meconium, and that he would spit it up by himself. He was not put in any nice and no paediatrician came to see him till the third day despite all my complaint. I was discharged even though I kept complaining. The fourth day I went back because I didn't like the way the boy was behaving. I got there at 10am, his blood was taken and the result didn't come out till he died at to 6pm. Meanwhile they were suspecting sepsis so they were pumping him with antibiotics. When the result came out, his white blood cell count was ideal for an infant. No further investigation was carried out. Till now I don't know what killed him. It never crossed my mind to ever travel out to give birth before I lost a baby, but after losing a handsome little one, I have realized our health care system is shifty. I was going to sue, but you know how doctors cover each other. Eventually the doctor in charge wrote it off as sepsis. I saw the lab result, and I did a biological science course so I know he had absolutely no infection.

We serve a God of restoration! My darlyn, you will pursue, overtake and recover! Amen!

@nefertitiram, Amen. Thanks babe. I pray the same for you. I thought I had gotten over it, but just having to narrate the ordeal has me all emotional. It's all good.

@ slimwendy
Am sorry for your loss
Am not mocking anyone,it would be very wrong of me neither would I insult anyone.
I encourage people to sue and I always will.
It's just wrong to give examples but there's also a lady who did IVF in naija went to the USA lost the baby and it was ruled as SIDS(sudden infant death syndrome) it occurred in the hospital nursery.

Please all , let's sheath our swords and rest. I don't like the direction this talk is going.

on travelling early or late several opinions have been given based on personal experience. This digression is not good for this thread especially with preggy mom's and dads.

One love all. let's hear more successful stories on POE and delivery.

Yes. On a lighter note, no one has replied my question about how much it would cost to cargo stuff from El past to Nigeria. Please help a sister.

drafrican:
@ slimwendy
Am sorry for your loss
Am not mocking anyone,it would be very wrong of me neither would I insult anyone.
I encourage people to sue and I always will.
It's just wrong to give examples but there's also a lady who did IVF in naija went to the USA lost the baby and it was ruled as SIDS(sudden infant death syndrome) it occurred in the hospital nursery.

You are not sorry, I can bet you have no idea the true meaning of I am sorry! Please stop comparing US and your crappy system, there is no comparison and you are further making a mockery of the entire purpose of sharing experiences.
If you have nothing nice to say, just hush!

slimwendy85:
@nefertitiram, Amen. Thanks babe. I pray the same for you. I thought I had gotten over it, but just having to narrate the ordeal has me all emotional. It's all good.

It is well, I can imagine...

As per cargo, I don't know of el Paso but usually to cargo from US is about $3.20 per KG.
This was a while ago, I am not sure of any recent figures.

After you change nationality it becomes my system for now it is our system ur Nigerian!

@slimywendy85, so sorry to hear this. GOD will surely give you double joy to cover this sorrowful event.

Alright, thanks.

drafrican:
After you change nationality it becomes my system for now it is our system ur Nigerian!

What part of hush don't you understand? Is it Greek or you need a definition?

modath:


Childbirth isn't a new innovation my sis, 16yr old fulani girls wit their frail looking bodies do it while hawking fura de nunu till the 9th month with no medical intervention.
As you rightly stated,person A's journey and story may not be applicable to person B so why compare apples and oranges.

I think u need to research on the meaning of that expression. It doesn't apply to this in anyway.

Like I said b4, u are reading and NOT understanding. People do all sorts during pregnancy, night journey by bus Lagos to Imo and back. Yes we know all that. Hell women even push baby out while farming in the bush, cut the placenta with their cutlass, bury it, wrap up their baby and keep it moving!
My point is (and I'll write in caps this time, maybe u'll get it now)...IT IS NOT THE NORM!!! WE SHOULD STOP PULLING GANGSTA MOVES BECOZ OUR CO-WORKER DID IT, THEN WE CAN! Or becoz 1st pregnancy handled your 20hr road trip to Alaska, then this current pregnancy should. My point is DO THE BEST FOR YOU & YOUR BABY! Stop traveling late becoz u wanna "gangsta" ur way with the whole process. Even Drs cannot tell u when ur child is ready to come, they can only ESTIMATE. So if a baby decides to enter the world at 32 weeks and u are planning on leaving naija at 35 weeks, don't come on here and lament that ur baby has a green passport after all the plans. Or becoz u were tryna save ur job.

Per pound u mean, they don't do kg in d US, the cargo company I know is in houston

nefertitiram:


It is well, I can imagine...

As per cargo, I don't know of el Paso but usually to cargo from US is about $3.20 per KG.
This was a while ago, I am not sure of any recent figures.

nefertitiram:


See why I am questioning your educational background? Do you have an idea the meaning of empathy?
How many women here have told you today you are insensitive?
Where is the empathy?

You are just a hungry doctor jor! You for talk early so that we can donate money for your pharmacy!

Hahahaahaha! Chineke umu Israel! This was not what I had in mind when I started my very first initial plea with mamas! Lmao!

oas99:
Per pound u mean, they don't do kg in d US, the cargo company I know is in houston

Maybe it's per pound, but d company advertising was Nigerian...I can't even remember again sef! $3.20 per pound sounds pretty expensive sha o!

That's what they do o my sister

nefertitiram:


Maybe it's per pound, but d company advertising was Nigerian...I can't even remember again sef! $3.20 per pound sounds pretty expensive sha o!

I was told no cargo in elpaso and has to first sent to Houston, though the lady didn't even give me the addy eventually. Pls let me know if there is a headway.

slimwendy85:
Yes. On a lighter note, no one has replied my question about how much it would cost to cargo stuff from El past to Nigeria. Please help a sister.

drafrican:
After you change nationality it becomes my system for now it is our system ur Nigerian!

Please for God's sake, drafrican, if truly you are a doctor you should know better than exchanging words with pregnant women. You have certainly overdone it here. Please just drop it. Thank you.

nefertitiram:


Aunty!!!! Biko, talk true,
You be newspaper reporter!
See as you don summarise the whole gist sharp sharp! Ehen, I can see you studied your way through school, unlike Mr. Quack Native doctor who wants to use medical degree to open pharmacy!
Let him go and try that one in US! Nonsense alacrity!

Lmao, lets add Alacrity to that list, hehe hehe...

@ dittobaby
I never insulted anyone
I wasn't exchanging words with anyone either.