christinauju:






Nah not offended at all..... He's actually my best friend and I'm scared of loosing my bestfriend,cos we v to drop some things and start up some things if we should date... buh he doesn't want to understand that part.

Raiders:
I met this beautiful girl last year on a public bus and she decided to give me her number. She is 22 years and a final year student of a major university. We have been texting and calling back and forth for the past 2 months and she told me she is single. I have been trying to woo her to be my girlfriend for over 2 months but she insist on us just been friends and she don't want a relationship.

I really like this girl and would love to date. but I feel like maybe she don't want to date me so yesterday I told her we should end our friendship because if she feels that am not good enough to date her then we shouldnt remain friends. I really don't want to waste another month trying to win her heart and later find out that she end up with another guy.

My last 2 previous relationships too me less than 2 weeks to woo my previous girlfriends so I am kinda surprise that after 2 months of trying to win her over she still insist on not dating me. At first, I thought maybe she was playing hard to get but I think 2 months is long enough.

My questions to nairalanders is how long should a guy try to woo a girl before giving up and moving on?

christinauju:
OP as long as the feelings stays....I'v got a nigga who's bn hanging on for me for the past 4yrs now and I'm still not convinced about him buh he's still crushing despite the distance....so its up to you.



....If you feel she's worth the time and stressstill stand strong,buh if she's not worth it just check elsewhere jare.

Mavor:
4 years ke??!! Both of una no serious. No offense meant.

Nneka123:
lol! You gotta try

If I like you tooo much, 1 week max.

bluesam:
I met girl 4yrs ago, when I asked her to be my GF, she say no to that only want me as a fri so I have to be her fri for 3yr but today she's my wife

Mavor:
Being a lover is not all about wanting kitten. If a man truly loves a woman, sex is the last thing on his mind. Men just want the satisfaction of knowing that "she is mine" and doing everything to keep it that way, if she's worth it. Preferable to being in a constant state of limbo, or watching on the sidelines while another guy taps that. Why torture yourself when you can move on jeje-ly

Justfollowit:

What is with the sense of entitlement y'all keep showing? Because you guys are friends automatically gives you a 5- star into her life.

What if you are really not good enough for her? When did it become a moral sin or crime not to date someone because the person is simply not good enough

She has her own aspirations, dreams and likes, if she thinks you do not fit into any , zoom off and let her be.

Have you also failed to consider the fact that maybe she doesn't like you in that manner. You can't threaten someone to like you, it is either she does or she doesn't. Don't sweat it

And You write as if you haven't ignored many women out there who stylishly showed interest but you ignore them because they are not good enough for you.

You cannot have it both ways

Her response was in good faith. If you look take it is as such and if you don't na your wahala be that

keyman0007:




oga dont dull ur sef. Reduce your famzing, get her jealous by flirting and calling other girls 8n her presence. Watch hw she respnd. If she act Jealous then she is into you. If no reaction and u dont sense any change. bros waka fast ! You hv been friendzoned. Save ur cash.

Sarimah:
10years is okay

summerflame:
Guy, I can't even waste one week asking Miss world out. No time. Is her pussy decorated with gold?. Guy, grow up and step up. There are do many girls out there dying to date you, even more better, composed and prettier than her. Stop vying for team B Jersey

Enegod:
I never woo any woman for any length of time. If I find one interesting, I let her know that I find her interesting. She then gets one chance to respond suitably from there. If she does respond suitably, something may develope. If she does not respond in a suitable way, I move on to the next.

Life is too short to waste any of it trying to go where you aren't wanted. If you have to woo a woman for so long, it just means that she is not interested in you,
and you are too dense to realize it..

Raiders:
I met this beautiful girl last year on a public bus and she decided to give me her number. She is 22 years and a final year student of a major university. We have been texting and calling back and forth for the past 2 months and she told me she is single. I have been trying to woo her to be my girlfriend for over 2 months but she insist on us just been friends and she don't want a relationship.

I really like this girl and would love to date. but I feel like maybe she don't want to date me so yesterday I told her we should end our friendship because if she feels that am not good enough to date her then we shouldnt remain friends. I really don't want to waste another month trying to win her heart and later find out that she end up with another guy.

My last 2 previous relationships too me less than 2 weeks to woo my previous girlfriends so I am kinda surprise that after 2 months of trying to win her over she still insist on not dating me. At first, I thought maybe she was playing hard to get but I think 2 months is long enough.

My questions to nairalanders is how long should a guy try to woo a girl before giving up and moving on?

Op, you amaze me
What is wrong in a lady saying she just wants to be friends??
like you mentioned she's very young(22 years) to start running into such conclusion and she wants to give more attention to her career.

Is 2months enough for her to trust you and accept to date you
She may not have any feeling for you at the moment probably, the friendship period will help her develop some spark for you.

For me your desperation is too high, you are already breaking up the friendship just because she has drawn the line.
Are you sure you like her at all, not to talk of loving her

Because other ladies gave in to your request in 2weeks doesn't mean every other lady must accept you in too weeks.

Biko that lady is too young for you to be mounting pressures on her on relationship issues

What do you really want?
Another relationship that has a future or another relationship that would go sour in a year?
abi you are just attracted to her physique and probably wanna get her laid.

Please leave someone's daughter alone.
For me, she's just one of the few ladies that know what they want.

If I get to know her, I'll get a her a gift.
Leave her alone if you can't build friendship and see where it gets …

In GEJ voice,
#NEVER AGAIN, should you mount pressure on 22year old girl, the chances that she's a virgin is very high almost 95%

Am very saddened/disappointed with this post.
#NOT ALL LADIES ARE WIRED THE SAME WAY
In fact am out of here

ALKARULEZZ:
she don baff?

sweetcocoa:
I don't agree that, $ex is the last thing on the mind of a guy in love with a woman, that's just pure fallacy.

$ex is among the top things on his mind, if he's with a woman he loves and is attracted to, he just agrees to hold off, if that's what she wants, to prove to her that it's not all about the $ex.

If you've ever been in love and attracted to your boo, then you'll know that, there's nothing as sweet as, hot passionate $ex, with your partner.

christinauju:





Wow!is that how you guyz see it,nahhhh....the truth is sometimes we ladies get to a stage whereby we are soo confused,we meet a guy that likes us buh we are not sooo sure abt that...so we tend to like still hold on think,pray,fast(lol)so we dnt get to giv an answer that we ll end up regrettn. The truth is when a girl keeps you long b4 she gives a reply to your request be rest assured she likes you buh there's something she's still not sure about in you....

Nneka123:
Dude! Two months?! And you are already giving up?

What about those who woo a girl for a year or even more than that. Your situation seems like the girl doesn't even want to be in a relationship with you, so be friends with her or just look for another girl, Jeez!

But to me a month!, if she's not interested in you, move on to the next.

yungest:
I tire Oooo..na en I go cum da spend tym 4her head lyk say she go dash me money at d end...

2 dem girls if u know u don't lyk a guy,tell em he ain't gonna kill u..hAaaaaaaa..

YoungDaNaval:
Wow Nneka you're so pretty huh. Biko I'd like to woo you, how long is it gonna take me dear?

yungest:
I tire Oooo..na en I go cum da spend tym 4her head lyk say she go dash me money at d end...

2 dem girls if u know u don't lyk a guy,tell em he ain't gonna kill u..hAaaaaaaa..

Purehuman:

You got it.
They'll give you so much hope, like arsenal.

Raiders:
I met this beautiful girl last year on a public bus and she decided to give me her number. She is 22 years and a final year student of a major university. We have been texting and calling back and forth for the past 2 months and she told me she is single. I have been trying to woo her to be my girlfriend for over 2 months but she insist on us just been friends and she don't want a relationship.

I really like this girl and would love to date. but I feel like maybe she don't want to date me so yesterday I told her we should end our friendship because if she feels that am not good enough to date her then we shouldnt remain friends. I really don't want to waste another month trying to win her heart and later find out that she end up with another guy.

My last 2 previous relationships too me less than 2 weeks to woo my previous girlfriends so I am kinda surprise that after 2 months of trying to win her over she still insist on not dating me. At first, I thought maybe she was playing hard to get but I think 2 months is long enough.

My questions to nairalanders is how long should a guy try to woo a girl before giving up and moving on?