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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by YoungDaNaval(m): 7:58pm On Feb 27, 2015
YoshiMaster:


Gai, pls back that as.s.s up, she is hallready belongs to me.

Take ya time.
Ooh Apologies... grin
YoshiMaster:


Gai, pls back that as.s.s up, she is hallready belongs to me.

Take ya time.
Ooh Apologies...
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by ifeakayahooco(m): 7:59pm On Feb 27, 2015
U wil first start with friendship b4 every other things fail into place,na runs girl she be?

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Mavor: 8:00pm On Feb 27, 2015
sweetcocoa:
I don't agree that, $ex is the last thing on the mind of a guy in love with a woman, that's just pure fallacy.

$ex is among the top things on his mind, if he's with a woman he loves and is attracted to, he just agrees to hold off, if that's what she wants, to prove to her that it's not all about the $ex.

If you've ever been in love and attracted to your boo, then you'll know that, there's nothing as sweet as, hot passionate $ex, with your partner.wink
Guys know how women feel about sex, cos for them its more of an emotional connection. Most ladies don't like being pressured into it. So a guy truly in love does not keep it at the forefront of his mind. He knows when to "strike" for lack of a better word. Whether it is before or after marriage.
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 8:00pm On Feb 27, 2015
Aystarz:

Calm down nau. U just carry the matter put for head as if na u the brother dey woo sef. Be civil pls....Advice he asked for, not insults.

Can you please point out where I insulted him?

I was not even ranting. My post was more of realization. It is the norm among you guys, and it is sickening. On the second no, just move on please

It takes a whole lot of confidence and humility to walk up to a lady, we appreciate it but when you try to turn it into something which isn't, you only have yourselves to blame.
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 8:00pm On Feb 27, 2015
YoungDaNaval:
Wow Nneka you're so pretty huh. Biko I'd like to woo you, how long is it gonna take me dear?
100000000 years wink

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by yungest(m): 8:00pm On Feb 27, 2015
tripleBgirl:
I could like you as a brother or a friend but not as a lover. Now what's wrong with being friends....would you have preferred being my enemy

Some guys are even lucky...after building up a friendship with the lady, they end up being the husband not just a lover.
except if your mission and reason for the relationship is the pussy...then you dont have to wait on her.
okay noted tankx
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Joshuadon: 8:02pm On Feb 27, 2015
Raiders:
I met this beautiful girl last year on a public bus and she decided to give me her number. She is 22 years and a final year student of a major university. We have been texting and calling back and forth for the past 2 months and she told me she is single. I have been trying to woo her to be my girlfriend for over 2 months but she insist on us just been friends and she don't want a relationship.

I really like this girl and would love to date. but I feel like maybe she don't want to date me so yesterday I told her we should end our friendship because if she feels that am not good enough to date her then we shouldnt remain friends. I really don't want to waste another month trying to win her heart and later find out that she end up with another guy.

My last 2 previous relationships too me less than 2 weeks to woo my previous girlfriends so I am kinda surprise that after 2 months of trying to win her over she still insist on not dating me. At first, I thought maybe she was playing hard to get but I think 2 months is long enough.

My questions to nairalanders is how long should a guy try to woo a girl before giving up and moving on?


seems u dont understand english, she want FRIENDSHIP
you want RELATIONSHIP
how do dis two tins relate........guy if u cant stay put to friendship, the door z open.......
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by manot: 8:02pm On Feb 27, 2015
[quotes author=Sarimah post=31145099]10years is okay grin[/quote]you are nt serious
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by yungest(m): 8:03pm On Feb 27, 2015
ALKARULEZZ:
time wey pesin suppose cherish anyhow dey run awoko....nai one guy man go cum take dey jist one girl?

Girl wey one small boy dey use shine for one corner
na so dier lyf b dem full conv. hall die

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Enegod(m): 8:03pm On Feb 27, 2015
nairaman66:


I go for personal records, not public. grin

It's up for grabs for you, take the challenge.
i do sharp sharp things tongue

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by sweetcocoa(f): 8:04pm On Feb 27, 2015
Mavor:
Guys know how women feel about sex, cos for them its more of an emotional connection. Most ladies don't like being pressured into it. So a guy truly in love does not keep it at the forefront of his mind. He knows when to "strike" for lack of a better word. Whether it is before or after marriage.
I get what you are saying and I think we already agree, that a guy in love will hold off, if that's what his lady wants.

I think the only place we disagree, is that he isn't thinking about it.
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Enegod(m): 8:04pm On Feb 27, 2015
Truckpusher:
It depends on where you've been eating from bro.

You don't pick something from the ditch and expect it to clean. tongue
i pick from high places tongue

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by ideology(m): 8:04pm On Feb 27, 2015

God bless bluesam, Justfollowit

Am very disappointed with men that reason this way. And I won't be surprised if op has another lady somewhere.
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by UglyGang(m): 8:05pm On Feb 27, 2015
yemmydy:
Someone wooing since 2008 till date. Even after he got married with a kid he wouldn't stop. I was just like they send u abi na by force? If you use 20 yrs to prepare for madness how many years will u use to practice. Buh nepa pole is stuck in his hear

Nah, he smart, he just want tha pwussy. He'll dip as soon as he beat.

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Truckpusher(m): 8:07pm On Feb 27, 2015
Enegod:
i pick from high places tongue
Some high places are well packaged gutter. tongue

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Haywhymido(m): 8:07pm On Feb 27, 2015
Mavor:
4 years ke??!! Both of una no serious. No offense meant.
my broda i wonda, when did wooing became a university course dat u now use 4 years on it? Am afraid of d lady n her mumu suitor

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Odunharry(m): 8:09pm On Feb 27, 2015
a week is OK abeg

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by greatsodade(m): 8:09pm On Feb 27, 2015
christinauju:
OP as long as the feelings stays....I'v got a nigga who's bn hanging on for me for the past 4yrs now and I'm still not convinced about him buh he's still crushing despite the distance....so its up to you.



....If you feel she's worth the time and stressstill stand strong,buh if she's not worth it just check elsewhere jare.



Four yearz ke...say weytin now, I pity d fellow sha cos u go still come go follow another person...Guyz dey suffer ooo.

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Feb 27, 2015
yungest:
na so dier lyf b dem full conv. hall die
dose convocation hall own na ogbanje

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by WORLDPEACE(m): 8:10pm On Feb 27, 2015
christinauju:






Nah not offended at all..... He's actually my best friend and I'm scared of loosing my bestfriend,cos we v to drop some things and start up some things if we should date... buh he doesn't want to understand that part.
He has become a girl to you. And girls don't date fellow girls unless their lesbians. You will only want to date him when he is no longer your friend. Since he met you, you've probably dated four guys and he is still 'bestfriending'. And the friendship ends when you get married to someone you've known for only six months. You and him have not got the memo:
Boys and girls can't just be friends. Have you ever seen a tiger playing with a puppy?
May the lord open his eyes.

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by ijecks(f): 8:11pm On Feb 27, 2015
1 year
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 8:11pm On Feb 27, 2015
Raiders:
I agree with you that 2 months is a long time to woo a girl. This is why I decided to end our friendship and told her to stop calling and texting her. I think it takes a girl less than a day to decide if they would date a guy or not but some girls just like playing hard to get.
You shouldn't have asked her to stop calling you bro. Just cut communication....that's all. Get busy in real life. I bet you will never have any cause to chase a lady for 2 months. 30 minutes is ok for me.

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Adaeze003(f): 8:11pm On Feb 27, 2015
All that's on my mind is how some guy I just met 2 weeks ago ll ask me to be his gf n I'll jump right in undecided. That's like first date stage, getting to know him stage.

Op, why do you think the "2 weeks" girls didn't last?

Anyhoo... she said she aint ready so if you don't want the friendship you can leave. no be by force...

It's amazing how guys on here are claiming "3 weeks" "no time at all" seriously? 3 weeks of knowing someone? Or 3 weeks of wooing? Like you knew her b4 the three weeks right? If not then that's just a cheap lie. Sighs...

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Enegod(m): 8:12pm On Feb 27, 2015
Truckpusher:
Some high places are well packaged gutter. tongue
grin your bad mouth is out of world angry
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by sweetcocoa(f): 8:12pm On Feb 27, 2015
I see some people saying, 2 months is too short a time, how is he sure he likes her in that time, can she trust him in that time? Etc

But that's what dating is for, saying yes to dating someone doesn't mean you are already in love with the person, when dating, is the time you take to study your date and probably fall in love with him/her, if after dating for a while you realize you both can't be, then you move the feck on.

Attraction and basic knowledge of who your wooer is, is all you need to date someone, you discover all you need to while dating.


Naija sha, all una things dey dey different.

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by toprealman: 8:13pm On Feb 27, 2015
DEPENDS ON PACKAGE AND EXPECTED OUTCOME. AS A MATTER OF POLICY, NOT MORE THAN 2WKS.

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by yungest(m): 8:14pm On Feb 27, 2015
ALKARULEZZ:
dose convocation hall own na ogbanje
dier mata nor tire u?...na dem sabi oooo.....dem nor go mk me receive bank alert and dem nor da dash gp..na dem sabi

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by 3coins(m): 8:14pm On Feb 27, 2015
Sarimah:
10years is okay grin
... .. ... . ................ .........
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 8:14pm On Feb 27, 2015
Truckpusher:
Bro , they've perfected and changed that game plan.
They will keep you close enough with enough hope that one day your dreams will come true, but the truth is she's keeping you as a backup just incase the old guy starts jonsing they will now run into your arms and you'll be feeling like a king that just conquered a territory without you knowing that you've been on the reserve bench. grin
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by YoungDaNaval(m): 8:15pm On Feb 27, 2015
Nneka123:
100000000 years wink
Jeeez!!! Igbo Girl. Choi!
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Feb 27, 2015
yungest:
dier mata nor tire u?...na dem sabi oooo.....dem nor go mk me receive bank alert and dem nor da dash gp..na dem sabi
me don hang boot since the days of Solomon for dat ministry na

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by greatsodade(m): 8:17pm On Feb 27, 2015
christinauju:






Nah not offended at all..... He's actually my best friend and I'm scared of loosing my bestfriend,cos we v to drop some things and start up some things if we should date... buh he doesn't want to understand that part.

Lol u called him your best friend?...iffa hear oo, am sure u'll end up telling him that u re sorry it just can't work btw u two...and yet u re d reason the dude still hangs around u branding him with a tag like bestfriend... I have a feeling sometyn is irrational abt dis sha...anyway most ladies re filled with this kind of thinking.

No pun intended dear.

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