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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Wizkoko(m): 8:18pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
And you are proud of saying it? That you own nah wickedness jooor. christinauju: four years like say nah only you be babe for this world? That guy is hopeless (no offence just fact). 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
ideology: You know With sincerity, I have never seen such stupid display of attraction except when Nigerian men. If it is not mutual, it isn't. But they would rather drag it for the rest of their lives. As for me, I take drastic measures. I hate being nagged on decision which are wholly personal and subject to my sole discretion. If these women are actually fronting, make it blunt to them. And all them to holla when they age ready. Easy peasy |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 8:20pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
benideey:I feel you my guy. Seems we have same personality. NO TIME AT ALL. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Odunharry(m): 8:21pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Enegod:confirm 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Notyourb1tch(f): 8:21pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Adaeze003:Lol those quick ones are the ones who are only interested in 1 thing only. To chop and screw. If they are not making any progress then off to the next one |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by fowowe411: 8:21pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
kendrick9:This trend is becoming annoying i swear,why do peeps like yiu believe money is all you need to get a girl? That is why most of you fall magas to girls since you cant but impress her with money and i think it is a sign of inferiority complex.Make enough money before putting up something like this again! 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by yungest(m): 8:21pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
ALKARULEZZ:lol...I go soon hand over gv my roomie dis 1wre exam na march...gp ova errytin |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Mekzmoney(m): 8:22pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
If I lov a girl n woo her 4 2long n she finally agreed, I would only get into her 2legs and dump her.. I've spin a lady wen she was a virgin and she was deflowered by anoda guy. I got her 7yrs leta.. My intention was to 2 marry her buh I couldn't n she was leta dumped by d guy. So wen u woo a girl 4 too long u will loose interest in her. 3mnths is cool to woo a girl u lov buh a wk or less 4 a girl u wanna flirt wit. I'm still targeting a lady 4 10yrs now n m yet to take my share of d national cake ![]() ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Ozavis: 8:23pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Waisting ur time bro, when plenty girls out dere looking for men. 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by greatsodade(m): 8:23pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
WORLDPEACE: I say a big AMIN bro...d guy just need to wake up...cos she ain't going to be for him @ all in d end...lol. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Raiders: Bro in this era of last days and anti-Christ. YOU REALLY NEED JESUS CHRIST. |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Aystarz: I reread my post. I agree with you But the reality of being hounded by guy isn't funny, at least not to me. It also makes the guy kinda creepy |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Wizkoko(m): 8:25pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Raiders: guy my friend blazzy woo a babe for 3years and she dey play with him head like say she go gree but at the tail end another friend of mine woo her in a week and she agreed. Lesson here is that if a girl is playing with your head for so long then just give up coz it will end up fruitless. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by iamord(m): 8:27pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
The answer is an individual thing. And need no palm reader to tell you when to stop wooing 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by InZA: 8:27pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Justfollowit: Good word! |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by ideology(m): 8:28pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Justfollowit:Am a Nigerian but I felt disappointed with the Op's mindset. The thought that the lady is still very young is just enough reason to give it time. What do some folks really want from a relationship? Is it child's play? have fun and move on at will … What happens to building friendships with the hope of a blissful future … If op is my son, I'll ground him for a week ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Vincef(m): 8:28pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
christinauju: How does feelings kill the agro or konji the guy has been breeding. 4yrs? forget it. The guy is just disturbing ur peace when he has seen a wife material that gives him 'head'. Can you? |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Subom1(f): 8:29pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Some men just don't get it when you tell them that you are not interested. You can say it straight to their face but you get those who think you are just playing hard too get and will continue to harass you. Love is not by force. If a lady is interested in you, even if she takes her time trust me you will know. 3 Likes |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 8:30pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
gimakon:You're very right too. Not the lady's fault at times. But it's always advisable to pay attention to their body language and see if she's giving you green light. If I see signs that she might be interested but probably need time, I might push further but if there is no green light, I bounce off immediately. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by kelvinmuffins3(m): 8:32pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
After 15min no sign of green light, I will show the money but if no green light in the next 30min then girl na you sabi o. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 8:32pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
ideology: You see they will date for years (not court o), the relationship wouldn't be anything other than bf/gf. When she is ready to get married, she will open a a thread on Nairaland to ask us some silly questions. By that time he has already found some other JJC who he would refer to as the perfect wife material |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by diamondcrownltd(f): 8:33pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
christinauju: The guy wooing for 4yrs is a slowpoke, does he not know that another man has been eating your punny free of charge for the past 48 months 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Tallesty1(m): 8:34pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
christinauju:That Nigga should go and settle the gods of his land. They are not happy with him. 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by ideology(m): 8:36pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Justfollowit: For me the lady knows what she wants. |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Bosville(m): 8:36pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by sweetcocoa(f): 8:37pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Justfollowit:You know, most times, the problem is actually with the women(most of 'em), you hear them say they are not interested, whereas all they want, is the dude to chase further. I can't entirely blame them though, as they grew up hearing or even seeing, that "men" don't value women who show interest on time, therefore, these women keep "forming" not interested till they feel it's time, because of this, it's hard for the guys to tell, if she's really not interested or just playing hard to get. |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by justiniy(m): 8:38pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Ah feel ur pain mahn...same here mahn...ah gat diz chikala 2 nd shez been playing hard tew get for a while nw[2yearz]..ah know she digz me a lot nd wud wanna date me bt 4 one reason or d oda she is'nt.Tsall wel nd gud dou,ah let her b nd hope one day shez mait c d light..xo mah advice 4u bro,'have a lil more patience,u nva can tel..u mait jez gt wat u want'..ntwithstandn,dat does'nt mean u cnt mess wit some oda chikalaz along d line,cos bin singl nd chasing a gurl datz putting u on a long tin kud rili b boring.''AN ADVICE FROM A BROVA,MAHN'' |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by mcquin(m): 8:38pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
PiperAlpha: I never wanted to comment but this one thing you said I appreciate so much. "GET BUSY WITH REAL LIFE" Yes there is the real world. What ever you don't have now,you don't need it. If you were a graduate and working; waking up and going to your office, you won't realize she exist. Ladies want too much attention,don't satisfy that passion. 3 Likes |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 8:41pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
sweetcocoa: Why would anyone with a brain waste his time on an indecisive person? |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by humilitypays(m): 8:43pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
@op, it takes a girl or lady less than 1 hour to decide whether to date u or not. Any girl that keeps u waiting for more than 7 days to tell u whether she is ready to date u isn't truly into you but struggling hard to find something good in you to attract her or convince her to date u, and once she finds sth she likes abt u, she will then tell u yes. Most girls that form hard to get for Mr. A for instance will say yes to Mr B the same minute Mr B asks her out and even seduce Mr C the first minute she meets Mr C that has most of the qualities she desires in a guy. That girl playing hard-to-get for u is dying for one guy somewhere to ask her out, so stop sweating for any girl pls. Once a girl tells you No or refuses to give u a positive response between 1 - 7days maximum, pls free her immediately and delete her number if possible and never u call her again! Guys wise up pls. God blessing comes with no sorrow or hard work...it comes by favour and unmerited! Guys don't ever make the mistake of sweating to convince a girl to date or marry u plz! Its a foolish mistake! Did u watch Titanic? It took Rose less than 1 hour to fall in love with Jerk the kind of guy she desires whereas it took that other rich guy months and thousands of dollars to convince Rose to mary him. It took Rose less than 24 hours to have sex with Jerk but took her eternity to peck her rich fiancee. Guys pls stop believing that girls that play hard-to-get are good girls...na lie o...she is playing hard-to-get for u simple because she isn't truly into you, the moment she meets a guy that has the qualities she desires in a man, she will say yes to him and may even have sex with him the same day, so op...free that girl pls and face your life, education, career or business. Its high time you guys stop giving some paranoid girls sense of entitlement and importance. 13 Likes |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Raiders: 8:43pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
sweetcocoa:This is why women should let a guy know upfront that they are not interested in dating him if they don't like the dude. Its wrong for some women to keep giving the guy hope by saying they are single but just want to be friends even tho they are not interested in ever dating the guy. Some women just like the attention from guys wooing them. |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 8:44pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Ok for those quoting me evn with harsh words.... Have you ever had this one person close to you,you see see this person as your blood,brother/sister even tho they are not,u'v got just a clean open mind with them,you tell them everything,this person I'm talking about knows the good,the bad n d ugly part of my past relatnshp..... And to those saying stuffs like "No conscience blablabla" he knows how much I care about him buh we just can't date,buh he jes feels someday I'll ve a change of mind.... |
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