christinauju:
OP as long as the feelings stays....I'v got a nigga who's bn hanging on for me for the past 4yrs now and I'm still not convinced about him buh he's still crushing despite the distance....so its up to you.



....If you feel she's worth the time and stressstill stand strong,buh if she's not worth it just check elsewhere jare.

Na people like u go dey roll for church floor at age 28 wen un no see person marry una. 4years ke, when u no be university

Raiders:
This is why women should let a guy know upfront that they are not interested in dating him if they don't like the dude. Its wrong for some women to keep giving the guy hope by saying they are single but just want to be friends even tho they are not interested in ever dating the guy. Some women just like the attention from guys wooing them.

Ofcourse it's wrong but that's what the society/system has caused, some of them don't do it with intent to deceive, they just believe the guy will value them more, if he spent a lot of time wooing them.

Raiders:
I met this beautiful girl last year on a public bus and she decided to give me her number. She is 22 years and a final year student of a major university. We have been texting and calling back and forth for the past 2 months and she told me she is single. I have been trying to woo her to be my girlfriend for over 2 months but she insist on us just been friends and she don't want a relationship.

I really like this girl and would love to date. but I feel like maybe she don't want to date me so yesterday I told her we should end our friendship because if she feels that am not good enough to date her then we shouldnt remain friends. I really don't want to waste another month trying to win her heart and later find out that she end up with another guy.

My last 2 previous relationships too me less than 2 weeks to woo my previous girlfriends so I am kinda surprise that after 2 months of trying to win her over she still insist on not dating me. At first, I thought maybe she was playing hard to get but I think 2 months is long enough.

My questions to nairalanders is how long should a guy try to woo a girl before giving up and moving on?

urz is jez 2mnths and u fed up? Ma guy ve wooed a gal 4 2yrs b4 and she l8r became ma gf. . D fct if u truly luv dis gal,u ve 2 kip pushing 4 it. . Bliv she wld be urz @ d end,NB:she wnts 2 knw ow cirious u are. . Dnt gv up jez yet. .

Ok for those quoting me evn with harsh words....

Have you ever had this one person close to you,you see see this person as your blood,brother/sister even tho they are not,u'v got just a clean open mind with them,you tell them everything,this person I'm talking about knows the good,the bad n d ugly part of my past relatnshp of which I think that's wher the problem is coming from,if we should date I ll def loose my confidante,I mean there's a limit to what you tell someone you are dating unlike your "just friend" ..... And to those saying stuffs like "No conscience blablabla" he knows how much I care about him buh we just can't date,buh he jes feels someday I'll ve a change of mind....

christinauju:
OP as long as the feelings stays....I'v got a nigga who's bn hanging on for me for the past 4yrs now and I'm still not convinced about him buh he's still crushing despite the distance....so its up to you.



....If you feel she's worth the time and stressstill stand strong,buh if she's not worth it just check elsewhere jare.

ar u his university deqree.....?

christinauju:
OP as long as the feelings stays....I'v got a nigga who's bn hanging on for me for the past 4yrs now and I'm still not convinced about him buh he's still crushing despite the distance....so its up to you.



....If you feel she's worth the time and stressstill stand strong,buh if she's not worth it just check elsewhere jare.

ah women! Dnt u fink dts 2 mch?gv d bobo green lite nah.

pinkyruledworld:



Na people like u go dey roll for church floor at age 28 wen un no see person marry una. 4years ke, when u no be university

Seems you'v experienced that shey....chaiya,the lord is your muscle

Justfollowit:


Why would anyone with a brain waste his time on an indecisive person?

You seem not to get my point.

Some of these women, aren't actually indecisive, they just has been made to believe, the more time he spends wooing you, the more value you have in his eyes, so they play the hard to get card.

I've seen women who, know that they want to be with a certain guy from the get go, still they play hard to get, to them, it's just a way to know that, they are valued.

Some warped mentality that is, but hey, it is what it is, we can only hope that with time and civilization, a woman's yes will mean yes/no will mean yes/no and will be taken as such.

JOKLEVIZ:


ar u his university deqree.....?

Maybe!

christinauju:
Ok for those quoting me evn with harsh words....

Have you ever had this one person close to you,you see see this person as your blood,brother/sister even tho they are not,u'v got just a clean open mind with them,you tell them everything,this person I'm talking about knows the good,the bad n d ugly part of my past relatnshp..... And to those saying stuffs like "No conscience blablabla" he knows how much I care about him buh we just can't date,buh he jes feels someday I'll ve a change of mind....

Pls my sister with all due respect, stop deceiving that guy or any guy like that in your life- tell him the truth that u aren't into him! Tell him straight away that he doesn't fit into the kind of man u can date and stop fooling him with my best friend pls. Do unto others what u want others to do unto you! Be careful, karma they say is a biatch!

Wizkoko:
And you are proud of saying it? That you own nah wickedness jooor.



four years like say nah only you be babe for this world? That guy is hopeless (no offence just fact).

Nah he isn't....he knows what he wnts(perfect gentleman)

christinauju:
Ok for those quoting me evn with harsh words....

Have you ever had this one person close to you,you see see this person as your blood,brother/sister even tho they are not,u'v got just a clean open mind with them,you tell them everything,this person I'm talking about knows the good,the bad n d ugly part of my past relatnshp of which I think that's wher the problem is coming from,if we should date I ll def loose my confidante,I mean there's a limit to what you tell someone you are dating unlike your "just friend" ..... And to those saying stuffs like "No conscience blablabla" he knows how much I care about him buh we just can't date,buh he jes feels someday I'll ve a change of mind....

i jez hop it wnt be 2 late then. .

This babe told me she was taken, I accepted It smiled and moved on.
But we are closer than 5 n 6. She show me love in diverse ways... But am just here ignorant of whas in her heart...
For d 1st time she made me fall in love

sweetcocoa:
You seem not to get my point.

Some of these women, aren't actually indecisive, they just has been made to believe, the more time he spends wooing you, the more value you have in his eyes, so they play the hard to get card.

I've seen women who, know that they want to be with a certain guy from the get go, still they play hard to get, to them, it's just a way to know that, they are valued.

Some warped mentality that is, but hey, it is what it is, we can only hope that with time and civilization, a woman's yes will mean yes/no will mean yes/no and will be taken as such.

I get what you mean.

Well, it is time they changed. If only the guys would look the other way when we behave like that.

I think naija gals sud forgt dis attitude of delaying when you are asked out, U̶̲̥̅̊ alrdy knw wat U̶̲̥̅̊ want so y dnt U̶̲̥̅̊ jst go for it nd if its wat U̶̲̥̅̊ dnt want say Your̶̲̥̅̊ NO and mean it

Tallesty1:
That Nigga should go and settle the gods of his land. They are not happy with him.

Kings need no settlement with lil gods...

christinauju:





Maybe!

after bin his Bsc i fink masters shld follow. .

dont you like it, i love yours dearly ooooo

sweetcocoa:
You seem not to get my point.

Some of these women, aren't actually indecisive, they just has been made to believe, the more time he spends wooing you, the more value you have in his eyes, so they play the hard to get card.

I've seen women who, know that they want to be with a certain guy from the get go, still they play hard to get, to them, it's just a way to know that, they are valued.

Some warped mentality that is, but hey, it is what it is, we can only hope that with time and civilization, a woman's yes will mean yes/no will mean yes/no and will be taken as such.

I get your point so well but to me, the girls are not to be blamed but the FOOLISH guys who keep chasing them for ages and giving them sense of entitlement and importance!

Any guy that chases a girl for more than one month (maximum) is either:

1. Jobless
2. Not lovable
3. Paranoid
4. Idle/lonely
5. Frustrated and unfocused
6. Partially insane

Or he has a bad mission; probably revenge.

No sane man should chase a girl for more than 1 week because that girl u are wasting time, effort and resources trying to convince to date u is dying for one guy somewhere to ask her out or she is being messed up, used mercilessly by one low-class guy somewhere, so why the hassle?

Guys are to blame

pbs4real:
after bin his Bsc i fink masters shld follow. .

Got that lastyear...

christinauju:
Ok for those quoting me evn with harsh words....

Have you ever had this one person close to you,you see see this person as your blood,brother/sister even tho they are not,u'v got just a clean open mind with them,you tell them everything,this person I'm talking about knows the good,the bad n d ugly part of my past relatnshp of which I think that's wher the problem is coming from,if we should date I ll def loose my confidante,I mean there's a limit to what you tell someone you are dating unlike your "just friend" ..... And to those saying stuffs like "No conscience blablabla" he knows how much I care about him buh we just can't date,buh he jes feels someday I'll ve a change of mind....

i jez op u gat a cute face,nyc bosom,and ukwu dt cld cause cynosure if nt ehn. . . . . . . . . .hmmmm

christinauju:






Nah not offended at all..... He's actually my best friend and I'm scared of loosing my bestfriend,cos we v to drop some things and start up some things if we should date... buh he doesn't want to understand that part.

....[color=#990000][/color].. Oh my God !!..... U have palced him under the boundage of FRIENDZONE...ohhh i weep silently...pls give him a chance

Mine only took me like few minutes on that fortunate day after observing her for few weeks & it's as if we've known for years.

Ladies love to be with me all time. They said it's because of my powerful sense of humour which is my natural disposition; very funny disposition.
My lady(wife-to-be) always say i'm ladies' man.

Justfollowit:


I get what you mean.

Well, it is time they changed. If only the guys would look the other way when we behave like that.

Yea, though I've never really behaved that way. I let a guy I'm interested in, know I'm interested, and that has never reduced my worth in any way, how you carry yourself really matters.

christaddicted:
Mine only took me like few minutes on that fortunate day after observing her for few weeks & it's as if we've known for years.

Ladies love to be with me all time. They said it's because of my powerful sense of humour which is my natural disposition; very funny disposition.
My lady(wife-to-be) always say i'm ladies' man.

For your mind

humilitypays:
I get your point so well but to me, the girls are not to be blamed but the FOOLISH guys who keep chasing them for ages and giving them sense of entitlement and importance!

Any guy that chases a girl for more than one month (maximum) is either:

1. Jobless
2. Not lovable
3. Paranoid
4. Idle/lonely
5. Frustrated and unfocused
6. Partially insane

Or he has a bad mission; probably revenge.

No sane man should chase a girl for more than 1 week because that girl u are wasting time, effort and resources trying to convince to date u is dying for one guy somewhere to ask her out or she is being messed up, used mercilessly by one low-class guy somewhere, so why the hassle?

Guys are to blame

Lol, I blame the guys too, if you feel you've made your point and she's not coming around, move on, if she's interested, she definitely will come calling, in any case she doesn't, then so be it, as it was not meant to be.

christinauju:






Got that lastyear...

a guy dt has waited dt long wont tk u 4 granted if u l8r bcoms his gf. .he's gna cherish u mre dan any oda tin. .u stil nt convinc'd?wat else do u wnt?bae dis is wickednes and u av 2 be sued 4 dis act. . I wil see 2 dat masef.

pbs4real:
i jez op u gat a cute face,nyc bosom,and ukwu dt cld cause cynosure if nt ehn. . . . . . . . . .hmmmm

Maybe everyone shouldn't reason the way you do*winks*

yungest:
lol...I go soon hand over gv my roomie dis 1wre exam na march...gp ova errytin

u don behold exam time-table?

christinauju:






Maybe everyone shouldn't reason the way you do*winks*

yes ooh,doz tinz counts ask ma brodaz 4 NL bliv 98% wld share ma view. . . Plus she has 2 gat a sound upstairs.. . .all dis finz join 2geda.

Raiders:
Moderators: farano, Rocktation, Ishilove. Please move this post to the front page so I can get more response.

I hope she isn't AA because those women are the scum of the earth according to you.
@topic... Op just leave her alone, go and stalk someone else, it's obvious that she knows you aren't good enough for her.

As long as your Lordship pleases.