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Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by Daisydeevarh(f): 2:29pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Please I need advice on what to do, I have decided to change my church from the main family church to a new one mainly because I find peace and rest of mind in this new church unlike the other where you can't comfortably sit because gossipers are every where and they are both bible-believing church but my Dad has threatened to deal with me if I change saying he owns my life and he decides what I do with it and so I can't leave the church but that's where my mind is and I believe I own my life so I decide what I do with it and also have been experiencing unexpected miracle since I joined this church. Please I need your advice on what to do. Thanks |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by eleko1: 2:34pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Tell Us d church name so dat we'll advise u accordingly 19 Likes |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by steppin: 2:37pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
demelza:Gbam! 70 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by Princecalm(m): 2:42pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Which church are you changing from and to where? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by dulux07(m): 2:48pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Miracles only comes to individual by faith, or sometimes favor. if ur dad says no, the truth might be harsh., but u must obey ur parents even d bible condemns disobedience.The best u can do is to pray about it, n talk 2 pple who u know r close to him to convince him. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by Daisydeevarh(f): 2:53pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
eleko1:Fire brand Assembly 1 Like |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by Tallesty1(m): 2:53pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
No Church is the best. 7 Likes |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by Daisydeevarh(f): 2:54pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Princecalm:From Restoration Ministry to Fire Brand Assembly 1 Like |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by Daisydeevarh(f): 2:56pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
demelza:Okay Thanks a lot 7 Likes |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by Princecalm(m): 2:59pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Daisydeevarh:since you can't stay without help from your father interms of finance i think you should just adhere because the reason you are giving for leaving the church is not a valuable one to him. 2 Likes |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by stan241(m): 3:00pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Kinda depends on how old you are whether or not you live with him at a certain age you should be allowed to make some kinda choices for yourself so i guess you still very young hence his strong stand on the issue |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by ITbomb(m): 3:14pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
As long as I am under his roof, I will obey my father and continue going to his church. I can still go to mine on weekdays activities until when I am old enough to stay on my own, then I will decide which church to attend 8 Likes |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by Daisydeevarh(f): 3:17pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Princecalm:Yea I know but my father ain't the one financing me my mum is, he hardly drops money for us as children my mum is the one doing everything but I would try and stick to your advice |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by Princecalm(m): 3:18pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Daisydeevarh:all right. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by eleko1: 4:02pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Listen to/obey ur father,so that it may be well with U.U can't control/teach Ur father d diff betw A/B.Since U still live under the same roof with ur parent,pls dnt disobey them.they won't control U if u are in citadel of learning(Uni,poy/college)Pls dear,exercise patience make dey nor follow U go embrass u 4 ur new found church/accused ur Pastor of em(u get it? Daisydeevarh:bless U 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by chymystique(f): 4:06pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
@daisydeevarh, am also having same ish too. What I do is anytime am in my parents house I attend the family church even though in my mind its just my body that's there not soul and I dont participate in anything @ all. I just go to church and count hours till closing time .. as long as you stay under there roof you just ve to Obey dear... its of no use trying to convince or proving to be strong headed to such fathers cause they will think you ve been brainwashed. 5 Likes |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by Daisydeevarh(f): 4:25pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
chymystique:Thanks guess I have to do dsame |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by Daisydeevarh(f): 4:29pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
eleko1:Lol....Thanks a lot |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by Kayoski(m): 6:44pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Op..i had dis same ish early dis year but mine was successful..the reasons are i Just graduated from uni..waiting for nysc..although in my early twenties..maturity is a major factor... Parents are more protective over girls than guys..ur father might feel u av an ulterior motive for your decision(like maybe ur trying to get close to a guy in the new church or sometin).. u could still try convince them on the reasons they should grant you wish.. but if its nt possible just endure till you are independent... Good luck 2 Likes |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by eleko1: 11:57pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Just take it easy.No bi there U'll live. 4eva. Daisydeevarh: |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by Meringe(m): 8:19am On Mar 01, 2015 |
Daisydeevarh: So ,there are bible non believing church? Hmmmm....... all these new generation Christian eh. This is exactly the sunni and shia brands in Islam where one believes that the are more of obeying Koran than the other thereby forming boko haram and ISIS. When there are more than 3 persons in any gathering, even saints, there must be an element of gossip and squabble. You might not be seeing it in your assumed new bribe (new church) but as you go deeper, your eyes will open and you start looking for a new church again until one day you will go to the one that will disorganized you. Young woman, be careful. At your age, people think that the are wiser than their parents. Chill small. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by auntymi(f): 5:16pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Pray over it 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by Nobody: 5:17pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
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Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by Oildichotomy(m): 5:17pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
I will suggest you respect your Dad, forget the fact that he don't give you guys money. And besides,you ain't going to School or something? Change(especially for girls) come mostly when they start University, Don't worry Time is the main factor here! Don't run faster than your shadows Respect HIM while it last 1 Like |
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Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by tiamiyukunle69(m): 5:17pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Since they are both bible believing church just stay jejely. Besides you are a woman and you wont attend the church forever |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by jeeqaa7(m): 5:18pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
How does dat put food on my table? 1 Like |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by emonye6(m): 5:18pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Stop going to church either ehh. 1 Like |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by fikky2013(f): 5:18pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Daisydeevarh: Take it to God! 1 Like |
Re: Please What Would You Do If Your Dad Refuses To Allow Yo To Change Church by mytime24(f): 5:19pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
auntymi:40 days fastin nd prayer |
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