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Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by kliq(m): 7:28pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Mamajide25: |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by yollychika(f): 7:41pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Oyibo women no get respect aswear 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 7:46pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Even wen married, I think certain things shld still remain private within you and yoursef alone...if you can learn to kip how you help yur brothers(family) private then your fyt with yur oga @ the top will cease...the solutions stares you ryt in the face so get a lil private with yur family and have peace..... If for say nah naija woman u marry nw u for don use blow finish am ..now u don marry oyibo u don dey hold back..fear fear... |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by SirShymexx: 7:53pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
50calibre: Lol. Obviously, it has to be measured cos excessive pressure/force can cause a tear in the ligament. Then again, it has to be persistent for that to happen most times. So, if you can pull it off with one - you should be good. It's basically just like trying to knock someone out. You know you've got the best chance of achieving that by going for the chin. And to be effective without breaking the person's jaw, thus breaking ya finger and/or dislocating the metacarpo-phalangeal joints - you have to measure the force. Ol'boy was just existing in his own "gentleman" ruse, and lost all the respect in the process. You deal with women based on the energy they give out, and unnecessary pandering to them just makes you look weak cos you can never please. They're fvcking Oliver Twist! The future looks bleak with the soft manginas called "men" folks are breeding today. Then again, it has to do with upbringing as well. This isn't even about just women alone, it's about life in general: when dealing with bullies, you just have to stand ya ground and fight back any way you can. That's how you earn respect when things get physical - once you run, then you'll become a target. I remember growing up, you can never cry to my pops and tell him someone around ya age-bracket smacked you. He's going to whoop that ar.se and send you back there to go smack the person, and fight ya way out of it. With that, the person won't try it again the next time. However, once you keep running, you'll become a perpetual biitch. A lot of these manginas need strong old skool pops in their lives loool. The guy is a black man - and his blackness ought to represent strength, not being as soft as a foam. Pandering to biitches and shiit - the only time a woman should get physical is when she's taking the silent D in django. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Richhard(m): 7:54pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
missjenna: oh what a great advise! You have got a great personality Missus! P.S am a fan of Adele too! |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 7:57pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Richhard:Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 7:59pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
bokom:hmmmmmm |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by MarieSucre(f): 8:05pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Do you have children together. what kind of argument leads her to start hitting you? Can she not manage things civilly? My guy you have only one life and lots of people depending on you. pls stay alive for THOSE WHO LOVE YOU. #violenceisviolence. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by yuzedo: 8:06pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Iamsynord:I fûcking CRIED!!!!!!!!! |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by joywendy(f): 8:19pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
missjenna: hi is it possible for you to direct me to where you got those chimamanda quotes and the one on your profile please. Thanks |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 8:22pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
joywendy: Just type the pics you want on google images Example: type "chimamanda quotes" 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by cbrass(m): 8:52pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Justfollowit: So |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by amanmahmud: 9:28pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
U no women n in law. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by 50calibre(m): 9:59pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
SirShymexx: Lol word!! Violence shouldn't be tolerated from anyone, either man or woman. I will prefer to avoid getting physical but at times it becomes necessary, the last thing I'm going to be is someone's punk. The average man today has been emasculated and subdued into a docile puppy. Little boys are growing up today with the impression that they're to always please a woman and take all her shi*t no matter what. That's why men are being relegated and families falling apart. Men need a revolution!! 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Abdulhafis00: 10:03pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
y cnt u jst sit her down and explain how important ur family is 2 u, and let her no how you feel wen u hit her, after doin diz and she continue wit her bhaviour my guy kindly leave her, so as she is nt holdin any of ur child. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Classicman47(m): 10:08pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
<strong>May God help you in ur marriage Sir. Just testing my HTML skills</strong> |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Bigsteveg(m): 10:10pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
i know u meant well with the advise, but sis that advise na woman talk. person give im family money so na beating come remain. he should sort it out with his wife, here in nigeria you have to help your family cos they were also there for u when growing up. and they'l never leave when your wife/husband leaves u. missjenna: |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by SirShymexx: 10:19pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
50calibre: Lmao @ men needing a revolution - that will make the brotherhood look soft. Real men just need to start schooling these manginas on how to handle their business...be soft/Mr-Nice-Guy and pandering to women won't get anyone anywhere. You just have to put ya feet down, and reciprocate whatever energy they give out. Also, no matter how good-looking a chic is, some next guy must have treated her like shiit and busted his nuts all over her face. So, why bend over with extras, just to be nice to her? Just be normal and maintain a certain level of respect. And a chic hits you - just reciprocate the gesture in a smart way and make sure that will be the first and last time she'll ever try it. Young boys need strong father figures in their lives. Personally, I'll never raise a sucker...and you have to educate boys from early that they can never please women. Even if you were to kill yourself, they still won't be happy. Just be yourself and do whatever makes you happy. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 10:22pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
SirShymexx: Gbam. Instead of learning how to build things and do masculine things, young boys today are busy trying to be fruity romantic mangina.s. Hahaha it's so pathetic. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by SirShymexx: 10:25pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
aim5: Lol. The romantic crap is overrated. No matter how romance you're, that won't stop a chic from leaving you when she's attracted to someone else. You can't be a sucker for all that crap, everything has to be controlled. If she wants to be overly romantic, good for her. Just be yourself and don't force things. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by ylaa(f): 10:28pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
WHAT CANNOT BE CURED MUST BE ENDURED. SINCE YOU HAVE ENDURED THIS BEATING AND SCRATCHING FOR A LONG TIME, I ADVISED YOU CONTINUE TO ENDURE YOUR MARRIAGE TO THIS SCRATCHING FIGHTER OF A GAL ABI NA WOMAN. SORRY IT HAS TO BE U. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
SirShymexx: Exactly. I also never understood the stupid concept of buying females gifts and lavishing them. I mean if they are crying for equality, then they can buy whatever they desire with THEIR own money. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by 50calibre(m): 10:42pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
SirShymexx: Nah!! A revolution in the sense that men everywhere need to stop the pandering and start asserting their dominance more. Most men have become stooges to their women, they tolerate anything & go along with anything the woman says just to avoid her tears and tantrums, and to get sex. Women have enslaved a lot of men with their puss*y, a man will bow & grovel at a woman's feet just to please her and ultimately get se*x in return. The world expects the man to tolerate everything thrown at him by the woman, the law even make excuses for women. You have sex with a drunk chic, they say you rap*ed her, the system will destroy you totally. I see a lot of things going wrong in our society today & it scares me. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by MarieSucre(f): 10:52pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
aim5:It is indeed true that it is so much easier to be sexist than racist. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by MarieSucre(f): 10:55pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
50calibre:Do you read what you write why would you have sex with a drunk woman? Do you even grasp the concept of consensual sex? my God and this is gonna be some innocent little girl's father someday. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by 50calibre(m): 11:06pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
MarieSucre: Shut up!! What if we're both drunk? What if it's the guy who's drunk, will that still be an offence? The law has freed women of all responsibility & actually encouraged irresponsibility & non-accountability among women. A woman in her own nativity will have se*x with a guy only to cry rap*e in the morning and attract sympathy. A woman will hit a man and no one will make a big deal of it, it's even going to seen as comical. why the fuc*k is that? This is a very dysfunctional system we live in, don't talk bullsh*it it's exactly women like you who fail to take responsibility for their actions, it's the man that's always wrong. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by olu77(m): 11:17pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
igbsam: I can help u talk to presido only if you are very good at arguing that black is white, despite the obvious, like FFk. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by SirShymexx: 11:17pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
aim5: Lol. Just be yourself, and do whatever comes natural to you - don't ever go out of ya way to please anyone. See, I messed up one of my past relationships cos I was trying to be overly romantic. I was a youngin back then, and you know when you've watched too many make-believe romantic movies, and you're trying to replicate the same crap. Thus reading all kinds of nonsense on the internet about how to be romantic and other nonsense. All that crap just complicated things. And since then, I basically just stick to what comes naturally to me - no extras. Apart from the fact that I like music a lot; I can't cook, so going out to eat is a necessity sometimes; I do go cinemas to watch movies or the bar to drink when I feel like it; and maybe theatre like once in a while - I ain't got time for the other crap. And the only reason you'll catch me doing everything I listed with a chic is cos I want to do it as well. Waste all ya life savings on a chic, while a next guy is out there beating the darn pu.ssy for free lol. These chics will be at ya yard taking the big D, while texting their bfs that they love them. Met loads of them like that. That's how the game goes. You can't be a sucker for love Their equality starts and end in their obtuse minds. It's all a ruse by bitter women to destroy as many lives as possible. Don't believe the hype. Heck, they're begging them out here in the UK , with perks, to start doing Engineering, Building, Surveying etc. courses in Uni - but these folks aren't applying for those courses. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by MarieSucre(f): 11:26pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
50calibre:You never indicated in the first post of yours that i quoted that the man might be drunk. even at that what business does a drunk man have with having sexual intercourse? If you're comfortable with performing important activities under the influence why not go to the bank for some cash or go sign some important documents involving your properties and remember to blame everyone else but your drunken state after they've taken advantage of your vulnerability. And what do you mean the law has made girls irresponsible? I do not support violence from any gender infact I do not support violence irrespective of your gender, race or religious affiliations. #violenceisviolence. Talking about bullshit and taking responsibility, rape statistics show that 86% of violence directed against women come from men. how about doing something that can actually impact society positively by being a strong advocate against gender-based violence than bitchin about some imagined control you're losing. thank you. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by JohnsonEmma(m): 11:30pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Make her see reasons why u can't stop assisting ur mother but if she no agree, beat her well well. God forbide say I use my MAMA play. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by SirShymexx: 11:31pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
50calibre: Lol. I hear that. The white knights done mess up the game, but they still ain't getting pu.ssy - and even when they get it, someone else is always sharing it with them. I honestly can't deal with these folks, trust me. Pu.ssy is the most powerful weapon women have...once you negate it, they'll ultimately become weak. That's what a lot of guys don't understand. And you can never make women happy - pleasing them is a myth. Ain't no one got time for that shiit, there are too many chics out there looking to mingle. Why sell ya manhood to one? The system is just crazy. But there are always ways around it...you just have to be extremely careful and play ya cards right. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 11:32pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
MarieSucre: There is no sexism. Shut up with that bull.shit. |
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