Blackett:
I'm allergic to ugly people quoting me, and yours is a capital U. . . Fvck off!

Hahahaha..........(opposite)
Am very sure ur galfrnd has d worst look ever.

smithy90:

There is no next time for me I am done on relationships and I wont be trusting any one again

I believe this is just a lesson to you but the trust issue, that I don't know just follow your heart. It gonna be fine.

dahmie2013:

What is it u're saying dat is sweet in ur mouth? Sumone is trying 2 open ur eyes&u're still defending what is not. Haba! Can't u see u're d dumb one here? U're talking love&trust, are u a baby 2 know dat u shud use protectn? Let's see hw ur "love&trust" will save u 4rm ur predicament. MI don talk am, married men will be choping u ppl like biscuit. U sound like u're cool with it sef. All d best being a single mother.

I aint dumb,am I with his black arse no all I asked shud I try mek him see sense n support the baby I aint botha abt bein a single mum

[quote author=thorpido post=31202250]How do you want to make him see sense?You think you can convince a married man to leave his wife?
You better prepare yourself to carry that baby and raise the child alone.He might support you financially and he might not.
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No I aint trying to mek him leave his wife but all am saying can I get him to support baby.if not leave him be

smithy90:

Actually I didn't intend to get pregnant on purpose to marry me I dont marry that quickly to rush please you dont know me

But you were quick to get pregnant and ran to tell his wife.

I don't no you but am sure you don't no how to take care of yourself in terms of using contraceptive

You didn't tell us about the part of fast food, boutique, front seat and the recharge cards. Those things got into your head and you thought you can go away with a married man.

Fishbrain is your name.
Next time, get a responsible partner and build a future together instead of being a parasite

It's sure you cannot have him as husband,but do every necessary things for him to take care of the pregnancy and the child when delivered

Melahou:


But you were quick to get pregnant and ran to tell his wife.

I don't no you but am sure you don't no how to take care of yourself in terms of using contraceptive

How would you know I told his wife? I wasnt quick to get pregnant,i didnt know e was still married and with her,i wouldn't off known he had a wife still untill I got proof,i aint there to break,e lied to me I got pregnant e cant deal wiv it all I asked shud I mek him see sense I dnt want him n yh I shud off used contraceptive my own fault

ITbomb:
You didn't tell us about the part of fast food, boutique, front seat and the recharge cards. Those things got into your head and you thought you can go away with a married man.

Fishbrain is your name.
Next time, get a responsible partner and build a future together instead of being a parasite

lol,baba be gentle now.we know say awuf Don land her for wahala.yoruba will say "e ja kale eloroyo lo na,Kato fabo badiye" any body that can translate that in English u help the guy

ITbomb:
You didn't tell us about the part of fast food, boutique, front seat and the recharge cards. Those things got into your head and you thought you can go away with a married man.

Fishbrain is your name.
Next time, get a responsible partner and build a future together instead of being a parasite

Lol..ur funny,recharge cards lol am not even nigerian,i came on this site for advice,has tje farther is nigerian and e didnt give me muni or drive me ere there,infact he said was divorced dusnt mek me in wrong so he is the parasite not me so who are u to judge when u dont know any off the facts

smithy90:


How would you know I told his wife? I wasnt quick to get pregnant,i didnt know e was still married and with her,i wouldn't off known he had a wife still untill I got proof,i aint there to break,e lied to me I got pregnant e cant deal wiv it all I asked shud I mek him see sense I dnt want him n yh I shud off used contraceptive my own fault

There's no sense in making him see any sense...
Cos you don't expect him to leave his wife for you or take you in as a 2nd wife...
Or what sense are you referring to in your context

Ipledge:
It's sure you cannot have him as husband,but do every necessary things for him to take care of the pregnancy and the child when delivered

I dont want him has a husband and he doesnt want to know or support I cant bug him no more ive tried

Melahou:


There's no sense in making him see any sense...
Cos you don't expect him to leave his wife for you or take you in as a 2nd wife...
Or what sense are you referring to in your context

Well first thing if I knew he was still with his wife I would off broke it off,i dont want to be his wife or 2nd wife I dont want him at all,i dont believe in abortions but when I say sense I mean support pregnancy and be there for baby thats it

smithy90:


I dont want him has a husband and he doesnt want to know or support I cant bug him no more ive tried

what do you mean by U can't bug him?i guess you are financially ok to support your unborn child,if no please bug him

Ipledge:
what do you mean by U can't bug him?i guess you are financially ok to support your unborn child,if no please bug him

He said if I continur to ring or text,he will ignore me has I've broken his marridge,he doesn't want the baby its non off his business!! I don't even know if he beleives me but I am,I will be ok financially but still would like his support but he just change his numbers and this and that so then when baby finally here I won't even have his contact number to send his arse babys picture

smithy90:

Well first thing if I knew he was still with his wife I would off broke it off,i dont want to be his wife or 2nd wife I dont want him at all,i dont believe in abortions but when I say sense I mean support pregnancy and be there for baby thats it

And what after telling him and he says you should leave him out of it...
What'll you do

Leave the man alone. Don't bother him anymore. You made a mistake...live with it.

You are not Nigerian? So sad. Where are you from if I may ask?

You've learnt your lesson. Men sing different tune as soon as they get what they want. Wise up girl. Pick up the pieces and move on. So unfortunate.

Give your child the best of life. Do not abort. I repeat, do not abort. All the best.

smithy90:


He said if I continur to ring or text,he will ignore me has I've broken his marridge,he doesn't want the baby its non off his business!! I don't even know if he beleives me but I am,I will be ok financially but still would like his support but he just change his numbers and this and that so then when baby finally here I won't even have his contact number to send his arse babys picture

if you financially ok,you can move on for now don't expect any emotional support from him,but trust me he is coming back

Melahou:


And what after telling him and he says you should leave him out of it...
What'll you do

Yes he don't doesn't want to know,none off his business the pregnancy isn't for him!
I guess I just move on and just carry on as normal,I will not beg for him to be there I give up on him

Na wa o... Nairalanders could be harsh... People calling her fool... Dumbass etc... no one is above silly mistakes.

... Eh.. Aunty, pele, buh u can't find help here as it seems. quietly think of what to do urself.

Ipledge:
if you financially ok,you can move on for now don't expect any emotional support from him,but trust me he is coming back

I am moving on! I don't care about money a child needs love and sometimes mothers do need help support etc and I don't want him to come back,what makes you say that? I can't say no if he wants to know his child but honeslty he has messed up

sanbells:
Na wa o... Nairalanders could be harsh... People calling her fool... Dumbass etc... no one is above silly mistakes.

... Eh.. Aunty, pele, buh u can't find help here as it seems. quietly think of what to do urself.

I know harsh I only came for advice really and I will

Caracta:
Leave the man alone. Don't bother him anymore. You made a mistake...live with it.

You are not Nigerian? So sad. Where are you from if I may ask?

You've learnt your lesson. Men sing different tune as soon as they get what they want. Wise up girl. Pick up the pieces and move on. So unfortunate.

Give your child the best of life. Do not abort. I repeat, do not abort. All the best.

I learn from this! Yes not nigerian,I am half jamaican/british but I don't see myself british I was born in uk but don't live up to britsh culture! Mixed white n black,jamaican background,oh I think I will be movin on and I will give child best off life and don't worry I will not be aborting this child is a gift from god to me even know what's happened

What a pity young lady,but honestly guys are fund of lies.you marry and you spoil someone's life ,say the true if a girl like you she wil date you for whom you are.wel young lady my advice for you is that never go for abortions it may end your life,but get something doing ,keep the baby for yourself a day is coming that he wil look for you n care for your baby I bet you,.be cool and dnt worry him again he has already denied you but as I said earlier he wil look for u Cs that baby you are caring is a baby that wil make you proud,make you happy for the rest of your life

smithy90:


I learn from this! Yes not nigerian,I am half jamaican/british but I don't see myself british I was born in uk but don't live up to britsh culture! Mixed white n black,jamaican background,oh I think I will be movin on and I will give child best off life and don't worry I will not be aborting this child is a gift from god to me even know what's happened

Good. You sound very young. I just hope you can take care of this child. Are your parents willing to support you? You mentioned speaking to a family member of the guy. Is he/she aware of your present state? Do you have a job or good source of income?

So far, I think you are handling this well. You don't seem bitter about it. Being a single mom is probably not a big deal where you come from unlike here.

So dear, let your parents be involved. Stay healthy. I wish you safe delivery.

congrats nd good for u.

Wait, are you still pregnant?

smithy90:


I learn from this! Yes not nigerian,I am half jamaican/british but I don't see myself british I was born in uk but don't live up to britsh culture! Mixed white n black,jamaican background,oh I think I will be movin on and I will give child best off life and don't worry I will not be aborting this child is a gift from god to me even know what's happened

Hmm. I'm humbled.
Sorry for my earlier harsh words, you were right, I ran into conclusion without knowing the facts.

Be strong. Don't bother him if he wants it so but just keep the contacts of the man in case the child start asking questions. No matter your grievance, the kid deserve to know if he/she wants to know

Olomubj:
What a pity young lady,but honestly guys are fund of lies.you marry and you spoil someone's life ,say the true if a girl like you she wil date you for whom you are.wel young lady my advice for you is that never go for abortions it may end your life,but get something doing ,keep the baby for yourself a day is coming that he wil look for you n care for your baby I bet you,.be cool and dnt worry him again he has already denied you but as I said earlier he wil look for u Cs that baby you are caring is a baby that wil make you proud,make you happy for the rest of your life

Thank you I don't look to abort I am already in love with my child am actually happy I won't let this fool stress me but if he does want to know his child I wouldn't stop him has so many children without mothers and farthers and I know what it feels like

ITbomb:

Hmm. I'm humbled.
Sorry for my earlier harsh words, you were right, I ran into conclusion without knowing the facts.

Be strong. Don't bother him if he wants it so but just keep the contacts of the man in case the child start asking questions. No matter your grievance, the kid deserve to know if he/she wants to know

Its ok I've only got his numbers which am sure he change,I don't know if he still wants to know but am gunna send him the scan pic or even better the babys pic when he she born,I wouldn't stop the child from knowing she/has rights,but atleast I can say your farther knew you was born he didn't want to know but here his info

anwo247:
Wait, are you still pregnant?

Yes still pregnant got months to go till my baby born why

Caracta:


Good. You sound very young. I just hope you can take care of this child. Are your parents willing to support you? You mentioned speaking to a family member of the guy. Is he/she aware of your present state? Do you have a job or good source of income?

So far, I think you are handling this well. You don't seem bitter about it. Being a single mom is probably not a big deal where you come from unlike here.

So dear, let your parents be involved. Stay healthy. I wish you safe delivery.

Am young yes 25,I have a good income and just my mum family and friends oh I'll cope with baby! Not really single mums in uk do get slated but I don't care for what people say really there business not mine,and thank you