Midehi:

yea

Onozboy:
whatever

lrguru:
sir, ur comment is at par with his own cos u have not said anythin either.

worriedmom:
Hello Everyone,

Please this post is strictly for mothers. I need your kind advice and counsel. I am a mother of two. I have this very disturbing condition. My breasts have become fully sagged and frail looking after I had my second baby. It worries me a lot. My Husband does not bother touching or sucking my breasts when making love to me these days, not to talk of sucking them. And this is what he used to love and enjoy doing before I started having and nursing kids.

Please I'd like to know if any lady in the house has experienced such drastic sagging and if there are ways to revive the fallen breasts. Are there moms out there that their husbands have stopped caressing their bosoms because they have fallen due to constant nursing of babies? does it make you feel bad like me? Have you ever raised such issue with your husband?

Also, my husband used to go down low, but after he witnessed the delivery process in the labour room when I had my second child, he has stopped going down low. I'm just soo worried my people. Please any advice from moms and maybe dads will really be helpful to me. Thank you


I created a new profile to hide my identity cos I'm one of the regular contributors to the forum.

shadowgwalker:
pray and fast!

Sophyrocks:


Woow. You're pretty.

Sophyrocks:
Op, from the very first pregnancy you had, you could have started wearing push up bras and push up bras only even while breastfeeding!!! Infact, every young lady should do that right from their teens down till the end of time. It seems your b00bs have more fat than tissues. If you had more tissues, your b00bs wouldnt have fallen that fast. If you had more fat, whenever you loose weight, your b00bs could shrink. It also had to do with how your b00bs looked even before you got married.

Regardless of anything, Start wearing push up bras even while breastfeeding and do exercises that target the b00bs. I hope you dnt tie wrapper round your chest. If you do that often, stop it!! Buy those baby straps or pouches used in carrying babies instead. Make sure they are tight enough to securely carry your child.

Wearing the bras will make it look at least presentable to the eyes. Invest more in buying sexier underwears and bras to cover up your imperfections. Have it in mind that this isnt your fault except men want women to stop giving birth and breastfeeding to avoid it. Some women are blessed with pointed b00bs while others are not. Every woman is different in anatomy. Fallen b00bs are usually found in women who are really endowed and the weight of the boobs could pull them down coupled with breastfeeding. Anyways, just do what you gotta do. If you aint still satisfied, go for b00bs augmentation if you can afford it.

As for your 'Down below", try kegel exercises and very good personal hygiene. Avoid douching and take lots of fruits. avoid the use of medicated soap down below.

elantraceey:


Don't you know when to joke?

shadowgwalker:
pray and fast!

Evina:
Do you workout? Make sure to use a really good bra when you do. Also, I KNOW that push ups helps to tone the muscles around the breasts, giving it a perkier appearance. Use Shea butter, if you have stretch marks.

Well, some of the price we pay for motherhood.

zed7:
Lol. Shakara don end. Next thread might be hubby caught with a teenager with pointed breasts.
Go for surgery, that's the only option. Funny how women fall apart after having kids. Yet dem go say women equal to men.

5minsmadness:

Follow your own advice.


And kindly keep off my lane.

Sophyrocks:


Nope. Scroll down and read.

solreb:
As a married man for 16 years with my first child being 15, what you are experiencing is typical normal. My wife toyed with the idea of surgery after giving birth to children, our last born is 5 years old. Probably because of church teaching (because our church teaches issues like this regularly), I have never stopped sucking or caressing them because I know it is the price she had to pay as a mother as they were not like that before. In fact I always look forward to her unclothedness to touch those boobs which her called my "assets". I am a boobs man. While you try other advice given, please do pray about it. There is nothing prayers cannot do.

henribj:
but seriously i am surprised at nairalanders, days were when people could come to NL and post issues bothering them and they would be sure to see at least 80-90% positive advice from fellow NLanders, but these days all i see is people criticizing each other, fighting eAch other, laughing at issues which honestly bother the Op.
The Op here has posted about something which truly worries her, if you have a good advice to give her pls do, if you don't then don't bother commenting, and if the story amuses you and you feel like laughing out loud, then do it but don't type it on her post. These are issues which if na USA now, Op for fit don go commit suicide. We africans need to help and support one another instead of seeing another persons issue as a source of amusement to ourselves.
Op unfortunately i do not have an advice to give to you seeing as i am a man, but would it be so bad if you sat your husband down and talked about this?

lrguru:
yip. Saw the other post later, but I mean on the particular comment I quoted. Lovely post anyways

worriedmom:
Hello Everyone,

Please this post is strictly for mothers. I need your kind advice and counsel. I am a mother of two. I have this very disturbing condition. My breasts have become fully sagged and frail looking after I had my second baby. It worries me a lot. My Husband does not bother touching or sucking my breasts when making love to me these days, not to talk of sucking them. And this is what he used to love and enjoy doing before I started having and nursing kids.

Please I'd like to know if any lady in the house has experienced such drastic sagging and if there are ways to revive the fallen breasts. Are there moms out there that their husbands have stopped caressing their bosoms because they have fallen due to constant nursing of babies? does it make you feel bad like me? Have you ever raised such issue with your husband?

Also, my husband used to go down low, but after he witnessed the delivery process in the labour room when I had my second child, he has stopped going down low. I'm just soo worried my people. Please any advice from moms and maybe dads will really be helpful to me. Thank you

I created a new profile to hide my identity cos I'm one of the regular contributors to the forum.

adioolayi:


Good...Where you dey ..quiet a while

somegirl1:


If the breasts never need to depend on these ligaments, no problem. I wear a bra circa 23hrs per day.

somegirl1:
Surgery might be the only physical option.
I'm so scared of my breasts falling, I wear a bra all the time.

edwife:


Do you know me?

I assure you that i am far from having such problem ,fitness is my second name.....

5minsmadness:

Follow your own advice.


And kindly keep off my lane.