Permit me to say,its depends on the shape of your bosom if its the type that will fall after giving birth to a specific number of kids notwithstanding the amount of shea butter used nothing'll change.But I love this thread sha its a kind of educating. My advice to the male nairalanders is that we should learn to love our wives after all,the bosom was firm and pointed not until we fond and suck it and what makes it fall is for our interest which is our kids(the outcome of funding and sucking)its better we accept them(our wives)and we can also help them by consulting medical professionals with the technical know how.pls don't mind my write up(english) its far from been good.

Sophyrocks:


Woow. You're pretty.

And you believed her.
Smdh.

Women and complains

Visit a VULCANIZER any time it falls.... That's the cheapest way of making it fit and independent....lol
If you try am ehn? Nah woman-man you go turn to with six packs...ahahahahahahahahahahahahah

lovat:
boy, try the next poster to chat with, I don't talk with kids, I know this is your alternate moniker

well i wnt trade words with an old sch rather.

fact:drink alot of sperm from Mouth Action.. ask my gf

elantraceey:


Is it everyone that have enough finance for that and moreover since when is it wrong to share ones problems?

There's no local remedy if that's what the op is looking for on nairaland.
B reast must sag after sucking.
Maybe she shouldn't v b reast fed her 2 kids.
Last Bullet
Make she gather money travel go abroad for surgery if she's tired of slippers b reast!

femi4:
Don't mind me...I was looking for a way to get your attention

Really? now that i have,what can i do for you?

Khabuqi:
Go for bweast augmentation.

Decide whether or not you're going to have another kid before you do this.
I'm

worriedmom:
Hello Everyone,

Please this post is strictly for mothers. I need your kind advice and counsel. I am a mother of two. I have this very disturbing condition. My breasts have become fully sagged and frail looking after I had my second baby. It worries me a lot. My Husband does not bother touching or sucking my breasts when making love to me these days, not to talk of sucking them. And this is what he used to love and enjoy doing before I started having and nursing kids.

Please I'd like to know if any lady in the house has experienced such drastic sagging and if there are ways to revive the fallen breasts. Are there moms out there that their husbands have stopped caressing their bosoms because they have fallen due to constant nursing of babies? does it make you feel bad like me? Have you ever raised such issue with your husband?

Also, my husband used to go down low, but after he witnessed the delivery process in the labour room when I had my second child, he has stopped going down low. I'm just soo worried my people. Please any advice from moms and maybe dads will really be helpful to me. Thank you

I created a new profile to hide my identity cos I'm one of the regular contributors to the forum.

As a married man for 16 years with my first child being 15, what you are experiencing is typical normal. My wife toyed with the idea of surgery after giving birth to children, our last born is 5 years old. Probably because of church teaching (because our church teaches issues like this regularly), I have never stopped sucking or caressing them because I know it is the price she had to pay as a mother as they were not like that before. In fact I always look forward to her unclothedness to touch those boobs which her called my "assets". I am a boobs man. While you try other advice given, please do pray about it. There is nothing prayers cannot do

seriously, walkout will help and press-up will perform wonders as someone post earlier. i know you may find it difficult to do, but start by doing 5 every morning, afternoon and evening. increase it by 1 every two days till you will be able to do 20 each time. this will truly help you. trust me

Same thing applies to my wife, sagged b**bs well that part of life. I will not disown her or show some kind of....what is happening to her but i encourage u to kip trying if diaz a possible solution to it then get it. But as for me only d boobs demaralize me somtymz. I take it as nature since in cannot fix d b**bs myself afterall our mothers have sagged boobs n our dads kip loving dem till date, why can't we adopt same? My sister talk to him n he will surely listen. My candid advice though

pbs4real:
u luk cute in dt dp.

chai!! oh my ... thank you

Olufemiolaolu:
U dey form holy right? with dat naked pics on ur dp that I like so much. U need me you know

hahaha!!!leave me ooh.

ibe9ja:
Remember, if u lose weight, your b.reasts and buttocks can become sagged. If this is ur case try gaining some weight.

best advice so far.

Op,gain more weight if you're skinny. It will help resurrect your brreasts.

Choi!!!!....Olympus has fallen 3!!!.......but dry bones shall surely rise again

Guruboi:

You look cute in ur dp ooo. will you marry me?

hell no!! we are online, we don't know ourselves. thanks for liking me sha

MzJackBaueress:
best advice so far.

Op,gain more weight if you're skinny. It will help resurrect your brreasts.

I like your photo.

5minsmadness:


Alright bae, alright.
I realise you've missed me, this one you've been following my ass up and down all day, but I've been real busy at work, no time to give u the attention you crave so much.

You sure have a strange way of showing ur love but I get it and I acknowledge your presence.


P.s its none of your business whether i sound like a broken record or jim carey's fart. Its a free forum, not your personal diary. If u don't like d comment, jump am pass.
Or better yet click 'like' instead of jealousying my posts.
Tanchu.

You must think you are in the romance section.

A mother comes here to say her body changes brought about by childbirth is affecting her sex life and you are posting trash.

If a thread is over your head/level, leave it to people who have advice to give the OP.

Not every thread is a joke.

henribj:
but seriously i am surprised at nairalanders, days were when people could come to NL and post issues bothering them and they would be sure to see at least 80-90% positive advice from fellow NLanders, but these days all i see is people criticizing each other, fighting eAch other, laughing at issues which honestly bother the Op.
The Op here has posted about something which truly worries her, if you have a good advice to give her pls do, if you don't then don't bother commenting, and if the story amuses you and you feel like laughing out loud, then do it but don't type it on her post. These are issues which if na USA now, Op for fit don go commit suicide. We africans need to help and support one another instead of seeing another persons issue as a source of amusement to ourselves.
Op unfortunately i do not have an advice to give to you seeing as i am a man, but would it be so bad if you sat your husband down and talked about this?

Thank you my bro, it is just too annoying the level of childishness and insensitivity expressed on this platform, i really love to lend my ideas to topics once in a while, but when i see what people do here, i feel so bad and i withdraw back, it all boils down to the poor administration of the site, comments should be scrutinised before been posted so as to seperate the useful ones from the non constructive, but who knows why they allow the trend to go on unchecked. To the topic, i read somewhere one time that the use of Avocado is good for the firmness of the bosom, you can just mash it into like a puree and use it as a massage,also herbs like thyme and jojoba oil are said to be useful too. Exercising is also important, the likes of chin up and press up can help tighten the muscles of those areas. All the best.

shadowgwalker:
hahaha!!!leave me ooh.

U misquoted me, if i catch you. i ll exhaust ur grease

Khabuqi:
Go for bweast augmentation.

or bweast alignment.

DonaldGenes:


Prof Evina, iSalute

I salute you more sir.

bukatyne:


You must think you are in the romance section.

A mother comes here to say her body changes brought about by childbirth is affecting her sex life and you are posting trash.

If a thread is over your head/level, leave it to people who have advice to give the OP.

Not every thread is a joke.

That 'trash' just got 33likes. Now go and hang yourself

@OP, u dont av to be worried atall about ur sagged boobs. Every one dat hs made a cmment has tried to advice u one way or d other but d best thing for u to do is to talk wit ur MAN and let him knw how much its borderin u d way he has been beglecting ur bosoms...trust me he will come around.




Please take note dat he(ur hubby) too may be suprised nd due to dat he dosent knw how to handle it. So let him knw u still need his touch there(ur b..bs) nd u will support him whenever he wants to try it again.



God will see u through.

henribj:


hahahaha, true talk o. a lot of them when they wan connect to internet, them go drop them brain and pick up them modem and plug into them pc.

i swear, u damn curret,no wonder them say 58% of nigerians are insane. .

shadowgwalker:
chai!! oh my ... thank you

talk tru shey nah u be dat?

I'm happy that you concerned about your body after becoming a mum, only tiny fraction of African women really care. Firsly, I'll advise that you talk to your hubby over it and stop assuming.
Secondly, get some original shear butter (ori) or ora ere and start massaging your boobs with it morning and night.
While applying the ointment, make sure you keep lifting your boobs up or in whatever direction you want it to point.
Ensure that you wear push up bra after every massage then take note of the difference in about 2-3 months.
You could even take a snap shot of the present state and compare it in a couple of months. I'm talking from experience.
However, in your quest for getting your boobs pointed DO NOT go
For some crazy stuffs they sell aroound to avoid cancer. After all it is better to have sagging booobs than a cancerous ones.
As per your hubby's refusal to give u a head after watching you give birth, it is just a psychological thing and perhaps your own personal hygene. Keep making your honey pot
Always clean, clean shave and get some feminine intimate cream that will keep you smelling tantalising to him.
Having done all these, its a matter of time before oga will resume back to his office.
You could also withdraw for sometime by travelling of feighning some prayer and fasting stuffs just in d bid to make him miss his treasure islands. All the best.

worriedmom:


Hellooo. I should wear push up bras while having s.ex Even if I do, hubby will still have to reach in and touch the b.reasts na, not so



I work out my dear. All other parts of my body are fine, just the b.reasts. my tummy is flat, my waist is slim, my laps are firm, but the b.reasts?? smh. I had stretch marks even before i got married but even with the marks, I still had firm boobs until i started b.reastfeeding. I will use the shea butter and start push up exercises like you suggested. thanks a lot. Please on another note, did u experience same sagged boobs after nursing your babies?? Did u find it worrisome? I just want to know if I'm alone in this, or if other mothers have same experience.



Thanks for your encouragement. I'm seriously considering talking it over with him. But before that, I'd like to get some tips from ladies in the same shoes so I can handle the situation better. Thanks for being kind enough to reprimand those laughing at my precarious situation.

pics please so i can knw wot remedy to recomend 4 you.......dif strokes 4 dif folks

I knw u already no need to hide ur identity......

What bout those with naturally flat bosoms? Those kind that went south right from adolescence?

Talk to your man and quit griping about things that don't matter.

worriedmom:
Hello Everyone,

Please this post is strictly for mothers. I need your kind advice and counsel. I am a mother of two. I have this very disturbing condition. My breasts have become fully sagged and frail looking after I had my second baby. It worries me a lot. My Husband does not bother touching or sucking my breasts when making love to me these days, not to talk of sucking them. And this is what he used to love and enjoy doing before I started having and nursing kids.

Please I'd like to know if any lady in the house has experienced such drastic sagging and if there are ways to revive the fallen breasts. Are there moms out there that their husbands have stopped caressing their bosoms because they have fallen due to constant nursing of babies? does it make you feel bad like me? Have you ever raised such issue with your husband?

Also, my husband used to go down low, but after he witnessed the delivery process in the labour room when I had my second child, he has stopped going down low. I'm just soo worried my people. Please any advice from moms and maybe dads will really be helpful to me. Thank you

I created a new profile to hide my identity cos I'm one of the regular contributors to the forum.

How i wish everyone would demand that you use your real identity before any solutions can be offered. Must you fake your identity cos of this?