5minsmadness:

OMG I just figured it out

[size=15pt]Bukatyne is the op!
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Damn ma'm you should av just said so from the beginning! So you are scared hubby is going to be lookin outside now that your br.eas.ts r looking like old unripe plantain
No wonder u were so pissed! Am sorry, am taking down that first post now!

But I didn't mean to offend ma'm seriously there is nothing u can do about it at this point. The only thing is to have faith that your husband loves more than just your bre.ast.s, he loves your whole person! You cant be young forever and neither can he! So when next u r having sex, remind him that you used to enjoy it when he sucked your brea..st like so and am sure he'll oblige u and do it again. Don't assume! Sex is not just about pleasing yourself, its about pleasing your partner! He'll be happy to suck it if he knows its what u like!


All the best hun!

Of course I am the OP...

I must be a magician to have two kids in one year of married life who are not twins.

Since you do not want to stay on your level, kindly tell us...

What made your dad marry your mom

If her boobs are still perky and If no, How daddy coped.

Waiting for your replies, it might help the OP sorry me.

RedBenson:


That body for real and available?

if I slap you ehn...

Put ur hands in a prayer position and press hard do 4 or 5 times

Prixus:

U r obviously still a kid. a woman's marriage is sexually suffering and u say it doesn't matter?

Yes, I'm 16 years old.

I repeat, she's griping about things that don't matter. You want to change what you have no power to change??

Her husband's ish with her punny is pyschological. Have you been in a labour room before? If you have then you'll understand where he is coming from.

The destiny of every woman's boob is south bound. No need crying over it.

worriedmom:


Hellooo. I should wear push up bras while having s.ex Even if I do, hubby will still have to reach in and touch the b.reasts na, not so



I work out my dear. All other parts of my body are fine, just the b.reasts. my tummy is flat, my waist is slim, my laps are firm, but the b.reasts?? smh. I had stretch marks even before i got married but even with the marks, I still had firm boobs until i started b.reastfeeding. I will use the shea butter and start push up exercises like you suggested. thanks a lot. Please on another note, did u experience same sagged boobs after nursing your babies?? Did u find it worrisome? I just want to know if I'm alone in this, or if other mothers have same experience.



Thanks for your encouragement. I'm seriously considering talking it over with him. But before that, I'd like to get some tips from ladies in the same shoes so I can handle the situation better. Thanks for being kind enough to reprimand those laughing at my precarious situation.

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You better skip pushups from your routines as that would leave you with a hunch and make you feel even worse than you were by disrupting the natural allignment of your shoulder, which is back and down.

Pushups would merely work your pecs major and minor but weaken your very important abductor muscles such as the rhomboids and trapezius, giving you a forward shoulder posture.

Every workout routine needs to be compresensive so as to ballance both the extensor and abductor muscles and not strengthen one group of muscles to the detriment of the other.

A lot of our daily routines already exert enourmous pressure on our postural muscles and you do not add pushup to this burden, except your trying to be barrel chested.

I would stop worrying about breasts and worry more about your overall fitness if I were you by doing some trapezius raises, front and back squats alongside other abs workout to give you a rock-hard lean, yet sexy frame.

[quote author=worriedmom post=31231549]Hello Everyone,

Please this post is strictly for mothers. I need your kind advice and counsel. I am a mother of two. I have this very disturbing condition. My breasts have become fully sagged and frail looking after I had my second baby. It worries me a lot. My Husband does not bother touching or sucking my breasts when making love to me these days, not to talk of sucking them. And this is what he used to love and enjoy doing before I started having and nursing kids.

Please I'd like to know if any lady in the house has experienced such drastic sagging and if there are ways to revive the fallen breasts. Are there moms out there that their husbands have stopped caressing their bosoms because they have fallen due to constant nursing of babies? does it make you feel bad like me? Have you ever raised such issue with your husband?

Also, my husband used to go down low, but after he witnessed the delivery process in the labour room when I had my second child, he has stopped going down low. I'm just soo worried my people. Please any advice from moms and maybe dads will really be helpful to me. Thank you

I created a new profile to hide my identity cos I'm one of the regular contributors to the forum.[/quote Am nursing my 4th one, now I don't remove my clothes infront pf my husband, my bosom looks so ugly, am as confused as u are now

hmmmmmmm they need to do press ups

Ishilove:


The destiny of every woman's boob is south bound. No need crying over it.

This is 'wickedly' funny.

OP, I think that you should discuss this concern with your spouse. Honest communication can make a difference. It may also make you less self - conscious.

You never know, you might have compensated him with other things without knowing it.

Evina:


What is wrong with you?
Don't you have cartoons to watch or homework to do?

That child might be on the pikin category, they don't watch cartoons nor homeworks to do.

Back to the Issue!
NL mums should pls profer effective solutions which actually worked for them.

byrron:


That child might be on the pikin category, they don't watch cartoons nor homeworks to do.

Back to the Issue!
NL mums should pls profer effective solutions which actually worked for them.

true talk.

Madam, it is a natural thing. My advice: pls dont be bothered about dat cos d greatest luv of all is loving oneself. D fact dat ya man is no longer touching them doesnt mean his luv 4 u has faded. Talk it thru wit him. Woman is like a flower and i believe ya man knows dat too. Be happy

worriedmom:
Hello Everyone,

Please this post is strictly for mothers. I need your kind advice and counsel. I am a mother of two. I have this very disturbing condition. My breasts have become fully sagged and frail looking after I had my second baby. It worries me a lot. My Husband does not bother touching or sucking my breasts when making love to me these days, not to talk of sucking them. And this is what he used to love and enjoy doing before I started having and nursing kids.

Please I'd like to know if any lady in the house has experienced such drastic sagging and if there are ways to revive the fallen breasts. Are there moms out there that their husbands have stopped caressing their bosoms because they have fallen due to constant nursing of babies? does it make you feel bad like me? Have you ever raised such issue with your husband?

Also, my husband used to go down low, but after he witnessed the delivery process in the labour room when I had my second child, he has stopped going down low. I'm just soo worried my people. Please any advice from moms and maybe dads will really be helpful to me. Thank you

I created a new profile to hide my identity cos I'm one of the regular contributors to the forum.

Egusi may Actually work ,even though I have added a little weight I won't say its the only reason my boobs have become firmer a bigger.........and I know these days I hardly consume any other soup apart from egusi.........so there may be a correlation

shadowgwalker:
hell no!! we are online, we don't know ourselves. thanks for liking me sha

It seems that the mod added "will u marry me" in my statement ooo.

MzJackBaueress:
if I slap you ehn...

Why u wan slap me naw? D hips (body shape) make sense no be lie. I wan feel am small abeg. Available?

I can feel ur problem, spk to a dietician ASAP
Eat well, have a positive mind and love ur
Ur look and ur body. Then spk with ur husband.

Lightening:
Dr. 90210 to the rescue.

I advise ladies to breastfeed their babies with wisdom, but those exclusive mums think others love their babies less. I wonder how many of the high flyers across the globe had 6 months exclusive breastfeeding. There is life after child bearing and firm boobs are a big turn-on for men. Smart ladies think ahead.

that was because u don't know the benefit of exclusive breast feeding because if u do ur boobs sagging will be secondary

Just a general remark about a widely spread misunderstanding..

The observed changes in mother's breasts have nothing to do with breastfeeding but have everything to do with the hormonal changes that take place in the mammary glands during the pregnancy. Even women who don't nurse their baby will go through the same changes in their breasts after their first pregnancy. Not breastfeeding to avoid it is senseless.

The breasts of a woman who has not given birth before are not fully developed yet. Hence the differences...

PS: Maybe you can try to explain to your husband this physiology of the female body and how these changes make you feel. Make him part of the journey of your body through motherhood and all the emotions that go with it. Hopefully he will start admiring your hero motherhood signs, your imperfections as trophies!

zed7:
Lol. Shakara don end. Next thread might be hubby caught with a teenager with pointed breasts.
Go for surgery, that's the only option. Funny how women fall apart after having kids. Yet dem go say women equal to men.

try pushing out a baby. Not only will your non existent breastts fall, you may not service it. Yea women are not equal to men. In that regard, women are superior.

My dear, what is here is that you cannot cheat nature. It is natural because of your natural body structure. There is nothing you can do to chance it unless breast surgery and implant of silicon which I will never recommend for you. Rather your husband should be blamed for his action towards you. He should man up and stop making you feel inferior because you have paid the price of giving out your bossom to the comfort and upbringing of his children.

The whole problem is as a result of your husband's attitude hence you feel bad. Talk to him and try as much as keeping fit.Also try to keep to your own side of making sure you S3x him hard so that he will still know that you have not lost your original form while performing.

zed7:
Lol. Shakara don end. Next thread might be hubby caught with a teenager with pointed breasts.
Go for surgery, that's the only option. Funny how women fall apart after having kids. Yet dem go say women equal to men.

Go have a kid and lets see how firm your body will stand. Instead of being thankful for the beauty our moms have to give up in order to nurse and nourish us to health you are busy competing with Women. Abegi, just thank God for your life and thank God for the strength he gave to our women who love and care for their kids. E nor easy o.

The solution nay be hard to follow sha. Best solution is to wear a bra 24/7. It worked for someone I know. Start before having kids for better results.
Second solution is to go for boob job.

Guruboi:

It seems that the mod added "will u marry me" in my statement ooo.

don't mind them.

baye2023:
Why one earth did i check shadowgwalker profile? *spits* *eeewww* *iyama* *vomits*

I don't know sef.

morganist99:
hw can a sane human being(lady)put such an atrocious picture in ur dp

I'm just wondering too oh.

i have a cream that can help you have a firm breast, it from thailand contact 07030115524

worriedmom:


Hellooo. I should wear push up bras while having s.ex Even if I do, hubby will still have to reach in and touch the b.reasts na, not so



I work out my dear. All other parts of my body are fine, just the b.reasts. my tummy is flat, my waist is slim, my laps are firm, but the b.reasts?? smh. I had stretch marks even before i got married but even with the marks, I still had firm boobs until i started b.reastfeeding. I will use the shea butter and start push up exercises like you suggested. thanks a lot. Please on another note, did u experience same sagged boobs after nursing your babies?? Did u find it worrisome? I just want to know if I'm alone in this, or if other mothers have same experience.



Thanks for your encouragement. I'm seriously considering talking it over with him. But before that, I'd like to get some tips from ladies in the same shoes so I can handle the situation better. Thanks for being kind enough to reprimand those laughing at my precarious situation.

dont ever try that.unless u want to kill his ego.re u going to start telling him y he is no lnger going dwn on u nd d issue of bosom.my dear believe me if u do dt.it will only get worse nd also u will finally kill dt ego.i have experience dz type of thngz.d key is to package urself.upgrade urself use hot romantic perfume.use push up bra even though it's shws evrythngz in d bedroom.alwaz wear high hills look nd act more sexy dan before including d way u work.believe he will crave to do all doze thngz.remembet dt u re trying to build up his ego.and it's cn be achieve with ur appearance nd behaviour.nt by talking to him.d moment u start doing all dz he will notice u and add up more flavour nd u will see d result.dont talk abt dz issue with him cox its cn neva change it.believe me these are nt mearnt to be disscuss ur seduction does all thnkz.

shadowgwalker:
I won't say

talk or. . . . .:-/

shadowgwalker:
I'm just wondering too oh.

hahaha, u dis gal,u ve signed ooh.

uzolexis:

the husband should also understand that. They are also his kids for christ sake. she's worried about her b00bs cos of her hubby,he should still appreciate her and do what makes her happy in bed no matter what,she didnt get herself pregnant......arggghhhh

my dear it's nt a duty.4christsake my wife cant tell me wt to do to her in bed.i will loose dt ego dt moment she told me.

Ishilove:

Yes, I'm 16 years old.

I repeat, she's griping about things that don't matter. You want to change what you have no power to change??

Her husband's ish with her punny is pyschological. Have you been in a labour room before? If you have then you'll understand where he is coming from.

The destiny of every woman's boob is south bound. No need crying over it.

Thankyou!

booket:
my dear it's nt a duty.4christsake my wife cant tell me wt to do to her in bed.i will loose dt ego dt moment she told me.

My dear it is ur duty 2 satisfy ur partner in bed. Husbands should satisfy their wives n wives should satisfy their husband.
What is wrong in ur wife telling u what 2 do 2 her She knows what mks her happy more cos it's her body, there's also nothing wrong in u telling ur wife what u want her 2 do in bed....

let me see a picture and will be able to prescribe a remedy