ayyoshert:

Thank you my bro, it is just too annoying the level of childishness and insensitivity expressed on this platform, i really love to lend my ideas to topics once in a while, but when i see what people do here, i feel so bad and i withdraw back, it all boils down to the poor administration of the site, comments should be scrutinised before been posted so as to seperate the useful ones from the non constructive, but who knows why they allow the trend to go on unchecked. To the topic, i read somewhere one time that the use of Avocado is good for the firmness of the bosom, you can just mash it into like a puree and use it as a massage,also herbs like thyme and jojoba oil are said to be useful too. Exercising is also important, the likes of chin up and press up can help tighten the muscles of those areas. All the best.

mima247:
actually many mothers are guilty of using cloth wrappers to carry their kids on their back... this cn depress boob muscles... i think ur hubbys having avoidance issues ... on d issue of going down on u.. u should have allowed him see a childs head coming out from ur vajayjay.....its a serious turn off for them.....instead of using wrapper ,use a baby ktan or meitai.... gives d same protection to d child @no cost to ur boobs

booket:
dont ever try that.unless u want to kill his ego.re u going to start telling him y he is no lnger going dwn on u nd d issue of bosom.my dear believe me if u do dt.it will only get worse nd also u will finally kill dt ego.i have experience dz type of thngz.d key is to package urself.upgrade urself use hot romantic perfume.use push up bra even though it's shws evrythngz in d bedroom.alwaz wear high hills look nd act more sexy dan before including d way u work.believe he will crave to do all doze thngz.remembet dt u re trying to build up his ego.and it's cn be achieve with ur appearance nd behaviour.nt by talking to him.d moment u start doing all dz he will notice u and add up more flavour nd u will see d result.dont talk abt dz issue with him cox its cn neva change it.believe me these are nt mearnt to be disscuss ur seduction does all thnkz.

Ishilove:
What bout those with naturally flat bosoms? Those kind that went south right from adolescence?

Talk to your man and quit griping about things that don't matter.

SAMBARRY:
So many men with the brain of 10 year olds.as if they don't know it's nature

Sophyrocks:

sambarry sambarry why na? you wan make these dudes for this thread self-service their lives out?

Sophyrocks:

sambarry sambarry why na? you wan make these dudes for this thread self-service their lives out?

elantraceey:


Don't you know when to joke?

irishCream:
Chaiii...mkpo aba ke nairaland oh

shadowgwalker:
pray and fast!

mobuch:


Go to a vulcaniser and pump it asap.

Goodkidd:



Fool.

Champella:


Kap neke sak imam ado yak uyuko fien mokop. Kap toyo ke afo ado owowan o (

worriedmom:


Hellooo. I should wear push up bras while having s.ex Even if I do, hubby will still have to reach in and touch the b.reasts na, not so



I work out my dear. All other parts of my body are fine, just the b.reasts. my tummy is flat, my waist is slim, my laps are firm, but the b.reasts?? smh. I had stretch marks even before i got married but even with the marks, I still had firm boobs until i started b.reastfeeding. I will use the shea butter and start push up exercises like you suggested. thanks a lot. Please on another note, did u experience same sagged boobs after nursing your babies?? Did u find it worrisome? I just want to know if I'm alone in this, or if other mothers have same experience.



Thanks for your encouragement. I'm seriously considering talking it over with him. But before that, I'd like to get some tips from ladies in the same shoes so I can handle the situation better. Thanks for being kind enough to reprimand those laughing at my precarious situation.
I've also nursed two babies and my boobs are still firm like before oo maybe it's your body nature

[quote author=Chillisauce post=31241727]Edwife don suffer

irunoko:

edwife:


What is this?

worriedmom:
Hello Everyone,

Please this post is strictly for mothers. I need your kind advice and counsel. I am a mother of two. I have this very disturbing condition. My breasts have become fully sagged and frail looking after I had my second baby. It worries me a lot. My Husband does not bother touching or sucking my breasts when making love to me these days, not to talk of sucking them. And this is what he used to love and enjoy doing before I started having and nursing kids.

Please I'd like to know if any lady in the house has experienced such drastic sagging and if there are ways to revive the fallen breasts. Are there moms out there that their husbands have stopped caressing their bosoms because they have fallen due to constant nursing of babies? does it make you feel bad like me? Have you ever raised such issue with your husband?

Also, my husband used to go down low, but after he witnessed the delivery process in the labour room when I had my second child, he has stopped going down low. I'm just soo worried my people. Please any advice from moms and maybe dads will really be helpful to me. Thank you

I created a new profile to hide my identity cos I'm one of the regular contributors to the forum.

henribj:
but seriously i am surprised at nairalanders, days were when people could come to NL and post issues bothering them and they would be sure to see at least 80-90% positive advice from fellow NLanders, but these days all i see is people criticizing each other, fighting eAch other, laughing at issues which honestly bother the Op.
The Op here has posted about something which truly worries her, if you have a good advice to give her pls do, if you don't then don't bother commenting, and if the story amuses you and you feel like laughing out loud, then do it but don't type it on her post. These are issues which if na USA now, Op for fit don go commit suicide. We africans need to help and support one another instead of seeing another persons issue as a source of amusement to ourselves.
Op unfortunately i do not have an advice to give to you seeing as i am a man, but would it be so bad if you sat your husband down and talked about this?

when u see a reasonable post like this; its Henribj. Op I must tell you fallen bosoms are not romantic to suck. Just as this poster as said, u need to talk to your man abt it. Who knows other means may be derived for the enjoyment. Meanwhile what's 'go down low

Dahjhi:
when u see a reasonable post like this; its Henribj. Op I must tell you fallen bosoms are not romantic to suck. Just as this poster as said, u need to talk to your man abt it. Who knows other means may be derived for the enjoyment. Meanwhile what's 'go down low

henribj:


ahh Dahjhi e yaf burst my head... wait o, what are you eating on your dp? is that cocoa? and pure water? ahh Dahjhi, how many times did i call you ehn?
oh by the way, you see that thing your doing to the cocoa on your dp? thats whats known as "go down low"