auchomage:
My brother i feel for you, such memories cannot be erased easily. But i have a question: when i was much younger like 15- 16 yrs, there was this small girl about 11-12yrs that moved with her parents into neighbourhood. When her parents travel to buy goods in d North, she and her younger ones spend d night at my house. We all sleep in d sitting room, cos it was a two room apartment. I always sleep close to her younger brother so as to avoid any contact with her.
One night we were all asleep as usual, then suddenly i felt a curly sensation on my d.i.c.k. It was dark i couldn't see anything...the room was dark and i was helpless. As naive as i was, the first thought that came to my head was dat of a snake trying to cut off my dick...so i didn't even think about it, i let out the loudest cry i hav ever made, and every one was awake. To my surprise dis yeye girl was just smiling, my mum rushed in, and i was embarrassed i couldn't tell her what happened. I just told her i had a bad dream. She went back to bed. Some minutes later, the yeye girl came and whispered to my ear that she was the snake. You can only imagined how scared i was, after several attempts spread across a period of a year, she succeeded in luring me, just once...bcuz that first time was a horror in my memory. My question is, could i say i was molested by a girl younger than me ?

i wouldn't just want to say yes, how was she able to lure you to the act?

francizy:
I was lost. And it took several years for me to regain my senses. I would have been a world class harlot had it not been for the kind of home I had and after primary school, I lost all the swags i used for getting girls. This was because I was made to attend Government College Lagos (GCL) Erikmore, which was a male school. I didn't turn a harlot but what I turned into was far worse...

I lost my senses whenever I lay with a lady. Whenever a female family friend visits, I wouldn't sleep at night because I was always busy touching them. It was terrible to the point that I extended it to a few of my cousins. I'm not proud of my story but I hope to use it to get a message out there.

It took till I was about 20 and an admission into the university for me to stop my abominable character. Although I stopped touching girls at night, the sexual urge didn't go. My school helped me concentrate more on academics so I only had sex with girls when I was on holiday. I had slept with pretty girls, but I also slept with ugly ones because I couldn't just say no. That is, once my dick is hard and she gives me a go ahead, I wouldn't send her looks. I do it. Although am a changed person today.

The only thing that I'm proud of about my sex life is that I never raped any girl till today.

So parents or would be parents, watch who you keep your children with. A day's molestation can damage a child's life for good.

I read your story with indignation. Its unbelievable what some young children are made to go through in the hands of adults who should be their protectors. You were definitely molested and that was wrong. I was moved by your honesty and the sheer rawness of the story.
All I hope for you is that you stay on the right path as you have discovered and grow from there. Your past does NOT define who you are as a person. But you should on the flip side, be careful not to subconsciously use it as an excuse when you feel the urge especially with someone u have absolutely no feelings for.
It can only get better.
I wish you well.

Shout out to the OP. Storyteller toh badt. Ever thought of being an author?? You should try script writing for 50 Shades of Grey..Naija version tho. You might get some attention that way.

At the beginning, I feel say u wan say na man molest u .

Joel3:
since they are still too young to really knw what they were doing. So You cannot compare the guy now and when he was a kid? Can you.


Not forgetting that I and my friends use to have sex with girls when I was around 10years old. But the truth is that is not sex, as our dick did not enter the hole we only wined waist ontop girls.

Not until we started watching blue firm from one chair man window.

Before I learnt that the dick need to enter the hole where urine is coming out from. I was like put my dick in that hole?

then We don't really knw how to sex.

Beside some girls also romance me when I was 3 to 5 years old. they kiss and press me to their breast. Although they are older but still young to really knw the consequence. Those girls can't do that again now since they are married and have kids of their own now.

Its all part of kids play and drama. You cant tell me you don't have sex as a kid. Don't lie.

For starters, the hole you penetrate is not where you urinate from. As for the rest of your post, there's never ever any justification or rationalization of child molestation. There simply is none.

wildikeman:
O boy op! Old house maid motherfuccker! I like ur stories but they are clearly all lies.

Bro, you are entitled to you opinion. I wish you were the one molested at that age and also dealt with by your mum so that you know it's true.

Bye

You have a mail on your yahoo account

vivaciousvivi:


I read your story with indignation. Its unbelievable what some young children are made to go through in the hands of adults who should be their protectors. You were definitely molested and that was wrong. I was moved by your honesty and the sheer rawness of the story.
All I hope for you is that you stay on the right path as you have discovered and grow from there. Your past does NOT define who you are as a person. But you should on the flip side, be careful not to subconsciously use it as an excuse when you feel the urge especially with someone u have absolutely no feelings for.
It can only get better.
I wish you well.

Bennymontana:
Don't knw bout other "Guys" sha;bt can't See any correlation wit my molestation experience to my present life...it's even because they"ve given it a name "molestation" otherwise it wouldn't av even registered in my mind...I let them do wot they wanna do;and I walk away feeling same,nt tinkn bout it,nt lookn forward to it;...infact it doesn't even register...and hell yeah...I enjoy sex now like any oda guy!...but when it comes to female molestation;there's where I have an issue....it's simply sick and horrendous!

Both are the same bro.. It's just that in our society we pay more attention to male to female molestation although proper punishment is not attached to the crime.

Paedôphiles should be jailed for life tho, male of female...

mobuch:

You have a mail on your yahoo account

Ok......hope all is well?

francizy:


Bro, you are entitled to you opinion. I wish you were the one molested at that age and also dealt with by your mum so that you know it's true.

Bye

I was...by my sisters friend. But I enjoyed it.

vivaciousvivi:


Ok......hope all is well?

All is not well; check your mail

Olarewajub:
i wouldn't just want to say yes, how was she able to lure you to the act?

haahaha....Am sure you want me to narrate my whole ordeal.
When i realised what she wanted i was quite scared, it was the first time something like dat had happened to me. I couldn't tell any one about it. She is suppose to go to Quaranic class every evening, she will take her brothers there and return home, waiting for me to return from school. Whenever i comeback from school, i always lock the door from the back...so dat she wont be able to come inside.
One evening, i returned from school as usual, ran to the bathroom cuz i was pressed. After taking the first heavy sigh and i turned my back i saw dis ogbanje girl stack naked standing at my back. She said, she was going to scream if i attempt to push her and run off. I let my guard down, i felt another stream of urine trying to come out....and it was like jet pump, i didn't hav control ova it. She bent down took my dick and drank it all......it was irritating. I didn't even know what was happening, she pushed herself on me and moan...i just stood there i can't even move..when the whole show was over...the sight of her irritates me...

hmmm...it is not easy for guys who hav experienced molestation to talk abt it. It can be painful or even shameful. Anyway i was a victim n i will tell my story despite the pain i feel inside.

i was a cute kid during my secondary sch days yrs ago. I moved into a boardin sch when i was age 13. I just entered into snr class that time.

In my class i was one of d youngest. I was petite n naive as well. In my hostel i met senior students who wre very fond of me. One of them later became my sch father.

Cutting the long story short, We became very close n he use to take very gud care of me becos he was frm a wealthy background. To be sincere that was the best time i had back then in sch.

One day soon after resumption for a new term. Many peopl had not not resumed, so the hostels wre largely empty. It was particularly worse in my own hostel so i had to spend the night wit him in his own hostel.

After we had taken our bath we jumped into bed n whoom..i slept off only to be awoken at some point in d night by my sch father. He was kissing my hand. Half asleep, i cud feel his tongue licking through the skin of my tommy. i came into full conciousness wen i felt his lips on mine. I smelt his breath n i awoke quickly.

i spat like twice on the floor. Disgusted, i felt my stomach rumble. A strong feeling of nausea overwhemled me. I looked up, n everywhre was dark. i cud barely see his face as i began whimpering n fuming wit anger.

I am too ashamed...i wil continue

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freecocoa:
Na wa o.

OP, glad you triumphed in the end.

I honestly don't understand how someone can have $ex with a kid, those people aren't in the least bit normal.

Society pay so much attention to girls being r*ped but truth is, their male counterparts also get r*ped and theirs usually happen at a much more younger age, which often leads them into a life of $ex addiction, parents should seriously mind who they leave their ward/child with, the saddest thing is that even one's relative hurt them this way too, pity.

Thanks ma'am. Didn't know I'd ever get thru tho..

I wish we all can give much time needed to our kids both male and female..

jacksonlows:
Shout out to the OP. Storyteller toh badt. Ever thought of being an author?? You should try script writing for 50 Shades of Grey..Naija version tho. You might get some attention that way.

Yea. Notice the way OP kept hammering on 'male child molestation', 'male child molestation' and stressing on how it is not treated the same way as that of females? The boy has his ulterior motives for starting this thread of lies.

fellis:
Yea. Notice the way OP kept hammering on 'male child molestation', 'male child molestation' and stressing on how it is not treated the same way as that of females? The boy has his ulterior motives for starting this thread of lies.

A few posts after the topic, the young man starts flirting. And more stories comes up... It amazes me how they explain these stories with so much precision. Lol. I'll say no more.. Enjoying the stories. #SippingOnThisHennessyTho

auchomage:
haahaha....Am sure you want me to narrate my whole ordeal.
When i realised what she wanted i was quite scared, it was the first time something like dat had happened to me. I couldn't tell any one about it. She is suppose to go to Quaranic class every evening, she will take her brothers there and return home, waiting for me to return from school. Whenever i comeback from school, i always lock the door from the back...so dat she wont be able to come inside.
One evening, i returned from school as usual, ran to the bathroom cuz i was pressed. After taking the first heavy sigh and i turned my back i saw dis ogbanje girl stack naked standing at my back. She said, she was going to scream if i attempt to push her and run off. I let my guard down, i felt another stream of urine trying to come out....and it was like jet pump, i didn't hav control ova it. She bent down took my dick and drank it all......it was irritating. I didn't even know what was happening, she pushed herself on me and moan...i just stood there i can't even move..when the whole show was over...the sight of her irritates me...

This is actually more complicated than i thought. I think she took advantage of you in that scenario, but maybe you would have been able to advert the whole saga. You were scared that nobody is going to believe your story since you where even older than her.

I am sorry this thread is bullshyt, a joke and I believe it is some kind of a paedophilia story to turn some people on.

If this was a genuine story about abuse there will be no need in describing exactly how your pen!s was stroked as a child and how the maid's vag!na smelt.

Well done! You have fulfilled the dreams of perverts for today.

Shame on you!

To those who have been abused and still suffering from it, It shall be well.

rugged7:
Thanks for sharing your story.
I know a lot of men will abuse u and say men can't be abused/raped by a woman, but i understand where ur coming from.
My story is slightly different...
I was quite young, and in my case, i had a much older auntie who would lie face down and ask me to climb ontop of her nyash.
I have a mental block of what happened subsequently but i can't recall that it went beyond that.
However, it hyper-sensitized me to women quite early in my young age and i think it later made me become extremely promiscuous with women uptil recently.
Infact, one of my longest relationships- with my ex-girlfriend was subsequently quite skewed along these lines.
She herself was extremely attractive, almost quarter-cast with those kind of hour-glass shape and apple shaped nyash you would kill for.
#I kid u not.
I have had women walk upto her and "toast " her when i wasn't looking. But she would tell me anyway. Once it occurred when she went with me to a unisex hair salon where i cut my hair atimes.
It was that brazen atimes.
She would tell me quite early in our relationship that she was dis-virgined by her direct auntie at a very young age..
Who would tell her that she should stay away from boys. That once they touch her, she would get pregnant.
Thus she had an almost paranoid /morbid fear of men. In effect, this skewed her emotionally towards women.
Her auntie would continue this relationship with her until the auntie left for the United states.
Subsequently she became extremely promiscuous with women.
I met her at this stage in her life.
She subsequently started to date me after much pressure from my side, but made it clear that she was addicted to the lesbian aspect already and didn't think she could stop it.
At that time, i didn't really care if she stopped or not.
As 1. i wanted her as a trophy since she was extremely beautiful.
2. I didn't really care as long as it was with other women and not any man.
3. It actually gave me a kick to watch her with other women or join in.

And i must admit-as far as i knew- and i knew a lot- i was the only man she dated during that time. The other people she slept with were all women.
And i mean a lot of women over the years.
But i remained promiscuous and she would occasionally catch me with other women.
Initially she would get angry, but after sometime she stopped being angry- this scared me atimes.
And would just tell me not to get too attached to the girl and we would always use a condom- it was like a religion to her.
We slipped a couple of times but generally that was the norm.
It was a happy ending in the end for both of us.
BUT, it could so easily have ended disastrously either way....
Such is life.
C'est la vie...

Well, that's one thing about same sex molestation it leaves an adverse effect, worse than diff sex molestation.

Different sex molestation is bad but I do prefer it that I was molested by ladies than guys.

kandiikane:
I am sorry this thread is bullshyt, a joke and I believe it is some kind of a paedophilia story to turn some people on.

If this was a genuine story about abuse there will be no need in describing exactly how your pen!s was stroked as a child and how the maid's vag!na smelt.

Well done! You have fulfilled the dreams of perverts for today.

Shame on you!

To those who have been abused and still suffering from it, It shall be well.

Lololol Correct girl . OP is just a sad human being no need to get angry over his behaviour, just pity him.

fellis:
Lololol Correct girl . OP is just a sad human being no need to get angry over his behaviour, just pity him.

lol I am not angry, just annoyed as I was expecting to read on how being abused has affected him especially as an adult. Bringing awareness to the fact that men too can be abused and it is wrong even if you "enjoyed" it.. But No, it was a sex story you would probably find on po.rn sites.

khiaa:



You did nothing wrong, wrong was done to you. I am so sorry you had to experience this, I wish that your mom would have had them arrested and taken to trial and the judge would have put them under the jail house. I despise pedo.philes with a passion.
Your behavior with girls and your cousins is normal for kids who were sexually abused.
Molestation can affect a child for life, I know people who are suffering now because of it, alot of them have strange sexual habits. My heart goes out to you and all of the victims of molestation.
Life inprisonment for all pedo.philes.

And aren't u aware that those pedo.philes were also molested when they were young? So if you will justify his action, theirs too should be justified.

Olarewajub:
This is actually more complicated than i thought. I think she took advantage of you in that scenario, but maybe you would have been able to advert the whole saga. You were scared that nobody is going to believe your story since you where even older than her.

Exactly, you just hit the nail on d head. I just feared dat she might be possessed. But i was calm when she told me her mum younger brother taught her d act. Molestation seems to communicable...in our society. It our responsibility to keep our children safe.

auchomage:
My brother i feel for you, such memories cannot be erased easily. But i have a question: when i was much younger like 15- 16 yrs, there was this small girl about 11-12yrs that moved with her parents into neighbourhood. When her parents travel to buy goods in d North, she and her younger ones spend d night at my house. We all sleep in d sitting room, cos it was a two room apartment. I always sleep close to her younger brother so as to avoid any contact with her.
One night we were all asleep as usual, then suddenly i felt a curly sensation on my d.i.c.k. It was dark i couldn't see anything...the room was dark and i was helpless. As naive as i was, the first thought that came to my head was dat of a snake trying to cut off my dick...so i didn't even think about it, i let out the loudest cry i hav ever made, and every one was awake. To my surprise dis yeye girl was just smiling, my mum rushed in, and i was embarrassed i couldn't tell her what happened. I just told her i had a bad dream. She went back to bed. Some minutes later, the yeye girl came and whispered to my ear that she was the snake. You can only imagined how scared i was, after several attempts spread across a period of a year, she succeeded in luring me, just once...bcuz that first time was a horror in my memory. My question is, could i say i was molested by a girl younger than me ?

Well, to me, I see it as you were molested. I stand to be corrected tho.

kandiikane:

lol I am not angry, just annoyed as I was expecting to read on how being abused has affected him especially as an adult. Bringing awareness to the fact that men too can be abused and it is wrong even if you "enjoyed" it.. But No, it was a sex story you would probably find on po.rn sites.

I understand. Some people live for the attention they can get online and go any lengths to get it no matter what they have to write. Very pitiful. Goes a long way to show how unfulfilled and depressing their offline lives are.

rugged7:
Thanks for sharing your story.
I know a lot of men will abuse u and say men can't be abused/raped by a woman, but i understand where ur coming from.
My story is slightly different...
I was quite young, and in my case, i had a much older auntie who would lie face down and ask me to climb ontop of her nyash.
I have a mental block of what happened subsequently but i can't recall that it went beyond that.

This is what happens in some abuse cases, people tend to repress the traumatic experience and have no recollection of what happens next. I think it's like a coping mechanism but as you grow older the abuse does affect you even if you don't realise it's the cause of your problems due to the fact that you have blocked it out.

Francizy ! Its really a bad experience and I'm talking from experience. I wish you well bro!
I am also suffering from something inverse of yours but close experience. I held this form of resentment to all ladies, I had or maybe still have this aftermath of bad feeling towards any normal lady I met. It was as bad as never allowing a lady enter my room or touch my phone or some absurd things but I think I'm getting over it thanks to the family section and some sisters of goodwill who figured out it was the abuse and help me deal with it. I cant type that post again, I'm trying to forget it but I could dig up the link or post for you If you want to read. I feel relieved somehow but a lot still has to be done.

jacksonlows:
Shout out to the OP. Storyteller toh badt. Ever thought of being an author?? You should try script writing for 50 Shades of Grey..Naija version tho. You might get some attention that way.

I wouldn't blame you since most stuff posted on Nairaland are lies, and your opinion tho

I had so many experience of it when i was a kid. Our househelp used to invite other househelps also. But it didn't make me to have any abnormal sexual urge, and i never regretted a bit of it. Now i am grown up I run into some of them once in a while, they are married with kids. Although these acts are very wrong especially when a female is the one being molested. As a guy, u are at the giving end so there is no need to be making so much noise about it. I bet u enjoyed it as much as i did.

kandiikane:
I am sorry this thread is bullshyt, a joke and I believe it is some kind of a paedophilia story to turn some people on.

If this was a genuine story about abuse there will be no need in describing exactly how your pen!s was stroked as a child and how the maid's vag!na smelt.

Well done! You have fulfilled the dreams of perverts for today.

Shame on you!

To those who have been abused and still suffering from it, It shall be well.

All speculations

You cannot tell anyone how to share his or her story. A lot more males have come forward to share their experience, thanks to this thread. So, you should be thanking the op, not shaming him.

Lol. Is that all? Or are any more alts coming to tell stories of how they were molested?

dicefrost:




He never said he molested anyone. Why do you always sound harsh?

Didn't u read it well?

francizy:

After this event, I was fully exposed to the opposite
sex. I was still in primary school. I had a girlfriend in
school. Her twin brother Ubong was my best friend.
Ufong and her brother shared stuff with me and I
shared mine with them. Ufong always sitted very
close to me. She never like sharing sits with any other
person. I liked her and I often manipulated her in the
classroom when lesson wasn't going on . The whole
event was short lived when I was given double
promotion after that academic year.

Probably that little girl too was innocent. And he exposed her to sexual activities (cause he had more experience than her). Do you know what that girl too might have become now?
I'm not saying this to ridicule the OP, I only want everybody, especially khiaa, to realize that the OP's actions too cannot be justified. Even though he was a victim, he has also done damage to others. And if you would symphatize with him, then others may also deserve symphaty.
I've never been molested by anyone, and I've also never molested anyone. I'm only saying this because it is logical.