fellis:
Lol. Is that all? Or are any more alts coming to tell stories of how they were molested?

wildikeman:
I was...by my sisters friend. But I enjoyed it.

Shollypopzz:


Seriously, what is y'all's problem?

Do you have any proof that their stories are fake?

You are one of the problems. Always finding ways to make fun of r*ape victims who are males. Do not ever accuse a r*ape victim of lying when you don't have proof.

You come off as insensitive and extremely ignorant.

laykhorn:
Francizy ! Its really a bad experience and I'm talking from experience. I wish you well bro!
I am also suffering from something inverse of yours but close experience. I held this form of resentment to all ladies, I had or maybe still have this aftermath of bad feeling towards any normal lady I met. It was as bad as never allowing a lady enter my room or touch my phone or some absurd things but I think I'm getting over it thanks to the family section and some sisters of goodwill who figured out it was the abuse and help me deal with it. I cant type that post again, I'm trying to forget it but I could dig up the link or post for you If you want to read. I feel relieved somehow but a lot still has to be done.

Shollypopzz:


All speculations

You cannot tell anyone how to share his or her story. A lot more males have come forward to share their experience, thanks to this thread. So, you should be thanking the op, not shaming him.

ThisBoyGay:


Didn't u read it well?



Probably that little girl too was innocent. And he exposed her to sexual activities (cause he had more experience than her). Do you know what that girl too might have become now?
I'm not saying this to ridicule the OP, I only want everybody, especially khiaa, to realize that the OP's actions too cannot be justified. Even though he was a victim, he has also done damage to others. And if you would symphatize with him, then others may also deserve symphaty.
I've never been molested by anyone, and I've also never molested anyone. I'm only saying this because it is logical.

Shollypopzz:


Seriously, what is y'all's problem?

Do you have any proof that their stories are fake?

You are one of the problems. Always finding ways to make fun of r*ape victims who are males. Do not ever accuse a r*ape victim of lying when you don't have proof.

You come off as insensitive and extremely ignorant.

kandiikane:


I'm sorry how exactly is it speculation when the evidence is in his post?

Anyone can share a story but when such a sensitive story starts turning into something por.nographic then one has to ask whether the story is to really help others or help perverts.

Yes, others have shared their stories but it still doesn't change the fact that there is more to the original post than just bringing awareness.

francizy:


Am no saint and if I had wanted to paint my self in white without stains, I wouldn't have included the effect child molestation had on me. Imagine a guy as old as I am, never took alcohol, never smoked, do hangout once in a blue moon, etc. I would have had a near perfect life if not for the molestation I experienced.

I was once a born again when I was in JSS 3 but my lust for women didn't even make me last as a born again and within two weeks, I was back to my old ways. Never tried being born again till today cuz I know that some part of me still lust for women.

You'd understand if you were in my shoes..

ThisBoyGay:

I'm not criticizing you, I only want you to realize that there may also be some girls that got into promiscuity because of your influence. And if that is the case, you also have to forgive the person that molested you, because there is a high probability that they engage in such acts because of what may have been done to them.

francizy:
I wouldn't insult or curse any of you but bare it in mind that I'm not supposed to come on here and tell you about something that happened about 16-19 years ago with tears on my cheek. I decided to say it exactly how it went. And I'm sorry if I aroused some people here, it wasn't my intention. Just sharing my experience and it's left for you to take the advice of protecting your male child along with your female child or protect only your female child and call OP a lying joker.

Take or leave, I just shared a part of me that I felt like sharing. I used to keep it to myself and told only ladies I was very close with but I no longer see it as big deal so there isn't any need concealing it.

Shollypopzz:


You do not have to apologize because some sick minded people found your post arousing. No one has a right to tell you how to share your story, it is yours to tell.

Do not let them bother you, sharing your story was beneficial to many. I hope more males would feel encouraged to share theirs.

Shollypopzz:


You claimed the op's experience is a joke/bullshit. You also claimed his intention was to appeal to perverts. Since, you are no mind-reader, I do not see how you can provide evidence as to what the op's intentions were.

If you are offended by the explicit detail of his encounter, then report to the mod. Let them decide if it is appropriate for this section or not. I found absolutely nothing wrong with his description.

"but it still doesn't change the fact that there is more to the original post than just bringing awareness." Yet another speculation.

freecocoa:
Why would anyone say the OP is lying? Is that supposed to be funny? If you don't know any males that have been molested, I do and believe me, their stories are almost always similar, the difference in the OP's story and that of a friend of mine is just very slight, this is not a joking matter and shouldn't be made light of.

Shollypopzz:

You accused the op's experience as being a joke. You claimed his intention was to appeal to perverts. Since, you are no mind-reader, I do not see how you can provide evidence as to what the op's intentions were.
If you are offended by the explicit detail of his encounter, then report to the mod. Let them decide if it is appropriate for this section or not. I found absolutely nothing wrong with his description.
"but it still doesn't change the fact that there is more to the original post than just bringing awareness." Yet another speculation.

francizy:


Thank you ma'am. I actually shared this for people like you that wouldn't doubt it but rather use my experience in bringing up male kids.

God bless you...

Evina:


The sillyness, insensitivity and ignorance emanating from those posts is pathetic!

This is the reason, a lot of victims of abuse choose to keep shut, because of the fear of being bullied, blamed and tagged a liar.

Imagine one of them mentioning "woman hate" and finding the thread entertaining! Gosh, now who is the pervert? No matter how hard they try to portray the saint image, they just can't hide their true nature! Hypocrites!

Evina:


Thank you for sharing. Your story will be therapeutic to victims of abuse, who will find courage to release the hurt and shame trapped within, by also sharing and a guide to many mother's as well.

kandiikane:

The same way I could say your idea that his story has nothing more to it is speculation.

I still stand by my first statement. I do not need to report anything to the mod. I have stated what I got from it and that's all that matters, it is none of my business whether someone disagrees with me.

kandiikane:
How exactly does "I felt fulfilled as her fingers were all over me as If she was working a guitar" or " she opened her legs and a smell filled the room" make any difference to the opinions of those who do not believe men can be abused?

Evina:


Babe, can you just imagine the silliness of it all?

The op almost abandoned the thread sef.