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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 10:12pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
fellis: Seriously, what is y'all's problem? Do you have any proof that their stories are fake? You are one of the problems. Always finding ways to make fun of r*ape victims who are males. Do not ever accuse a r*ape victim of lying when you don't have proof. You come off as insensitive and extremely ignorant. 8 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by jacksonlows: 10:13pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
This VSOP strong tho. ![]() ![]() |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 10:16pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
wildikeman: Good for you.. So now that it's coming from someone else, it's a lie right? Smh |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 10:19pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Shollypopzz: Don't mind them! Maybe I'd rather swear for them that their children be molested like I was before they believe I'm for real. But I won't do that since I wish everybody well. Thanks 3 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 10:22pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Lmao, this woman hate is something else ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 10:24pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
laykhorn: I understand how you feel and I do hope you get over it. I feel more sorry and pity for people who had your kind of experience and it's in this case I see mine as something little. I can forgive a lady molesting my son but will never forgive same sex molestation on my kid. |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by kandiikane(m): 10:26pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Shollypopzz: I'm sorry how exactly is it speculation when the evidence is in his post? Anyone can share a story but when such a sensitive story starts turning into something por.nographic then one has to ask whether the story is to really help others or help perverts. Yes, others have shared their stories but it still doesn't change the fact that there is more to the original post than just bringing awareness. 4 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by jacksonlows: 10:28pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 10:30pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
ThisBoyGay: Am no saint and if I had wanted to paint my self in white without stains, I wouldn't have included the effect child molestation had on me. Imagine a guy as old as I am, never took alcohol, never smoked, do hangout once in a blue moon, etc. I would have had a near perfect life if not for the molestation I experienced. I was once a born again when I was in JSS 3 but my lust for women didn't even make me last as a born again and within two weeks, I was back to my old ways. Never tried being born again till today cuz I know that some part of me still lust for women. You'd understand if you were in my shoes.. 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by kandiikane(m): 10:37pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Shollypopzz:I hope I am not included in this particular post because I am not one who takes male abuse lightly as seen in many of my posts on this forum. I wrote what I wrote because from what I read from the guy who opened the thread it seemed he was actually making a mockery of abused men like they normally do on nl rather than actually bringing awareness. A title can state one thing and the content another. |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 10:41pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
kandiikane: You claimed the op's experience is a joke/bullshit. You also claimed his intention was to appeal to perverts. Since, you are no mind-reader, I do not see how you can provide evidence as to what the op's intentions were. If you are offended by the explicit detail of his encounter, then report to the mod. Let them decide if it is appropriate for this section or not. I found absolutely nothing wrong with his description. "but it still doesn't change the fact that there is more to the original post than just bringing awareness." Yet another speculation. 4 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by ThisBoyGay: 10:42pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
francizy:I'm not criticizing you, I only want you to realize that there may also be some girls that got into promiscuity because of your influence. And if that is the case, you also have to forgive the person that molested you, because there is a high probability that they engage in such acts because of what may have been done to them. 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 10:44pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Hmmm. Seriously though, there is nothing like living a fulfilled life. This thread was just sad to read through ![]() |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 10:44pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
I wouldn't insult or curse any of you but bare it in mind that I'm not supposed to come on here and tell you something that happened about 16-19 years ago with tears on my cheek. I decided to say it exactly how it happened. And I'm sorry if I aroused some people here, it wasn't my intention. Just sharing my experience and it's left for you to take the advice of protecting your male child along with your female child or protect only your female child and call OP a lying joker. Take or leave, I just shared a part of me that I felt like sharing. I used to keep it to myself and told only ladies I was very close to but I no longer see it as big deal so there isn't any need concealing it. Bye y'all **modified** PS: I personally chose to ignore that girl and that boy insulting me cuz of my post. 3 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by freecocoa(f): 10:47pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Why would anyone say the OP is lying? Is that supposed to be funny? If you don't know any males that have been molested, I do and believe me, their stories are almost always similar, the difference in the OP's story and that of a friend of mine is just very slight, this is not a joking matter and shouldn't be made light of. 3 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 10:49pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
ThisBoyGay: Believe me bro, I've forgiven those two ladies since tho you just reminded me of something. I never got in touch with Ufong, the twin I played with in the classroom, believe me, I would have asked for forgiveness tho. 2 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 10:51pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
francizy: You do not have to apologize because some sick minded people found your post arousing. No one has a right to tell you how to share your story, it is yours to tell. Do not let them bother you, sharing your story was beneficial to many. I hope more males would feel encouraged to share theirs. 7 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 10:54pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Shollypopzz: Thank you ma'am. I actually shared this for people like you that wouldn't doubt it but rather use my experience in bringing up male kids. God bless you... |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Evina(f): 10:55pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Shollypopzz: The sillyness, insensitivity and ignorance emanating from those posts is pathetic! This is the reason, a lot of victims of abuse choose to keep shut, because of the fear of being bullied, blamed and tagged a liar. Imagine one of them mentioning "woman hate" and finding the thread entertaining! Gosh, now who is the pervert? No matter how hard they try to portray the saint image, they just can't hide their true nature! Hypocrites! 7 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Evina(f): 10:57pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
freecocoa: Babe, can you just imagine the silliness of it all? The op almost abandoned the thread sef. 3 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by kandiikane(m): 10:58pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Shollypopzz:The same way I could say your idea that his story has nothing more to it is speculation. What evidence do you have that your opinion is not speculation? My evidence is in his post so I don't know why you will wonder where my evidence will come from. Listen, I have written all I need to write on this topic and I won't continue this back and forth with you. if you feel like there is nothing wrong with his story and that it has made a difference on how male abuse is seen then good for you. I still stand by my first statement. I do not need to report anything to the mod. I have stated what I got from it and that's all that matters, it is none of my business whether someone disagrees with me. Toddles 3 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Evina(f): 11:00pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
francizy: Thank you for sharing. Your story will be therapeutic to victims of abuse, who will find courage to release the hurt and shame trapped within, by also sharing and a guide to many mother's as well. 2 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by SirShymexx: 11:03pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Darn!! Smoking a big fat cohiba and zoot with the lads, somewhere far from home. Decided to peep NL - and holy moly, it's sholly and some decent chics speaking up for men. Who would have thought that would happen on this miserable forum, especially this section, where miserable hags hang out? - blimeyyyy! I'm loving the new sholly - she just brought the old sholly from back in the day when I used to admire her. 50calibre, come see ya girlie, she's back. ![]() I'm out - smoke inna da air. 2 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 11:05pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Evina: You are absolutely right! I can't deal. 2 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 11:10pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Evina: I should be thanking you for believing it when some "Thomas's" wouldn't.. God bless you ma'am. |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 11:11pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
kandiikane: No, you can't because the op clearly stated otherwise. Unlike you, I have real evidence. I still stand by my first statement. I do not need to report anything to the mod. I have stated what I got from it and that's all that matters, it is none of my business whether someone disagrees with me. You are absolutely right, you are entitled to your opinion. I quoted you because you shamed the op. You could have stated your opinion and left it at that, attacking him based on speculation was pointless. 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by ThisBoyGay: 11:19pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
It's nice that the OP shared this. I could relate to this. Though I was never molested, but I grew up way too fast. Busy parents I guess. 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by kandiikane(m): 11:25pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
And to those who think my post was made towards abused men or that it implies the op is lying about being abused at the age of 10 then you are all ediots who need to read a book or two and should be put in a corner for even attempting to say someone is ignorant for doubting the exact motive of the thread being open. I just do not believe his exact motive was to bring awareness to how wrong male abuse is, how it affects and can have a major impact on the victim. I find that the thread was opened to tell a story about smelly maids as an entertainment under the blanket of Male abuse awareness How exactly does "I felt fulfilled as her fingers were all over me as If she was working a guitar" or " she opened her legs and a smell filled the room" make any difference to the opinions of those who do not believe men can be abused? All that is left is for people to take a seat around a fire to listen to the storytelling before they go to sleep. what a joke! 2 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 11:30pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
kandiikane: ![]() |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 11:34pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
I understand that feminism advocates equal rights and equal treatment of abused victims so I totally get where some posters are coming from. Am not even gonna argue about anything. Viva feminism and gender equality ![]() |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 11:35pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by freecocoa(f): 11:50pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Evina:It's a shame for real. 1 Like |
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