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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 3:04pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
HFOG:Amen!! 2 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 3:30pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
There is nothing wrong with lusting after women. If you did not, that is when something is wrong with you. Your problem appears to be the learnt behaviour of initiating sexual acts with any female you get the opportunity to be alone with - even when they may be asleep. My suggestion is to avoid putting yourself in such situation, as you may find yourself in a lot of trouble one day. francizy: |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by tiredface: 3:31pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
I'LL PROBABLY DIE NOT SHARING THIS WITH ANYONE. I WAS MOLESTED WHEN I WAS MAYBE ABOUT 9 OR 10 AND IT CONTINUES FOR A LONG TIME UNTIL I LEFT FOR SECONDARY SCHOOL BY MY MOMS FRIEND WHO CALLS ME HER HUSBAND. WHAT PEOPLE DID KNOW, MOM INCLUDED, WAS THAT SHE WAS ALSO MOLESTING ME SEXUALLY. IT WAS AN EVERY DAY SEXXUAL THING. SHE BUYS ALL SURT OF THINGS FOR ME.NO ONE WILL EVER EVER BELIEVE ME 2 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 6:49pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
GenBuhari: Is this the General himself quoting me or am I dreaming? If na really GMB, I go just vote am sharply on may 28... Back to the matter, I've already killed that character of touching a lady while she's sleeping.. I know this because of late, I've slept close to some ladies (fam friends, friends, etc) but didn't touch them. The first night I did sleep close to a girl I didn't before but didn't touch her at all, I was surprised at myself for being able to withstand the temptation although I was awake throughout the night. All I just want in life now is for me to be able to control my urge and not lust after ladies. I would want to be able to stand any temptation from a lady whether she's standing naked in front of me or not. Or is it not possible for guys to be able to hold themselves back when a girl seduces them? |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 6:56pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
GenBuhari: Well, if you read all, you'd come to the exact conclusion that what I did was the after effect of the abuse. Am not and never will be proud of all I did afterwards, that is why I poured this out on this forum. |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 6:59pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
tiredface: That's the simple truth. Nobody would have believed you since she's old enough to be your mum and it's unfair. It's now left for you to protect your children from people like her or men that molest children. 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 7:01pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
HFOG: Amen! 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 7:04pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
Joel3: That video is disgusting! And what was more disgusting was the fact that the guy/lady taking the clip didn't even stop them from perpetrating that act. It's sad that girl has damaged that lill boy for good. |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by ghostmist: 7:12pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
Hmmmm...mehn dis guy really enjoyed his childhood ooh.na waoh!how come I wasn't molested?now you're making me wish my childhood was like yours. 2 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 7:14pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
My dear, I feel your pain. It's quite unfortunate.Thsnk God you were able to talk about it.You are a good person, and God will bless you abundantly. Males gets molested too, although there is no strong awareness for it like that of the females. 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by kandiikane(m): 7:48pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
zeongeon: Yes the same way people are able to paint an exact picture of abuse by sending videos or pics round saying they are trying to bring awareness probably titled "how sad or how sickening or see what this wicked man did to this Child. Does the recepient ever ask about the exact motive behind the video being sent round? Or does he just pass it to others too like a pervert? Maybe it doesn't matter as long as they are passing the "message" to the masses. It doesn't matter how the awareness is shared, expressed or maybe like some ediot wrote, it's just a good"narrative". People will become more aware by knowing or seeing every single details of how the victim is being stroked like an "instrument," the reactions of the victim and abuser or the perceived smell. Please, I don't want to be quoted with comments I perceived as rubbish since they make no difference to me. You should stop as you can see I am heartless and will just keep on posting heartless stuff! 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by biafranqueen: 7:49pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
francizy:I am proud of you for sharing with us, it is part of the healing process for you and a big lesson for others like me. My husband shared with me his molestation by his mothers sister. I was the first person he ever told, this was my first time hearing of such atrocity. I must admit in the back of my mind I was harboring doubt like how could he get hard unless he is enjoying it. I know how much we enjoy, in our intimate life and I know how a day never goes by that he doesn't want to partake. In my head I was thinking, he was probably enjoying with his Auntie, but now your story has explained so much to me. Thank you so much for sharing! 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 8:05pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
ghostmist: Trust me, you wouldn't wanna be having some kind of lust over your cousins except of course you are not a Christian cuz Christianity forbids it. That was in the past and that is what I hate most about my childhood.. |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 8:09pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
EggovinMma: Amen and may God bless you too ma'am.. God will help us so we are able to shield our kids from paedophilic beings... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 8:17pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
biafranqueen: Wanne'm wanyi. You shouldn't doubt hubby cuz it's very possible he was molested. What I seem not to understand is that these women/ladies can actually get older guys but I don't know why they go for kids. Same way the males can get sex from a prostitûte or mastürbate but they choose to destroy the lives of female children. I wish the law can be more strict on these kind of offenders. Thanks for reading. 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 8:18pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
Khiaa come out now, I can see you.. |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by biafranqueen: 8:28pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
francizy:Even in the USA the laws are lenient. A first time offender may not even go to jail. Trust me your story and others have really made me not to doubt his pain at all. Once again God Bless you for sharing this! 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by MarieSucre(f): 8:36pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
donpeey22:If you read my comment you'll see we're on the same page here. Its frustrating how an act this disgusting is over-looked or ignored more times than none because of the gender of the child. more must be done. 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 8:36pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
biafranqueen: Amen and may God bless you too... 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 8:42pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
MarieSucre: Some people don't actually belong to our school of thought cuz from their comments here you shall know them. Thanks for your contribution miss and I believe you will be/are a good mother.. |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Specialist900(m): 9:48pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
AgapeCharis:No come expose me here o. No be everybody know say I no pass jamb. Anyways since when line begin talk? I never read am yet 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 9:52pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
Specialist900:Try read am. You'll learn a thing. 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Specialist900(m): 10:40pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
AgapeCharis:sure I'll. Make I get chance 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 10:44pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
Specialist900:You dey get chance before? If na breezyrita tag you now you for don read the thread finish even do summary for her 2 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Specialist900(m): 10:55pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
AgapeCharis:see mouth. I no know wetin you just talk sha. I go read am when I get chance maybe tomorrow. Simples |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by khiaa(f): 2:06am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Tundellinium(m): 5:06am On Mar 05, 2015 |
francizy: confam you an correct orile guy... all those area still dey bubble now... |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 6:43am On Mar 05, 2015 |
khiaa: Hi dear, You abandoned your dear friend tho.. Seems like you've been too busy these days.. |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 6:54am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Tundellinium: For sure na. E suppose still dey bubble. I still recalled the following: Playing canter soccer, Gambling with rubber band, Spending one hour whenever I was told to go buy something (this was because I wasn't allowed time to play), Receiving confirm beating from my mum to reset my thinking faculty, Fetching water daily, Buying my best snacks "ewa agoin + fresh agege bread", Abi na the fresh hot agege + fried eggs and shai (tea) we bought from one malam at Tokosi, How we switched phase from Tokosi to Bale and vice versa and it seems NEPA do have us in mind cuz whenever we switch, the one we switch to will stop having power supply... Orile was fun tho.. I wish to write a song about Orile someday.. 1 Like |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by shitshappen(m): 11:13am On Mar 05, 2015 |
She was my favorite aunt, she is married now. We both live in the same city now ( Lagos of course) , I still pretend I was too young to remember. But I avoid her house like plague as a grown up. She is welcomed in my own home only when my mum comes visiting ( can't trust her as far as I can throw her, you know that thin line between pedophiles and rapists). To think she molested me several times in my own father's house. That was the bane of my problems. 3 Likes |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 3:06pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
MarieSucre:OK dear. I get your point now. |
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 5:03pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
shitshappen: You have to try and get over it.. You will scale thru with time.. Peace bro 1 Like |
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