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What Do You Think ? by phlio(m): 11:28pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
guys a friend of mine is so sad right now cos his dad made him believe that his a pure Yoruba guy only to realized that his mom is actually a Fulani woman from zaira...his dad made him believe his mother died some years back.guys I don't know what to type again am the guy pls help me.I can't stay with my dad tonight am ...#tears# 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think ? by falconey(m): 11:32pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
You mean your mum your dad lied she is dead is alive and lives in zaria? You should be happy. |
Re: What Do You Think ? by phlio(m): 11:36pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
falconey:I don't know if I sho be happy..or sad.am 23 sir a gruduate how do I face my mommy |
Re: What Do You Think ? by morethanadoll(f): 11:36pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
phlio:My advice to you is to grieve because that is the first step to accepting the news. You should then forgive your father from keeping the truth from you. I am not sure how it works in your culture, but you should try to talk to your father to gain some clarity on the situation. Why did he keep the truth from you? Maybe something happened and he was only trying to protect you? Either way, the Lord's word is to honor thy mother and father. I wish you the very best and I hope that you feel better. This, too, shall and WILL pass! |
Re: What Do You Think ? by phlio(m): 11:38pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
morethanadoll:I never knew am a product of a broken union |
Re: What Do You Think ? by OGeeKush(m): 11:40pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
He kept the truth for some reason. . All u gotta do is ask him why.. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think ? by iamodenigbo1(m): 11:43pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
take it in your stride |
Re: What Do You Think ? by Evina(f): 11:49pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
phlio: And now that you know, what damage has the sudden revelation caused? Has it changed WHO YOU ARE? 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Think ? by Nobody: 11:51pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
phlio:Cheers Man this is a good news @ last you'll see mum now |
Re: What Do You Think ? by phlio(m): 11:59pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
OGeeKush:..he said his family never supported d union am the only child.he got married but we lost her.I believe my dad cos I don't look much Yoruba my friends call me white Fulani. she z a medical doctor in kaduna state..she z not married too.going to see her tomor I don't know what it feels to have a mommy 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think ? by phlio(m): 12:00am On Mar 04, 2015 |
Evina:hmmm.okay thanks dear |
Re: What Do You Think ? by falconey(m): 12:06am On Mar 04, 2015 |
phlio:you are 23 and a graduate in this country #showmeyourCERT. |
Re: What Do You Think ? by Skillfullulu(m): 12:10am On Mar 04, 2015 |
phlio:is a sin to b product of a broken union? What effect as it got |
Re: What Do You Think ? by phlio(m): 12:18am On Mar 04, 2015 |
falconey:lol...thank u.am currently serving in lagos |
Re: What Do You Think ? by phlio(m): 12:18am On Mar 04, 2015 |
Skillfullulu:thank u sir |
Re: What Do You Think ? by falconey(m): 12:36am On Mar 04, 2015 |
phlio:am happy for you, when I was 23rd the highest I had is JAMB reg number.(Now in school) 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think ? by phlio(m): 12:39am On Mar 04, 2015 |
falconey:really good to know sir..u r a gud guy |
Re: What Do You Think ? by naijaboiy: 3:53am On Mar 04, 2015 |
Drink poison |
Re: What Do You Think ? by Nobody: 5:43am On Mar 04, 2015 |
phlio:hey keep ur head up, ive been through worse and besides u should b so greatful to ur dad for all hes given u and thank God ull finally get to see ur mom and the truth finally came out.....u responsible for ur own happiness and like everyone said it doesnt change who u are, U STILL STANDING 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think ? by OGeeKush(m): 7:25am On Mar 04, 2015 |
Re: What Do You Think ? by major466(m): 9:11am On Mar 04, 2015 |
Op, read my signature. |
Re: What Do You Think ? by phlio(m): 1:26pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
major466:thank u bro am so happy now |
Re: What Do You Think ? by phlio(m): 1:27pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
OGeeKush:yea I can testify |
Re: What Do You Think ? by Vyolet(f): 1:36pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
falconey:People graduate earlier than 23 in Nigeria. You don't blame anyone for your slow education. |
Re: What Do You Think ? by morethanadoll(f): 3:57pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
phlio:That is why I said to go ahead and grieve and then have a sit down and talk about it with your father. |
Re: What Do You Think ? by Dyt(f): 4:00pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
How come a friends story suddenly turned to urs? Na wa |
Re: What Do You Think ? by phlio(m): 4:00pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
morethanadoll:i did dear...am with my mom now |
Re: What Do You Think ? by morethanadoll(f): 4:20pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
phlio: Not that I am proud of my parents actions of conceiving me out of wedlock, but I am a product of a broken union. I do not approve of this, but as an adult, I understand that people make mistakes and in the process, they can be cursed or blessed. Either way, I would like to think of a child being born as a blessing because the gift of life comes our God himself! However, this didn't change that fact that both of my parents loved me dearly. It also didn't stop me from pursuing my dreams or my outlook on them as my parents. Your case may be a little different due to your mother not being there, and I may not be right completely, but am almost 90% positive that your mother will be happy to see you. You stated that you are a college graduate and that is not an easy accomplishment in general, no matter what country a person is from and I can speak for that! She will be proud! Good luck on your first visit! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Do You Think ? by morethanadoll(f): 4:24pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
phlio: YAY! I hope that everything is going very well for you! Keep us posted! |
Re: What Do You Think ? by mystiqueDZ(f): 4:42pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
falconey:huh?dude i graduated at 21 and no not a private university! Shuo |
Re: What Do You Think ? by phlio(m): 6:09pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
morethanadoll:yea so well over here...my mom is great am working on their reconciliation I mean dad n mom |
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