freecocoa:
You don't have to quote me before I set your stup1d a$$ straight, I shouldn't even dignify you with a reply because you are seriously sick in the head, you even refer to the pedo as "unlucky youngman" I'm not surprised because you are also a pedo, only such a one will see nothing wrong in what the corper did.

Your vivid description above clearly shows you glory in p*rn, obviously that involving children/teenagers, just continue, your cup is almost full and I bet you, karma is such a lovely b1tch.

Maybe after you visit a psychiatrist for treatment and have learnt how to write properly, then you can come back with an opinion worth reading, because what you call an opinion, is trash and it will be in your best interest to stop spewing it on here.

You shouldn't be allowed near children, you should actually be locked up because your kind don't deserve to see the sun.

freecocoa:
It's really a very sad situation that needs serious reflection, seems like most people in this country have sold their conscience, hence I don't bother myself with religion because it doesn't seem to have any positive impact on the people practicing it in Nigeria, I bet you these ones on this thread won't be able to live in the west, how can they when they have to abide by the law? Mschew.

GodMode:


Having a chat with you is worse than chatting with someone that's mentally sick...

Sophyrocks:


As long as you are dealing with a teenage girl which is against the law, you have abused her. In most cases, advances are made to this girls.Forget the consent. Its just because nigeria is a lawless country, if not that guy will rot in jail. Every right thinking man should know better not to have s.ex with underaged girls even if consent was given. Its utterly disgusting. As a teacher, you are in the best position to correct wayward children in the absence of their parents not to have s.ex with them. Any underage girl trying to seduce any corper must be reported to the school authorities and parents. but since a lot of these corpers always prove to be walking d1cks with lack of self discipline, they would give in. In fact, NYSC should make it punishable by law.

kunlenkirol:
good woman, you are very correct. The deed has been done and what is the way out for both parties. They still have a long way to go.

kunlenkirol:

When u begin to call people's opinion trash, then I begin to wonder what yours will be. Many of us don't face reality. We allow our emotions to becloud our sense of reason. A supposed SS1 student sleeping with brother... And brother who is supposed to be a role model sleeping with a supposed small girl. Who has d chunk of the blame. Both ofcourse. What is d way out? Abortion ofcourse. The guy will finish service and look for job in a country where the mighty get it by force and the girl too will loose some years taking care of the baby. To buy Cerelac 1,2,3 is a herculean task to man who is just climbing d ladder. It is not certain that d guy will marry her, if he did, they will end up divorcing or not loving each other cos they are not on d same page. To avoid all these, they should abort it esp now dt it is still a fetus, it cannt be regarded as a human person. Guy, go abort am.

freecocoa:
I'm very angry because the comments on this thread are sick.

A 23 years old in JSS1 is an exception so don't make it sound like that's the rule, the rule is mostly 10-13 years JSS1-3, 13 -17years or at most 18 in SS1-3, we had a 9 years old when I was in jss1, let alone now that kids start school earlier than before.

You can call it making mountain out of a molehill because you don't realize a crime has been committed, a teacher sleeping with his student is a crime(even if the girl is 100 years in secondary school), if the OP will be honest, he should come back and tell us how old the girl is or her age range, you and I know that if the girl is no teenager, this thread won't be in existence.

If you see nothing wrong with the comments only talking about the dude not wearing a condom, some even blaming the girl and others outrightly making stup1d jokes, bearing in mind that most SS1 students are teenagers, then I don't even know what to say to you, btw, how many 23 years old have you seen in jss1? Be honest.

freecocoa:
Seriously, it's not fun calling people names but sometimes people need it. I honestly don't know where to start with you cos you are speaking from both sides of your mouth at the same time.

$ex happened between a misguided or even spoilt SS1 girl and a full blown man who has passed through the four walls of a university, and you are asking who should take more blame? I am ashamed on your behalf.

I saw a comment of yours stating how hard this girls come at corpers, how hard it is to resist them and I shed a tear, you, a supposed learned person enters a village to serve and the secondary school girls who probably don't even know how to bathe properly yet,or even the nitty gritty of $ex/all that comes with it,seduce you and you boldly open your mouth to say it's not easy to resist, kai! You should tear your certificate, obviously the word 'class' is alien to you.

See you shouting "abort" like it's going to the mall to buy candy. Do you even know that the procedure can come with some complications? Do you know the medical history of this girl? Do you know the doctor she'll be taken to? Do you know anything about his qualification? This is how people's children are impregnated and killed on daily basis, are you sure you are a graduate? geez! What is wrong with you people?

I am only of the opinion that the girl's people be in the know of whatever is going on, so they can guide the girl into making the right decision, which in my opinion is, whatever she decides to do with the pregnancy.

chloride6:



To be honest I couldn't care less.

We all live on borrowed time.

We come We go. What's the hassle.

It aint worth living if its going to be in suffering.

paolo96:
In Gej's voice"ordinary youth servicing,you are calling it Pregnancy.Servicing is not Pregnancy,Pregnancy is different from servicing.We are going to put the necessary blockos removal machinery to stop servicing".

kunlenkirol:

You surely have class freecocoa. It class is inherent in ur profile name. Its obvious that u don't know how to talk in public. Must u attack another before u make ur point? Its a pity that somebody like u is allowed in dis thread. Why don't u make ur point and go. U also advised me to tear my certificate cos I made a statement that does not tally with ur way of like. U may not even be a worthwhile person, u may even be someone who is trying to appear good to gain cheap point. Bravo idiot! If u can say that to someone, I wonder what u look like. You said u shed tear, its ur choice to shed tears d 'holy' one. We are talking about reality u are talking about what u learnt in school. A problem is at hand, rather than make ur contribution, u decided to abuse people. Don't u know that when u attack one cos u feel his or her argument is not in conformity with urs and later give useful advise, no one will take ur suggestion serious but will decide to go after u. U better go and learn virtues. U that u are even talking, who know how many abortion u have made and u are here behaving like a fool.

dedons:
A corper friend of mine and colleague has impregnanted an ss1 student @ his PPA.

The girl is just a month pregnant now and my guy is confused.

Please help advise him before others know about it.

Thanks in anticipation.

rationalmind:


It isn't an exception to have 23 year olds in JSS1 and by extension secondary schools. It depends on where you look. You have decided to look at schools in the city using a classmate of yours as an example.

You have forgotten that in villages, northern villages especially, it's not unusual to find students within age groups 18-23 still in secondary school. Considering the fact the bulk of corpers are posted to remote areas, it's more likely that this SS1 student in question is a lot older than you think.

Secondly, you and I have different opinions on morality. I don't consider a crime, a sexual relationship between two consenting adults irrespective of whether one is a teacher and the other a student as long as that activity of theirs affects no other.

I might also have asked the guy why he didn't use a condom because I assume he's not a paedophile and the lady in question is above 18 years and you can feel he's a paedophile based on an assumption the lady is a minor.

It doesn't make you any more right than I am neither does it give you any moral grounds to refer to those with opposing assumptions fucktards.

Lastly, you raised a very valid point by saying the thread wouldn't have been necessary if the lady wasn't a minor. However, there are several other factors that might warrant the thread. He's just a Corp member with no source of income, he's not yet ready to father a child and lots more.

freecocoa:
If you are using northern villages as your yard stick for measurement then I can continue to say it an exception, as only the northern part of the country doesn't account for majority, plus a 23 years old in that part will be on the verge of becoming a grandma.

Coming to villages in general, there will be a divide, as most of the students will be below 23, most 23 years old in the villages are married with kids or engaged in one trade or another. #fact

This has nothing to do with morality, it is a criminal offense to be involved in a sexual relationship with your student. I bet you didn't consider this because Nigeria operates as a lawless country(most times) still, what is a crime is a crime.

I call them fucktards because they seem to support a criminal offense and if a corps member, someone who's passed through a university is irresponsible enough to impregnate his student and is seeking for help on what to do in a public forum, then by all means, he deserves some serious names calling.

Yea, no one is perfect but that doesn't mean we should celebrate stup1dity. Some things don't have a divide, so there's no point trying to be on different sides of morality here, this is one of such things, a spade should always be called a spade.

dedons:
A corper friend of mine and colleague has impregnanted an ss1 student @ his PPA.

The girl is just a month pregnant now and my guy is confused.

Please help advise him before others know about it.

Thanks in anticipation.

rationalmind:


Even if I agree with you that older ladies in secondary schools are exceptions as against the norm, you can't rule out the possibility that the SS1 student in question is an exception. No?

That's the difference between you and I. While I'm ready to entertain the possibility that the lady is matured hence refraining from criminalising the op, you refuse to consider it probable.

You did say that consensual sexual intercourse with ones student is a criminal offence irrespective of the age of the student. Where did you get that from? Under which law is it a crime?

freecocoa:
Oh please give me a break with the bla bla bla you are yapping, tackle the issue you brought up and stop grasping at straws mister.

1.You said refusing a minor's seduction is hard. Who reasons this way? I'll answer, a Pedo.

2. You made it seem like no big deal sleeping with a secondary school girl because she knows how to "feck", screams pedo again.

3.You screamed "abort" like it's a walk in the park without considering everything involved in the procedure. I ask again, are you sure you are a graduate?

4 Pot call kettle black much? Why didn't you take your own advice by making your point and also leaving? Why quote me?

5. I said you should tear your cert yes, not because your opinion doesn't tally with my way of life but because, you sound too ignorant for a supposed learned person.

6. Another dumb statement, trying to appear good to who exactly? Do you know me in person? You can start a thread asking NLanders if they know me, see how many does, so what will appearing good to a bunch of "ghosts" achieve? Gain What points exactly?does Seun pay people or give points for comments? seriously stop disgracing the university you supposedly graduated from.

7.The real reality is, it's a crime to sleep with an underaged person(which you seem to neglect) and then you suggest abortion in a country where abortion is illegal, dude seriously, pity yourself small, you too ignorant, get some knowledge.

8.Another real reality is, it is a shameful thing supporting wicked people including the OP calling it "facing reality" (then again you are one of them) so no surprise on that.

9. Playing the victim card by trying to paint the picture into me insulting you, is a very shallow/pathetic thing to do, you hope that people will back you up on this thread, perhaps?

10.I don't suffer f00ls gladly so I'm ever ready to put them in their place, you being the chief of them all here, more especially because you pretend to be enlightened when you are only but a dumb pedophilia supporter in disguise.

dedons:
he doesn't have the mind of commiting an abortion