Please, I need mature advice only

My cousin have been dating his girl friend since secondary school, he is now graduated and have a good job.....

But the problem is, he has slept with this girl like a thousand times and doesn't even enjoy her in bed any longer. He said he has enjoyed all marital privileges with her and now he is scared of getting married to a girl he doesn't have sexual pleasure with.

He is really confused right now as he doesn't know wat to do because he loves her.

Please, mature advice is needed.

shocked @ a thousand times!!!
If the girl should curse him now they will say women are wicked...
Issokay
Sex before marriage is good?
Sex before marriage is not good?
Am confused

After drying up her hineypot he's saying he's not interested shey?

some guys sha...

I blame the poor girl sha, she just dey open leg for the Nigga' without considering what might happen in the future

goldenone:
shocked @ a thousand times!!!
If the girl should curse him now they will say women are wicked...
Issokay
Sex before marriage is good?
Sex before marriage is not good?
Am confused

Dnt b shocked...... Cz d gal has also enjoyed my cousin...... Accordin to him he has spent almost half a million on ha....... He is tinkin seriously

U give them sex, the wuld say you're cheap, talk about how de slept wit u to their friends and won't respect u.
U don't giv them sex, they wuld say you don't lov them or care about their feelings.
What do guys want, why do so many men in their early, middle and late 30s still behave like teenagers?
Tell ur cousin dat he's a heartless bast.ard.

Do you really have to lie about the nigga being your cousin??

Just tell the truth let's know how best to help you out...

He loves her but he is tired of sleeping with her. Ermmmm

Okay he doesn't love her anymore, he is just used to her. Since he is fed up, he should just dump her and move on.
No biggie.

asdfjklhaha:
U give them sex, the wuld say you're cheap, talk about how de slept wit u to their friends and won't respect u.
U don't giv them sex, they wuld say you don't lov them or care about their feelings.
What do guys want, why do so many men in their early, middle and late 30s still behave like teenagers?
Tell ur cousin dat he's a heartless bast.ard.

a pained victim...pele...

asdfjklhaha:
U give them sex, the wuld say you're cheap, talk about how de slept wit u to their friends and won't respect u.
U don't giv them sex, they wuld say you don't lov them or care about their feelings.
What do guys want, why do so many men in their early, middle and late 30s still behave like teenagers?
Tell ur cousin dat he's a heartless bast.ard.

I Dnt tink he is heartless...... He hasn't said he wants to dump ha.... He jst shared his problem wt me n he wants advice

asdfjklhaha:
U give them sex, the wuld say you're cheap, talk about how de slept wit u to their friends and won't respect u.
U don't giv them sex, they wuld say you don't lov them or care about their feelings.
What do guys want, why do so many men in their early, middle and late 30s still behave like teenagers?
Tell ur cousin dat he's a heartless bast.ard.

You will go mad if you try to understand these bastards. Best thing is to not listen to their talk and do what you want.

If thurnder Fire you or your cousin now,u blame the innocent witches in your village.after sleeping with a girl thousands of time,she no com sweet again.

Tell your cousin or yourself to give d lady 6months break and Bleep another girls(no string attach) then go back to his wife(abi who u won dash,after y Don eat all her goodie goodie).he find pleasure in her

...it's not by force to marry, his problem is sex. 3minutes thing, nah wah.

Hmm..dats y courtin for a long tym isnt dat advisable.

He shouldn't marry the poor girl out of pity only to start cheating on her or maltreating her. He should leave her, biko. We are talking about a life time contract here...

At least he didn't put his signature there. It wound be painful to her but It's for her own Good. Some other cool dude would come along eventually.

shadowgwalker:
...it's not by force to marry, his problem is sex. 3minutes thing, nah wah.

Haba 3minutes!!!!!!!!!!! Dats too short na

Beamborla:
He shouldn't marry the poor girl out of pity only to start cheating on her or maltreating her. He should leave her, biko. We are talking about a life time contract here...

At least he didn't put his signature there. It wound be painful to her but It's for her own Good. Some other cool dude would come along eventually.

Tanx for d advice

Your cousin is stu.pid

How come he still loves her? I'm kinda confused here...
Will he also get tired of his wifey after dropping a dozen kids?

After banging the hell @ of her punny you now consider her not good enough hmmmm oga op clap for yourself welldone

Brandnew2:
How come he still loves her? I'm kinda confused here...
Will he also get tired of his wifey after dropping a dozen kids?

Am pretty sure he loves ha, cz up to dis moment sh neva lacks anytin, he gives ha everytin sh wants

Iamfrank:


Am pretty sure he loves ha, cz up to dis moment sh neva lacks anytin, he gives ha everytin sh wants

So he is paying for "bad sex"

He would have wifey'd her if he loved her.

Not paying for sex.... Bt actualy doin his work as a bf

Yareey:

So he is paying for "bad sex"

He would have wifey'd her if he loved her.

Lmao!

Iamfrank:
Pls nid mature advice only
My cousin have bn dating his gf since wen dey were in secondary school, he has nw graduated and hv a gud job..... Bt d problem is, he has slept with his gf a thousand times n doesn't even enjoy ha in bed any longer, he said he has enjoyed all marital priviledges wit ha..... Nw he scared of getting married to a gal, he doesn't hv sexual pleasure with..... He is realy confused rit nw n doesn't knw wat to do cz he loves ha....... Plz mature advice needed urgently

My brother, you dont know the value of what you have until you lose it. Pray and ask God for direction

Iamfrank:


Dnt b shocked...... Cz d gal has also enjoyed my cousin...... Accordin to him he has spent almost half a million on ha....... He is tinkin seriously

so nw he measures it all by finance. Next thing u say ladies r wat wat wat,weras u make dem sound like prostitutes.tell yo cousin to go to hell

Monicasque:


so nw he measures it all by finance. Next thing u say ladies r wat wat wat,weras u make dem sound like prostitutes.tell yo cousin to go to hell

D lady in question is d demandin type.....

In case.

Iamfrank:


I Dnt tink he is heartless...... He hasn't said he wants to dump ha.... He jst shared his problem wt me n he wants advice

What about a no-sex relationship for the main time. He needs to figure out how to spice up their relationship based something else other than sex.