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Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by GodMode: 9:56pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Abali1: Been SS is worse than a death sentence... |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by decode55(m): 9:57pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
CounsellorWise: Brainwashed Religious fanatic, I can't remember your father being the owner of NL. So, shut up. When next you see my post, look elsewhere |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by harry509: 9:58pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Fawklicant:u spoke well aniway, bt d child is AA, dats means she dos nt av d faith dat her 2nd child wil b AA or AS 2. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Tinyemeka(m): 9:59pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Islie: Yes that is enough to make her quit the marriage. If he was not initially aware of his genotype, that's a different story. They should be thankful that the first issue has an AA genotype. It would be heartless playing Russian Roulette and hoping that subsequent offsprings won't be SS. That is being heartless at its peak. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Abali1(m): 10:08pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
GodMode:You are simply ignorant, and by the way I am SS and I don't think am[center][/center] different from many people who consider themselves healthy. 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by mistiquephat(m): 10:10pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
This issue is a very sensitive one. I hate lies but love to forgive. But I hate seing my child in pain without anything I can do. Before u post ask this people if they can be contented with just only one child. #2 if they can't, can they afford taking care of a child with sickle cell? However, what are the other issues in that family apart from this predominant one? Brothers and sisters before you marry, pls do this for our generation unborn. Avoid being asked the question : Daddy why did u bring me here to suffer. My little penny. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 10:11pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
decode55: Dude, the forum may be faceless but that gives you no room to insult me. Don't ruin your life with your own mouth. Be warned! |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by photographer: 10:11pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
after all said.. I want to say the woman is right to put the relationship to an end this is not the first time am hearing something like this. I have seen experienced people who had a child by mistake before they found out about their genotype they ended the relationship and now they are married to different people thank God the first child was As. if you don't have an idea what it means to be a sickle here is an open forum for you to learn and not come and show the rest oo your ignorance. just ask and you shall know. am a sickler the single reason am still smiling with my parents is because they didn't know they got married without knowing they was something healthwise to check for.but now there is to much information everywhere that if you commit such blunder now your child will never forgive you oooo. so wise up all and break the chain never marry a genotype that will reproduce a sickler #word! 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Abali1(m): 10:12pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Smartestelvis:I choose to ignore your insults. But you can go through my threads to see for yourself, about the bolded. . I notice that Nairaland has been populated by people who get a kick out of insulting others. 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Missyetty(f): 10:12pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
ijustdey:u said just bcoz? Why did he even have to lied to her |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by GodMode: 10:14pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Abali1: I guess u like the fact that u're on drugs most of the time. I guess u like the fact that any part of your body can pain u at anytime... I guess u like the fact u can't do some physically stressful with no worries... I guess u like the fact that u can fall into a coma at anytime... e.t.c You're not sickler... So stop saying s:hit |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by obillyj(f): 10:17pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
If those of you blaming the woman know what it means to have an SS child, you will not wish it even for your enemy. I know of a family that had 5 SS children cos both parents are AS. This couple are alive burying their children one after d other. Is that what a woman should go through? Have u considered d pain SS kids go thru? D agonising cry, the trauma of having attack every now n then? The money involved in medicals? Not to talk if d uncertainty. The man lied, yes which is forgivable but do they have d faith to believe God to give them only AS or AA kids? Thank God d first is not a carrier. To me, it's a wise decision she took since she lacks d faith to trust God after all what's d point of bringing d kids to come n suffer such excruciating pain. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by decode55(m): 10:19pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
CounsellorWise: Keep quiet & stop issuing baseless & useless threats. If you can't stand the heat, stay the hell out of the kitchen |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Abali1(m): 10:19pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
GodMode:I guess you are new to Nairaland. Please go through my threads, I have got nothing to prove neither do I get to gain anything by lying. . Moreover, don't be ignorant. It's not everyone who is SS that lives on drug.............. If you are still in doubt send me a PM, and I will clear your doubts. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by GodMode: 10:19pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
harry509: Answer this question: There are two roads... The road to the left gives you a 75% chance of been successful while the road to the right gives u 25% chance... Which road will you choose?? |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by GodMode: 10:23pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Abali1: They all take drugs once in a while or often.... It depends on how sickle cells affects the person... The cells vary from person to person that's why a sickler might fall ill more often than another... |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Fawklicant: 10:24pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
harry509: She can't gamble with a human life. Fact is she can only have one AA child, 2 AS children and 1 SS child in every four children. The order in which they come is random. So would you rather have her gamble and sire a child that might just know only pain and anguish in its lifetime? I know not all sicklers die, but a lot do and the problem is not even in the dying, it is in the living in misery and anguish. They can't do sports, smoke and do a lot of things that we take for granted. Not forgetting the self esteem issues resulting from years of all the pity-party from people. With all the technological advancements, there is still no cure for it. This is a sickness that affects only black people, so who is gonna find the cure? Some sicklers eventually live successfully with it, but hey! What is the likelyhood? |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by harry509: 10:26pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
GodMode:ummmmM! Well is btw me n GOD ooh. Aldoh am nt yet married. I wil take 75% of it. Bt y did yu ask? |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by harry509: 10:27pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
GodMode:ummmmM! Well is btw me n GOD ooh. Aldoh am nt yet married. I wil take 75% of it. Bt y did yu ask?? |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Abali1(m): 10:29pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
GodMode:Please tell me other genotypes don't take medications from time to time? . My dear, I am not in support of anyone who is AS marrying another AS. No. The case in this thread is different. The woman is already married to the man, and already has a baby who is AA. Why then seek for divorce? If she needed more children why can't she adopt? What if her son had been SS, will she equally seek for divorce? Knowing fully well that the burden may fall on only her. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by kevoh(m): 10:30pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Smartestelvis:Now this is just unnecessarily rude. Back to the thread, apart from the fact that SS is just 25% chance happening, there's an alternative to deal with the Sickle Cell (SS) wahala for AS couples only snag is it dwells on what the couple might consider as morally right/wrong and might even be a bit pricey to carry out such procedure. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Abali1(m): 10:31pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Fawklicant:Please the bolded is a wrong assertion. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Fawklicant: 10:34pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Abali1: Nice point you made there especially in the last sentence. Another thing with adoption is that it costs a lot. I guess they would be better off not expanding the family for now considering the husband is a factory worker. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Fawklicant: 10:34pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Abali1: How so? Please enlighten me. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by GodMode: 10:35pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
harry509: You said: "u spoke well aniway, bt d child is AA, dats means she dos nt av d faith dat her 2nd child wil b AA or AS 2". You'd take a 75% chance to be successful... Now change this "roads" to the lives of your unborn children.. Will you take a 75% chance to have healthy children or a 25% chance |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by harry509: 10:37pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Fawklicant:I udastnd . Bt I blame her on d hand, eva since they got married, y is dat she jst notice it now? She ought 2 know frm d begining. Well 4 her hubby 2 lie 2 her, I tink d man deserv d divorce. Aldoh 1 cannot jst see fire n jump nside hopin dat he or she has faith it wudt get burnt, dat means u Rr temptin GOD. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Abali1(m): 10:38pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Fawklicant:The probability is in every birth. They could have 4 children and all will turn out SS or AS or AA or a mixture of all genotypes. 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 10:40pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
decode55: Beautiful phrase. I wish you the best as you take the heat wherever you are. Happy heat time off Nairaland. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by peterjero(m): 10:40pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
taryour:Leave Nairalanders and their little understanding of what life is, I've lost an elder sister and 4 cousins to ss due to ignorance and have a cousin with ss who just crossed 30 yrs that almost died last year of not for doctors live and care, imagine we spending over million in a government hospital to keep her alive, wonder if it was private maybe we would have come o the forum to beg. When Ymodulus wanted to kill himself last year them think say na clear eye. 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by GodMode: 10:41pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Abali1: You are not a sickler... Sicklers dislike their health limitations... why then can't they just commit suicide since they are already born sicklers The end of the marriage is not the end of life... Same way a true sickler knows that life goes on despite the health limitations... Its brings more joy to take care of children you birth rather than adopt.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by harry509: 10:42pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
GodMode:wen we get 2 d bridge we know wat 2 do |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Abali1(m): 10:44pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
GodMode:Believe whatever pleases you. 2 Likes |
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