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Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by Nobody: 7:25am On Mar 08, 2015
Maybe thats your own religion... I know of Christianity
Skako:
Xristianity na wash
Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by Nobody: 7:30am On Mar 08, 2015
The only commandment I have decided to keep is the 10 Commandment. Anything apart from that drives me insane.

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Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by Nobody: 7:33am On Mar 08, 2015
You lack so much. Where in heavens sake did i forbid a sinner? We as a Church go on evangelizm, most times discharged convicts visit our Church and we make provision for cloth and shelter even give them money,start a new life with them...is that hate? Please NOTE...I don't and can never condemn any sinner, but that doesn't mean you should continue in sin. You better repent my dear sister. Your argument is baseless and not necessary. I love you with the love of the Lord.
EggovinMma:



Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by slap1(m): 7:33am On Mar 08, 2015
pastorKosiso:
There is no relationship between a believer and an unbeliver. Period. Follow peace with all men still evil communication corrupts good manners (what has light got to do with darkness)
Pastor, your interpretation of things seem a bit skewed. How do you live in peace with someone you don't want to relate with (and clearly have a bias against)?

Not being on equal yoke with unbelievers doesn't mean we shouldn't interact with them or have them as 'friends'/ neighbours. Equal yoke, as I understand, means operating on the same frequency / bandwidth with them: sharing their thoughts, lifestyle and ideas. There is no escaping from relating with unbelievers because the Bible already said we're in the world. But we shouldn't be like them because we're not of (don't belong to) the world.

Thanks!
Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by Nobody: 7:35am On Mar 08, 2015
Do you know disobeying traffic is a sin? Is it in the ten commandment? Let's discuss
EggovinMma:
The only commandment I have decided to keep is the 10 Commandment. Anything apart from that drives me insane.
Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by Nobody: 7:36am On Mar 08, 2015
Brothers, be at peace with everybody says the Scripture. Those who are young in Faith will say no close friendship but as u grow u will understand. now let me the throw light on some Scriptures confusing u guys.
1. Do not be equally yoke with unbelievers: The Spirit is saying here that though u live among unbelievers and make friends with them u r to be different (unequal) in conduction I.e don't be partaker of their sins(Yoke)
2. Light have nothing to do with darkness: darkness here does not mean unbeliever but sin. Sin is darkness and as a Christian(light) you have nothing to do with sin(darkness ).
Brethren, I will urge us to live in the power of the Holy Spirit. Let's start testing the teachings of our fellowship and correct every wrong teaching. God help us all. You can add me on fb Olaleye Olusanya for spiritual things only.

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Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by Nobody: 7:37am On Mar 08, 2015
We are saying same thing bro..maybe i didn't put it well to your understanding. Thanks
slap1:
Pastor, your interpretation of things seem a bit skewed. How do you live in peace with someone you don't want to relate with (and clearly have a bias against)?

Not being on equal yoke with unbelievers doesn't mean we shouldn't interact with them or have them as 'friends'/ neighbours. Equal yoke, as I understand, means operating on the same frequency / bandwidth with them: sharing their thoughts, lifestyle and ideas. There is no escaping from relating with unbelievers because the Bible already said we're in the world. But we shouldn't be like them because we're not of (don't belong to) the world.

Thanks!
Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by menxer: 7:39am On Mar 08, 2015
an unbeliever does not necessarily mean an enemy.
an unbebeliever is one with a different believe than urself.

we are all unbelievers depending on our point of view.

to the OP, our focus should be on doing the right thing; if ur Christian friend cheats u in a business deal, and ur Muslim friend helps u make a profit in the business, who is now an unbeliever?

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Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by slap1(m): 7:39am On Mar 08, 2015
EggovinMma:



This people are highly hypocritical. Sometimes I wonder what actually runs through their heads. BOKO haram kills other Muslims who criticise them o . Some Christians are so wicked that even the devil will shudder. Can you imagine someone calling unbelievers enemies?Have dey forgotten the parable of the Good Samaritan? Wow! I pray not to come an inch close to religious fanatics.
Fanatism is bad. Calling someone an enemy implies you've passed judgement on the person, which the Bible is clearly against. A christian's greatest enemy is sin/ devil.

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Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by slap1(m): 7:41am On Mar 08, 2015
pastorKosiso:
We are saying same thing bro..maybe i didn't put it well to your understanding. Thanks
OK. You're welcome, sir.
Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by holatin(m): 7:41am On Mar 08, 2015
pastorKosiso:
May God have mercy on you.
are you really a pastor ?
you are worse than d devil I swear
Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by yomi007k(m): 7:43am On Mar 08, 2015
Who even wants to be friends with a hypocrite called a Believer?

Stay in u effling lane,mofos.

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Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by Nobody: 7:44am On Mar 08, 2015
Allow God be the judge...why are you in a haste? smiley
holatin:
are you really a pastor ?
you are worse than d devil I swear
Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by Nobody: 7:46am On Mar 08, 2015
samuelson06:


An Unbeliever is someone who does not believe on our Lord Jesus Christ. Such a person is an enemy.

I thought Muslims were the only set of people who believed that people of other religions were there foes. The truth is: there is no room for absolute peace when it comes to differences in religion!
Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by Nobody: 7:47am On Mar 08, 2015
Skako:
Xristianity na wash
Pls don't insult some once religion is not good.

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Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by mkpakanaodogwu(m): 7:53am On Mar 08, 2015
samuelson06:


How to know an Unbeliever is simple: you ask the person, do you believe in the Lord Jesus Christ? If person says yes, then how? The person must have confessed the Lordship of Jesus Christ upon his/her life according to Romans 9:10 else the person believed a vain thing.
and if he or she says yes?
Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by amareto: 7:54am On Mar 08, 2015
EggovinMma:
The only commandment I have decided to keep is the 10 Commandment. Anything apart from that drives me insane.

Jesus commandment is easier to keep.

Love your God and love your neighbors as yourself.

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Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by Nobody: 7:55am On Mar 08, 2015
samuelson06:


Lol. Calm down. I want to ask you: can you stay in the same house with any member of the Islamic sect, Boko Haram? See, you crush an enemy. It's either they are with us or they are against us. Either light or darkness. Either friend or foe.

This is interesting! The ideology that is in your head is the same same as that of all the Islamic terror groups; they also believe it's either you are with them or against them. Truly, I'm beginning to see that we are fast losing the spirit of tolerance.

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Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by kevoh(m): 7:57am On Mar 08, 2015
Religion is a joke. Religion a.k.a the belief in a particular god is the only thing that will make an adult stand right there and call someone who has done him no wrong an enemy! angry Where is the love brother?

Killing under the umbrella of Religious beliefs has been the cause of 90% wars in the world, take any era you like, it's the same thing.

Religion is the ultimate catalyst for total destruction of the World. Just wait till complete religious fanatics get hold of power in major countries and have total access/authority to nuclear bombs.

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Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by harbarzzy(m): 7:58am On Mar 08, 2015
Av it in mind u also an unbeliever to a muslim brother! Dats religion for u ooo!

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Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by garba89(m): 8:03am On Mar 08, 2015
samuelson06:


An Unbeliever is someone who does not believe on our Lord Jesus Christ. Such a person is an enemy.

Misunderstood:

This your interpretation is wrong and contrary to what Jesus teach. He can never see unbelievers as Enemy .
go and study The Holy Bible and Understand it.

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Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by Mclick(m): 8:04am On Mar 08, 2015
Friendships are in level and it should be defined. You can be friend to anyone but you have to maintain your faith and make sure your characters and postures portray or shows the light of you profess and believe or else you are no different from the so called unbeliever
Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by Revolva(m): 8:29am On Mar 08, 2015
I lafff all dis Yeye topic....imagine christian not to make friend. with unbeliever..wtf wat r u christains infact. Religious slaves tryin to do....ok let's see it like dis let's assume a christain dude is stranded somewhere no money no food and some strange dude...saw him n he asked for. help which d strange dude gave him. The help..now did dude is not a christain...so wat r u tellin me is d strange dude has done wrong and does not deserve friendship wit d xtain dude..?

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Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by Hexzyz(m): 8:35am On Mar 08, 2015
OGAofBOSS:
How do you intend to win them over? Is it when you are unfriendly to them?

How many have you won over?
Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by tartar9(m): 8:35am On Mar 08, 2015
see their comments.if it were Muslims that opens thread or make such comments all hell shall break loose.but the thing is,it is only by mouth; they don't practice their bible.

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Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by erico2k2(m): 8:44am On Mar 08, 2015
DaZion:
As we are now in this world.Many christians don't even bother to know whether is closest friend is a believer or unbeliever...
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Some even choose an unbeliever as their partner and mentor without knowing that they are diverting their spiritual life into an unspiritual life...

Brethren, Is it right/good to have close friendship with an unbeliever as a christian?
Brother STOP, its this kind of religious sentiment that leads to hate and violence, this is how it started in the Middle east and Northern Nigeria.
Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by erico2k2(m): 8:45am On Mar 08, 2015
tartar9:
see their comments.if it were Muslims that opens thread or make such comments all hell shall break loose.
True, you must realize in every religion we have people like this who are self centered and have no clue of what their religion teaches
Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by Nobody: 8:58am On Mar 08, 2015
As the Lord leads... I'm still on it. cheesy
Hexzyz:


How many have you won over?
Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by simpleseyi: 9:09am On Mar 08, 2015
DaZion:
As we are now in this world.Many christians don't even bother to know whether is closest friend is a believer or unbeliever...
.
Some even choose an unbeliever as their partner and mentor without knowing that they are diverting their spiritual life into an unspiritual life...

Brethren, Is it right/good to have close friendship with an unbeliever as a christian?

Are yo always as foolish as this or is it just the normal 5 minutes madness or a Sunday-Sunday stupidity? if not, please kindly explain who is an unbeliever. Is it the guy that refuses to give 10% of his salary to a jet flying pastor or the guy that says that he has to test-run his holy spirit appointed wife to- be so that he won't end up with an retired prostitute?

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Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by abdulaz: 9:09am On Mar 08, 2015
samuelson06:


An Unbeliever is someone who does not believe on our Lord Jesus Christ. Such a person is an enemy.
assumptions like this is the cause of Africa's present predicament.
It has come to my notice that we're all hypocrites. Mind you, I am an unbeliever so don't dare quote me.
Re: Is It Good To Have Close Friendship With An Unbeliever As A Christian? by xreal: 9:12am On Mar 08, 2015
tete7000:


And who does the will of God except one who believes in him (a believer)? Anyone who claims he believes in God and doesn't do the will of God is not a believer but a pretender. Being Christian means being Christlike. One can't be a true Christian without doing Christ's wish and exhibiting His traits. We are either Christian or we are Charlatans. Even though the world has turned 'Christian' to a title of one who goes to church but its real meaning is one who is like Christ. It wasn't a title early disciples gave themselves but one bestowed on them by the society they lived because of their way of life.

Can you associate only with those who does the will of God only in this world? Christ pray for his disciples and said 'I take them from the world; ... My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one' (John 17:6,15).
As longer as we are in this part of the divide we will need to associate with believers and non-believers alike but in Paul telling us not to be evenly yoke, he warned we can't operate with the standard of the world. If we stick to Godly standard, our best friends and close confidants can't be anything but those like us. This is why Christ said 'If you belong to the world, it will love you as its own' - (John 15:19) - you have you best friend from there. However our continuous existence here implies we will everyday needs to deal with believers and non-believers alike. It is the nature of our dealing with non-believers that will actually determine whether we will make heaven or not. The question on judgement day will be: 'In dealings with the world, do we seek to bring God to it or do we condescend to its standard and becomes like it? Do we inspite of opposition and hostility the world offers us continue to love God and seek to transform the world or do we allowed ourselves be transformed by the world?'
Brb

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