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Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by Temihatz(m): 7:05am On Mar 09, 2015 |
silvertuke: Matured mind. U so right. |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by Edusouls(m): 7:06am On Mar 09, 2015 |
excellent my guy, well said.look at witches in disguise,filled with iniquities and dirty ways are looking for a goodman, which most of them have come across, uselessed and dumped, these girls will end up single and unhappy... xmich: 1 Like |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by Nobody: 7:07am On Mar 09, 2015 |
vicadex07:Keep deceiving yourself. For your information, It's not all girls that crave for bad guys and you don't expect an introverted girl to like a bad guy. @Emboldened, that's the greatest lie. Don't use yourself to judge other people- good guys have an uptmost priorities in life than looking for many girls to lure at their pecks. Nonsense! |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by anonym0us: 7:09am On Mar 09, 2015 |
The weed u smoke is off good quality if u think such guys with that qualities exist |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by Edusouls(m): 7:09am On Mar 09, 2015 |
these leeches dont build a man, they add nothing to a mans life,they just suck dry and render useless, then shift to the next victim... ckydanny: |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by Nobody: 7:09am On Mar 09, 2015 |
Op, get a clay and mould him yourself. |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by iceberylin(m): 7:09am On Mar 09, 2015 |
temitemi1:lol |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by onegig(m): 7:10am On Mar 09, 2015 |
This question has been answered by social scientists wbo looked at relationships and human behaviour. They found an astounding result. That the average man rated average women as average but The average Woman rated average men as below average. I.e when a man sees a woman, if she's good, She is good. But women see or rate seemingly good men as below par. They have higher tastes and want better things even if they are not better themselves. You see a lady who's not beautiful, lacks manners and on a good day can be rated just 4 would always want to date a guy who's either a 9 or 10. Tall, dark, successfull and so on. That is if people are rated on the scale of 1 -10. This has led to a scenario and according to the research. 80% of all women are seeking 20% of the male folks(I.e Only 20 % of males can be rated a 9 or 10 which most women desire) And these guys rated 9 or 10 are also seeking to marry ladies who are only 9 or 10. And the remaining 20% of females are saddled with the rest 80% of guys.. A typical example was given. Look back at when you were in University. Guys in the top 20% were the ones who almost had like 80% of all the ladies swarming around them. Ladies always wanted the best in all ramifications not minding that demographics doesn't support that. The only time they are ready to reconsider their long lists of wants and desires in a man is when age is catching up on them and there is a bit of societal pressure on them. What constitutes a 10 or an ideal man may be different for different species of the female folk. For the materialistic(a car, mansion may be their ideal description of a man who is a 10) For the religious lady( ability to speak in tongue, read the whole Quran off hand, take care of her, all smiles, be able to fast for 50 days non stop maybe what constitutes a 10 to her) For the Village girl( The guy having a large swat of farm, be of royal family or own a cheiftaincy title, strong, kill a lion and overall take care of her maybe what constitutes a 10) For the city or so called romantic girl( Have money, sing luklaby for her before going to bed, have money, own a ride, work with a big coy, be romantic etc maybe what constitutes a 10) Which always lead to that same question. Why are all the good men taken? The good men have always been there. Women just rate them below par and always want the top percentile which is just 20% of all the male population. Tone down those unrealistic requirements and you would see that good men abound around you. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by efifiemike(m): 7:12am On Mar 09, 2015 |
Most good guys have been played & so went rogue since you girls like 'em "JIM IYKE" |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by jemype(m): 7:15am On Mar 09, 2015 |
Well to be serious its not just you. Its the unique way God made all ladies.lets put it this way- God made all men to want "1 thing from many ladies" and all "ladies to want many things from one man". I believe u understand what i mean.Just look at the list of things you want and ask yourself how many things of them are you willing to teach him? And you will start seeing those guys around or you will lower ur standard to build a guy. I speak because i am one of the guys you are talking about but i learnt half of what you speak of from a lady who built me nd grew tired of me. But now its payback. omowumee: |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by sammyogboso(m): 7:16am On Mar 09, 2015 |
Am freeeeeeeeeeee nt taken |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by valmunich(m): 7:17am On Mar 09, 2015 |
Hmmm... You actually need clay so you can mould this guy yourself |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by Nobody: 7:17am On Mar 09, 2015 |
silvertuke:You guys should get out with this your stùpid stereotype. It's getting stale already. There's nothing like friendzone. Stop making moles out of nothing. If I want a girl to be my friend, kini big deal? You think it's all guys that revolve and hibernate around having sex. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by ekmike(m): 7:20am On Mar 09, 2015 |
cutieepearl:You think they are hard to find, Look at the right direction, you'l find them. |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by eamodu(m): 7:20am On Mar 09, 2015 |
[quote author=omowumee post=31045982]you know...those kinda guys that: they talk less n do more they put you in their future plans they dress responsibly they have decent jobs they are good looking they dont give unnecessary stories they dont want a "no-strings" sex relationship they cook soo well too.. the list goez on...is it jez me or are they all taken...?[/quot we are still remaining,stop ur search and come to papa. |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by ekmike(m): 7:22am On Mar 09, 2015 |
swtme:Your words strike me hard. I feel like I deserve better |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by Nobody: 7:25am On Mar 09, 2015 |
omowumee:you think any good guy would come close to you with ur signature and political orientation? only the touts will. |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by ajealadick(m): 7:27am On Mar 09, 2015 |
omowumee: Point of correction, am still available, find out yourself if you are a good girl too. |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by tolustx(m): 7:31am On Mar 09, 2015 |
omowumee:Trust me, d good guys are out dr. Just dat such may not be complete with all dos qualities at a time. It is even d good ones dat d babes avoid. U gals prefer having dem as friends. They are d "nice guys". A friend say "d boy is nice, apa lo n je be. And u forgot to sat they don't cheat. |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by joshrare(m): 7:32am On Mar 09, 2015 |
That concept "good guys" give them a few shortcomings that make the ladies stay off their tracks Trust me, if he possess all qualities listed above and lack a good/decent job with fat envelop, he's no longer a 9ice guy coz he wouldn't doll out the cash n gift as required by them ladies. Then again, if the decent/good job isn't there it is practically or almost impossible to dress well.... And being a nice guy he wouldn't want to get involved in dirty deals,. So he manage what he has, a few cheap clothes, squat with family or friends, eats any available food not what he really want to eat and so on.... Judging by your list, how can a guy be nice without a decent/good job? Therefore, bearing your list in mind I hear by conclude that there are a million nice/good guys out there but they lack on quality, "money/decent job" Money makes a guy nice/good @op there are other qualities reputed to good guys outside those qualities listed there |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by anwo247: 7:32am On Mar 09, 2015 |
swtme: They way you fall for irresponsible boys who don't appreciate you. The ones that appreciate you have be termed too clingy/always around. You needed space and now you have all the space. But don't forget, GEJ till 2019 1 Like
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Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by Nobody: 7:33am On Mar 09, 2015 |
omowumee: Good girls attract good guys. Its natural! If u dress decently, have a decent job, cook so well, have future plans, gist/gossip less, u will attract the good guys. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by EOOJ(m): 7:34am On Mar 09, 2015 |
cutieepearl: Naa so e suppose dey na |
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Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by krisrock(m): 7:36am On Mar 09, 2015 |
Such guys are in the friend zone put there by the likes of you op |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by Lstar4real(m): 7:36am On Mar 09, 2015 |
Ladies them self don't want good guys....remembered a story of my lady friend... We been Together as friends for over 3years and nothing between us.. One day she abused me.. .and said am Too quiet.. M Too shy.. She has never see my kind of guy before.. we knew each other for long and I never asked her out..m always at home...in fact no girl will dated me.. .m boring...m these n DT. ..Just watch it... U will hardly find one & if u get it & u might take it for granted Funny part this Op and the girl are bearing the same name lmao |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by Bifwoli: 7:39am On Mar 09, 2015 |
Cutehector: Perfect girls are not real and real girls are not perfect. |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by okunboy: 7:39am On Mar 09, 2015 |
omowumee: Get urself a cook or a houshouse-boy, not a boifriend |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by Hawlahscho(m): 7:40am On Mar 09, 2015 |
omowumee: You kept listing my characteristics and yet saying I'm taken. My questing is (by who?) |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by Nobody: 7:40am On Mar 09, 2015 |
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Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by iamrahoof(m): 7:41am On Mar 09, 2015 |
omowumee:Just holla at Whatsapp @ 08157265929........am gonna show what a good guy is like though I just broke up with my gf cos she cheated |
Re: Why Are All The Good Guys Taken? by iamord(m): 7:42am On Mar 09, 2015 |
swtme:cos in the midst of in-appreciation. You won't appreciate them either. |
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