nwadiuko1:
please what's erotomaniac?...... I know maniac bt d oda one I dnt knw

Its a delusional psycho.

People with erotomania see signs of love when there isn't none. These people would believe that a celebrity is totally in love with them just by watching them on tv & spending time "decoding" "secret love messages" from the said celebrity. If their celebrity love interest were to blow a kiss on tv, the erotomaniac would believe it was meant for them etc.

PunkyBrewster:


Its a delusional psycho.

People with erotomania see signs of love when there isn't none. These people would believe that a celebrity is totally in love with them just by watching them on tv & spending time "decoding" "secret love messages" from the said celebrity. If their celebrity love interest were to blow a kiss on tv, the erotomaniac would believe it was meant for them etc.

chisos!
Thanks.....new word acquired

Rapmoney:
U think you are magician that can twist people's mind abi?

truly I say to u again, u needn't patronise Africa magic or be a magician to succeed where others fail

Dioxidane:
It's one of those things, it could be to your benefit though...
A 'friend' met a girl at a party, they clicked immediately, they exchanged contacts, the guy invited her to his house, he convinced her to pass the night, they watched movies, he
made 'moves' severally, she declined vehemently with all
girlish rants (you know them) and he was mad at her 'cos as
you know, Konji na bastard. To cut story short, he later
found out she was HIV positive. So like I said earlier, those
kind of 'eff ups' could be to your benefit (sometimes)...

May this kind of blessing always be my portion.
Ameen.

Cutehector:
Its so annoyin eh. Nowadays I dnt even chyke ladies anymore. I just see dem and let dem be

lol

korekt pesin!!!

nwadiuko1:
chisos!
Thanks.....new word acquired

PunkyBrewster:


Its a delusional psycho.

People with erotomania see signs of love when there isn't none. These people would believe that a celebrity is totally in love with them just by watching them on tv & spending time "decoding" "secret love messages" from the said celebrity. If their celebrity love interest were to blow a kiss on tv, the erotomaniac would believe it was meant for them etc.

ur talking bout something entirely different. Erotomania, a delusional disorder, can't be used to describe the state of mind of the guys in the scenarios painted by the op

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Ayosh:
ur talking bout something entirely different. Erotomania, a delusional disorder, can't be used to describe the state of mind of the guys in the scenarios painted by the op

Oh yes it can because both are seeing signs that are not there. Misreading cues.

Btw, in my initial post, I'm using the term loosely. In a tongue-in-cheek manner so also loosen up, Dr Ruth.

Kirinwa:
Hear the bitter truth.

Almost every girl claims to have a boyfriend whether imagined, assumed or presumed I know not.

Never make the mistake of asking a girl to be your girlfriend cos like I said they 'always' have a boyfriend.

Just assume she's your girl and let your heart guide you. Take her out and hang out with her. Catch fun together and be happy whatever she does after she leaves you shouldn't bother you.

JUST BE HAPPY!

You made a point here... asking a girl be be your lover delay some many reaction. it is just to assumed she is and play along... she will be more comfortable with you then... before you know, water don pass garri...

Girls sometimes are just so naughty. They give the green light and it is time to reciprocate, they start behaving strange.


I remember then in school, there was this law student. The girl always like us to be together, sometime she will introduce me to her friends as her boyfriend. Morale come high like electric pole. As a sharp guy now, the next time is to perform the boyfriend home work by drilling hard.

I invited her to my place but didn't make moves the first time, so she will be free and confident with me. She came herself the following day with her hot short skirt( trust female law student). She carry well package back... Oboyy see goodies... I started the bleeping lines but to my greatest surprised, the babe change am for me ooo.... she refused to open the gate way... She said our causal friendly is better. I told her I can't ooo, that if I don't enter the gate way, we will dissolve the friendship ooo



It took me another 1month to enter the gate way... You can't just understand women.... The one that play hard is simple to drill but the ones that play simple is sometimes hard to drill....

We continue to learn them.... Do more than observation...

Cutehector:
Its so annoyin eh. Nowadays I dnt even chyke ladies anymore. I just see dem and let dem be

same here bro... same here

asdfjklhaha:

And stop try to sleep with every girl you come across if u hav no intentions of marrying them! You gat it?

For your mind abi?? Runz girl wey dey form saint

Dioxidane:
It's one of those things, it could be to your benefit though...
A 'friend' met a girl at a party, they clicked immediately, they exchanged contacts, the guy invited her to his house, he convinced her to pass the night, they watched movies, he
made 'moves' severally, she declined vehemently with all
girlish rants (you know them) and he was mad at her 'cos as
you know, Konji na bastard. To cut story short, he later
found out she was HIV positive. So like I said earlier, those
kind of 'eff ups' could be to your benefit (sometimes)...

Are you implying that he wouldn't have protected himself?

PunkyBrewster:


Oh yes it can because both are seeing signs that are not there. Misreading cues.

Btw, in my initial post, I'm using the term loosely. In a tongue-in-cheek manner so also loosen up, Dr Ruth.

u don't geddit do u? Do away with d Dr Ruth part will you, even used loosely d word doesn't fit.at all. Cos DAT wud mean anyone who reacts to a supposed 'green light, is an erotomaniac,which is not true. Erotomaniacs misread the cues,make moves on their victims, get told they've misread d cues,get beaten,disgraced even arrested and jailed yet believe still their victims want them.its a psychosis which stays even if ur told otherwise and I refuse good-naturedly that word be used even 'loosely' in the context in question.

Cutehector:
Its so annoyin eh. Nowadays I dnt even chyke ladies anymore. I just see dem and let dem be

my guy just keep trying on a just a relaxed profile, with patience just chat with some of them, slowly u get closer, women are a problem men demanded from God and he gave it to us, there is so much wickedness in their hearts, so handle them with caution..

Ayosh:
u don't geddit do u? Do away with d Dr Ruth part will you, even used loosely d word doesn't fit.at all. Cos DAT wud mean anyone who reacts to a supposed 'green light, is an erotomaniac,which is not true. Erotomaniacs misread the cues,make moves on their victims, get told they've misread d cues,get beaten,disgraced even arrested and jailed yet believe still their victims want them.its a psychosis which stays even if ur told otherwise and I refuse good-naturedly that word be used even 'loosely' in the context in question.

Not my problem if you can't read cues such as humour in written word. I can't help you with that. You must have Asperger if you can't tell that I was being light when I made that statement. Not everything is serious business online abeg.

Now please drop this petty butthurt & have some tea...with me. lol!

Girls are really a confused set of people. Why give a guy the green light and you eventually turn him down?
This happened to me two weeks ago and and it wasn't funny because I thought getting the girl would be a stroll in the park!

To understand women, read dis

Ayosh:
truly I say to u again, u needn't patronise Africa magic or be a magician to succeed where others fail

I'd rather succeed in making money than succeed in women's issue

234GT:
Girls are really a confused set of people. Why give a guy the green light and you eventually turn him down?
This happened to me two weeks ago and and it wasn't funny because I thought getting the girl would be a stroll in the park!

Hehehe

women were meant to be enjoyed by men, they are God's gift to men, but the devil deceived and made convenant with women and badly polluted their spirit at eden, too baad too late, women turned into a sought of curse and tool of easy downfall of men,beautiful wickedness, perfect deceit, extreme selfishness, and other baad vices took place wholly in their hearts..thats why men are going through hell on earth in the hands of our so called helper, and unfortunately this is how it will be till the second coming of christ...

Ayosh:
u don't geddit do u? Do away with d Dr Ruth part will you, even used loosely d word doesn't fit.at all. Cos DAT wud mean anyone who reacts to a supposed 'green light, is an erotomaniac,which is not true. Erotomaniacs misread the cues,make moves on their victims, get told they've misread d cues,get beaten,disgraced even arrested and jailed yet believe still their victims want them.its a psychosis which stays even if ur told otherwise and I refuse good-naturedly that word be used even 'loosely' in the context in question.

Thanks. I appreciate your post!

PunkyBrewster:


Not my problem if you can't read cues such as humour in written word. I can't help you with that. You must have Asperger if you can't tell that I was being light when I made that statement. Not everything is serious business online abeg.

Now please drop this petty butthurt & have some tea...with me. lol!

Erotomania. Now Aspergers. Guess its a Nigerian thing after all using sensitive words ever so loosely. But next time u explain d meaning of a word to someone, paint d whole picture cos ur student might start to use d word ever so loosely as well without researching further. Now butthurting ended and tea accepted.no lol

Rapmoney:
Hehehe

Seroiusly, the girl would come to my office and give all sorts of body languages. When I asked her out, she said she is in a serious relationship!
Why should you give me false hope? Like super eagles?

Rapmoney:
Thanks. I appreciate your post!

thanks,Mr Rapmoney. Ur appreciation is appreciated

Like I toasted one. We used to greet well o. After the toasting I noticed she started dressing to impress. But she stopped greeting me. Me sef, I just bone.

Yesterday, my phone just beeped with a text msg, " Sweetheart call me, I beg you in the name of God ". I checked the number via true caller, it was not registered, I checked on whattsapp and saw it was her cause I had earlier deleted her contact.

I called her, she started ranting up and down, how I have deleted her number, I couldn't just make one meaning out of all she said for 5 long minutes of wasting my call credit..

Rapmoney:
I'd rather succeed in making money than succeed in women's issue

how typical! Funny how guys so deftly hop on d money making bandwagon the moment they are being thought as 'not successful' with women

Cutehector:
Its so annoyin eh. Nowadays I dnt even chyke ladies anymore. I just see dem and let dem be

Correct!!!

She that'll come will come.

Edusouls:
women were meant to be enjoyed by men, they are God's gift to men, but the devil deceived and made convenant with women and badly polluted their spirit at eden, too baad too late, women turned into a sought of curse and tool of easy downfall of men,beautiful wickedness, perfect deceit, extreme selfishness, and other baad vices took place wholly in their hearts..thats why men are going through hell on earth in the hands of our so called helper, and unfortunately this is how it will be till the second coming of christ...

Thanks for that wonderful sermon. I will come to your church on Sunday

Ayosh:
Erotomania. Now Aspergers. Guess its a Nigerian thing after all using sensitive words ever so loosely. But next time u explain d meaning of a word to someone, paint d whole picture cos ur student might start to use d word ever so loosely as well without researching further. Now butthurting ended and tea accepted.no lol

Ok listen 1) I'm not a Nigerian
2) I'm not here to educate anyone. I can only give a limited amount of info, the rest is up to them if they wanna know more about a subject.
3) Scones or muffins? To go with the tea.