SweetyZinta:
maturity, smart, creative, sense of humour, engage in positive things and either Legitimate or Illegitimate source of income

CloneX:
I didn't see "have money" in that list.

If there's no money, the relationship is a fallacy.

free2ryhme:
For example their body, smile, clothes, personality, etc...

I'm just curious as to what is your main interest in a guy and why.

Xiadnat:


Theoretically or practically?

For the most part, I don't know. Sometimes chemistry, attraction and interest don't make sense.

That's why there are so many dysfunctional relationships and marriages.

free2ryhme:



even with the dysfunctional there was first an initial attraction / interest

Xiadnat:


I am pretty much taking the philosophical twist to this; I have no idea what has peaked my interest in certain gentlemen I have dated in the past.

It just happens.

free2ryhme:



there must be something expect you cant place a finger on it

Xiadnat:


Pretty much. Weird isn't it?

free2ryhme:


not surprised. every one with his / her own preference however at least one thing must exist

Xiadnat:


And what is it this one thing that must exist?